Amanda Kole - Macomb County Friend Of The Court Friend of the Court employee files a false police report Mount Clemens Michigan
Isn't Macomb County Friend of the Court great? One day I have to go in there for a hearing to have my child support reduced. I have my wife with me as my name is called. As we are walking to the door to go into the back conference rooms, the FOC employee, Amanda Kole, puts out a stiff arm to my wife and says "just him". So I go into the back and am escorted into Ms. Kole's office. I have a smile on my face, trying to be pleasant. Before I even sit down, Ms Kole snidely says, "I don't know what you think I am going to do for you, your child support is already about as low as it can get." So I can see where this is going.
So she goes to sit down, and asks me to give her my paperwork. I pull my chair a few inches closer to her desk and she snaps at me,"don't move your chair any closer." So now I'm thinking, this is clearly a woman who was abused as a little girl. I provide her with my pay stubs. At the time, I wasn't working a whole lot. I was an executive loan officer with a company but when the mortgage crisis hit, my commissions dropped to basically nothing. She say to me,"How come you want your child support reduced?" I begin to respond,"well, the mortgage business is hurting and................" She cuts me off.
"How come your not working here any more?" she rudely asked. "There is no business out there and I......." she cuts me off again. "It says here that you made $xxxx in 2006," again with the real nasty tone. "Yes, I was making good money when the market was...." she cuts me off again. "How come you're not making this much money any more?"
At this point, I feel like I'm talking to a retard. So I snap back at here, "What part of 'I'm not making that much money' don't you understand." Of course, now I've done it, I've offended her. So she stands up and says, "This interview is over." Big surprise there. It was over before I even walked in the room.
But as I'm leaving with her holding the door open, she steps in front of me. I had to come to a screetching hault at this point. So she starts yelling at the top of her lungs, "I need a bailiff....Bailiff, Bailiff.....don't you go anywhere."
So I leave the office and out of the building. About 5-10 mkinutes later, I get a call on my cell phone from a bailiff saying that I assaulted her. I denied it, as it wasn't true.
About two weeks later, my ex-wife informs me that her sister-in-law knows Amanda Kole as they lived in the same neighborhood. She was basically gloating and telling me that I didn't stand a chance from the minute I filed the motion. You have to love the corruptness of American politics.
Needless to say, my child support didn't get adjusted. They claimed that I never provided them with W-2's which I did. I guess that was the best Ms. Kole could come up with since her assault charge was dismissed.
Time to Fight
Troy, Michigan
U.S.A.
6 Updates & Rebuttals
Lisa Markowicz Huddleston
Birmingham,Michigan,
USA
Well, Amanda Kole definitely is a bi*h but
#7Consumer Comment
Tue, November 09, 2010
if you are a woman then you've got it made. I was in court today, my ex-husband couldn't even get a word in inch wise. He tried to serve me twice, I played stupid and she ripped him a new a$s. I guess I can now kind of feel sorry for him having to deal with her. I was told by my own attorney that if I tried to serve papers twice and they are not accepted, then I can mail registered mail which I did last time.
Well she wouldn't let my ex do the same to me. I didn't quite understand that one but it worked to my advantage. If you are a woman, you have got to have Amanda Kole, she hates men.
Sam
Michigan,USA
Amanda Kole, you are awful
#7Consumer Comment
Sat, October 17, 2009
I really thought the original report was perhaps a little bit of an exaggeration. But apparently not. Amanda Kole is just a sorry excuse as a public servant AND as a woman. Macomb county, in particular, has always been a joke as far as the Friend of the Court. If they are hiring low-lifes lie her, I can understand why. Parenthood is a 50/50 thing, divorced or not. If you don't play on trying to raise your child with both parents then you might as well just send your babies to prison when they are born.
Obviously, I'm exaggerating but it's almost true.
Show Me The Money
Bloomfield Hills,Michigan,
USA
Amanda Kole is a poor excuse to be a public servant
#7Consumer Comment
Wed, September 23, 2009
I can't believe she had the guts to come on here herself and post that response. And thank you to the mother that confirmed that men can be an important and vital part of a child's life.
As for Amanda Kole, does your boss know that you are prejudice and about the childish games you play? You are pathetic and everything that is wrong with the Friend of the Court. Parents would be better off just taking care of business by themselves as opposed to that kind of an attitude by a government employee.
Clearly, you don't have the childrens' best interest in mind with that attitude.
Drachenfuer
Allentown,Pennsylvania,
U.S.A.
Get a Life
#7General Comment
Wed, September 23, 2009
This is to the obviously female reply just posted before.
Wow. Can you be any more sexist or ignorant? Just because you had a bad experience with a man or heard others, not all men are liars and cheats just as I fervently hope the men who read your reply do not automatically state all women are phychotic sexist morons as I certainly would from reading your so-intelligent reply.
Just because you hear a lot of bad things doesn't mean they are ALL bad. Keep in mind the squeaky wheel gets the greese. You don't hear good things because....well imagine hanging around a party and someone says, "Hey my husband is current on our child support and he even sent the birthday gift early!" Most people would find that boring. Good juicy gossip or complaints is soooo much more fun.
There are good men out there. Just as, thank God, there are sane and good women as well. Stop being an idiot and start living your life for your kids, not your hatred of someone else.
BTW I am female and a mother.
FOC
Michigan,USA
Every father out there is a liar
#7
Tue, September 22, 2009
I haven't met a father yet that tells the truth about their income. A man can go out and sleep around, drink, make money, and do whatever they want. Well, the FOC isn't stupid. We know men always make more money than they claim to make. In my personal opinion, a man's role in being a parent is one thing----and that only takes about 30 seconds.
Children would be much better off to just have a mother and let the father be on his merry little way. And did I mention that all men are liars too?
EuchreNut
Royal Oak,Michigan,
USA
Amanda Kole is a joke
#7
Tue, September 15, 2009
Macomb County Friend of the Court EMPLOYEE Amanda Kole had a conflict of interest in your particular case and she should not have represented the FOC on the day of your confrontation. When I first read your story your experience with the Macomb County Friend of the Court and Amanda Kole I did some checking. I had to go back and do some checking into old paperwork but I finally found it. Amanda Kole is the same one that I dealt with about 5 years ago.
When you described your incident, it sounded almost identical to what I went through. Well, it's the same person alright. And when your ex-wife told you what was going to happen that day BEFORE it happened, it was no coincidence. I have a buddy of mine that does some PI work, and he said she lives right in the same neighborhood as your former in-laws. So there is a VERY good chance they knew each other whether it be from their kids' schools, church, or mutual friends. So that's why your ex-wife was so cocky. You were prejudged before you even walked through the door. Your ex made up all of her stories, had her sister or brother feed them to Amanda Kole, so she thinks you are this terrible person before she even meets you. And you gave her somewhat of an attitude, even though she deserved it, so she decided to make your life miserable. First, she decides to accidently lose your W-2's, make a scene, treat you rudely. And the deputies out there aren't very bright either. Didn't they find it funny that you 'hit' her but there were no witnesses and no marks or bruises? There would be no reason for her to treat you and your wife like she did from the start. Don't get me wrong, they're all fairly rude out there but your case worker was EXTREMELY rude. And Yokich doesn't have the time of day to deal with her cases so they get away with it. I can't say I'm a big fan of Yokich but I highly doubt she's 'on the take' like one of their clones could easily be. And, if she were to come out and admit that she knows your sister or brother-in-law now, she could lose her job. Plus, I think that chick is an attorney. I could be wrong but I think she is a licensed attorney. What kind of person would give up practicing law to make peanuts working for the FOTRW(Friend of the Rejected Woman)???????
But hang in there, guy. I know how you feel. My ex hasn't seen our daughter in over a month now but I owe her $800 a WEEK so don't feel so bad. Your son will figure it out one day. His mommy will get a boyfriend or new husband and she will not be able to get along with him and it will all come together for him. It don't matter if she is 400lbs and looks like she got hit by a truck, someone will pick her up and think they can make her their girlfriend. But yeah, I think your ex-wife was telling the truth on that one. She knew somebody and you were done before you walked in the door. And didn't you say that that was the only time that the only time you met with Amanda Kole.
Amanda Kole is rude, insensitive and has no business working with the public.