Complaint Review: AdultFriendFinder.com

CAUTION MARRIED AFF USERS


AFF users--especilly married men seeking "a discreet relationshiop"-- must be acutely cautious of the scams being perpetrated by a few unsavory AFF subscribers. Just imagine: a lonely sex-starved house wife posts that she is not getting satisfaction from her husband anymore, and wants to talk with some who will get her excited and whom she can excite with lascivious suggestions. Our team followed up one such operator. (?Touch me, I'm wet?) Here are the clues and what to watch out for:

1. Their profile will be very short and devoid of details but hinting at dark desires:

My Ideal Person:
"Someone who will spend time with me talking about how to satisfy each other sexually. Erotic chat, while you show me what is going on with your body. Make me touch you! "

Note the drill: First she'll give you something--hot chat; then you give her something in return--photographic evidence of your lust-crazed body. In other words, she wants to arouse you with hard-to-prove chat, and then collect hard evidence to threaten to show your wife.

2. She'll first see if you're married (otherwise less blackmail possibilities). But she'll volunteer that she prefers married guys!

3. They will contact you and suggest you "talk" on her personal Instant Messaging. Note, you could talk over the phone, but that would require some good acting ability. IM let's "her" be anyone, even a "he." And she can be IM-ing more than one rube at a time. One scamster suggested switching from AFF to Yahoo IM. When she was told the user only had AOL, she adroitly volunteered that she also had AOL! (How many lonely housewives have two Internet providers?)

4. Then you'll get her "performance.? Here she'll spend five minutes or so suggesting what she wants you to do to yourself (and what she'd like to do to you if only you were together). Oh how exciting this is for her. Oh, how hot she's getting. All the while she will be making lascivious suggestions that, when you examine them in cold light, are nothing less than her asking you to provide incriminating evidence of your philandering to someone you have no idea who she is. But they know you. Send her a photo of your member; send her a video of you masturbating. ?What would your wife say if she knew what you are doing--tee-hee?? is the crux question that tells you you are mincemeat.

Tom
Boston, Massachusetts
U.S.A.