Complaint Review: Brett Alan Heatherington

Hi,
I hope all of you are well own your way to going on with life and realizing that this guy is just one of millions. It seems that an opinion on Mr. Brett and a dollar will get you a (cheap) cup of coffee.
Wow, I was on the rip-off report trying to find out what the deal is with a "lottery" that keeps sending (fraudulent I'm sure) emails to me. Unfortunately, the server is so jammed up that I never was able to do an advanced search. After reviewing all the "latest" reports, I stumbled upon Mr. Brett Alan Heatherington's report.

I just had to send a note when I realized a few things that I would like to point out to all of you. Did you realize:
The first report was almost 6 years ago???
How many of you there are just on this site?
As far as I could see there are at least 4 different women writing and reportedly 6-7 more? God knows how many others don't know about the site or wouldn't want to air their bad decisions.

Ladies, coming from the side of life that is probably closer to 50 than to your age.... life is just toooo short to keep dwelling on this guy if he is even 1/10th as bad as it appears he is.
Obviously if the leopard has not changed his spots by now, he never will. Is he THAT gorgeous? Is he THAT talented in the sack? I can't imagine that he is....And even if he is, he certainly is not "husband" material.

I am certain that you are all really special talented women who have way more sense than to keep attacking each other over a man (and I use the word loosely it seems) like him. What ever happened to building each other up and warning each other of potential train wrecks like this? Did you ever wonder at the reason why you don't see men doing this sort of thing (writing long gripe letters about us)?

Here's to all of you and your futures may they not include hounddogs and liars and may you all find reputable men to spend you lives with and soon! My stepdaughter is in Portland, Thank God she's married!
Sincerely,
Phyllis from California

I was just with Brett within the last month. I was at the house in Lake Stevens and we were in the livingroom when he told me that the mother of his daughter was bringing her over for a visit and that he was buying a new house closer to work so that he could see his disabled and physically and mentally needy daughter because the mother couldn't deal with her by herself and that he wanted to be closer so he could "do the right thing and help" -- I too, am from Wenatchee and was with him at his hotel room at the end of last year when this child's mom called because she couldn't deal with the child - we were in the middle of making love - - - he said that the mom needed to talk to him because she was stressed out.. Imagine that .... I wiould be stressed out too if the father of my child was sleeping around all the time. It wasn't until I went by the house and saw the mother of his child packing his things so he could move... her car was in the driveway and the neighbors said he was getting married -- imagine my shock when he said the same thing to me not so very long ago.... He has now changed where he works so that he doesn't need to come to Wenatchee anymore but rather heads to Portland so that he can start over with women there, and actually I have went to see him recently while he was in Portland. Even then, he told me what a loser the childs mom was and that he was only doing this for his daughter - that he felt sorry for her. He doesn't want to be married to the mother of his child - he feels sorry for her and pities her but I am smart enough to have realized that he will never be with one woman and that he will always need many women to fulfill who he wants to be.. He wants to be a better person - but has no clue as to how to accomplish this. Who knows how many children were conceived while he was out of the country "serving our nation" - lol -- wow -- imagine all the little Brett's in a foreign country... The sex was good and until a couple of weeks ago - when I realized from his neighbors he was moving and going to marry her - that even I can sleep with someone when they aren't fully committed to someone else -- last fling with him -- yep - him in the sack is worth it -- but him and I have never had "just one last fling" as there are so many of you that he cheated on with me -- but I always made him use protection because I knew about each and every one of you and was even the one who told some of you to leave him alone :o ) and he doesn't have "GIRLS" for the female that said she saw pics of his girls -- he has a son and the new daughter that is disabled -- you didn't know him at all -- did you ???

Actually the last one titled with the name Billy at the end is from his fiance Melanie, the mother of one of his children who says the only reason she is with him is because she wants her house. She plans to marry him and later on get what she wants, half of everything. She said to me she doesn't love him. To each his own I guess. She can deny it but she knows what she told me.
And Melanie, just so you know, you can get in a LOT of trouble signing someone else's name on here saying they wrote a letter that they didn't write. We both know you wrote it so it is against the law to be signing someone elses name when they didn't write it.

I suggest you watch yourself because it is considered forgery. I can prove you wrote it.
I see that in the letter you agree that your boyfriend, fiance, free ticket to never working again whatever you want to call him, you said a lot of bad things like other women did here.
Good luck with him.

In the future I think you better learn what the laws are before you forge other people's name when they didn't write anything. I am Billy and I know I didn't write that letter that has my name at the end. Good try!!! And you are the one who told me about this website and slammed Brett and told me to slam him too. Now you write a letter and put my name at the end. Real mature.

First of all I want to say I'm sorry to all of the woman who have been hurt by this creep. And for the ones who are nieve and believe he is a good man, all I have to say by you is pull your head out of your a*s and smell REALITY!! He is not sweet and innocent. I know real facts. I have dated Brett from Aug. 2006-Feb. 2007.

I too am also from Wenatchee and have seen and heard just about everything. First of all Brett has these famous lines he uses on women. Like when your having sex, he looks in your eyes and says, "You are so beautiful, I love you so much!! I never want to lose you". Sound familiar girls?? Another most popular for him is "Trust Me". I had a feeling he was cheating on me. We all have instincts and we should follow them. I usually listen to my instincts but I loved him so much so I ignored them thinking no I have no proof. But still had strong suspicions.

Christmas I called him and his phone was shut off. I found he was on one of the love websites still. So I called over and over and his phone was shut off. I had just seen him on X-mas eve. Then one of the times I called and a women answered. It was the mother of his second child. He has a son he doesn't give a crap about. Uses him for a sob story. And a daughter who is going on 11 months old. And another baby on the way.

Well the mother of his daughter and soon to be third baby told me she was his girlfriend. I said no, you are just the mother of his child according to him. I am his girlfriend. Come to find out he went back to her in august just after we started dating. Brett and I made love on Christmas eve, 12 hours later he had sex with her. I found out a lot about the SOB. He had been using the same lines on her also. He about sh*t when he heard her talking to me. She left him that night and threw something at his face he told me.

Well, he called me after she left, and I was so angry and hurt. Not suprised because I had my suspicions, but he kept assuring me he wasn't with her and wasn't even attracted to her anymore. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. "I love you, I never want to lose you, I want us to be together and get married" he'd say. Sound familiar girls? He also used the line I never met anyone like you before and never loved anyone so much before.

Well after my stupidity from being blinded by love, I stayed with him and said he better never do it again and that I would never really get over it. Anyway, time goes on. Many times he ignored his phone. Most of the excuses he was sleeping.

Just a few days before valentines day he still loved me and didn't want to lose me. He said he loves me more than I know. Well I got tired of his crap. For the last month and a half I begged him to break up with me because I felt that even though it would hurt, it needed to be done. I just wasn't strong enough to do it. I felt that if I could make him do it it would be easier somehow. He said that he was in my life to stay and that I might as well accept it. I decided to wait until valentines day to dump him cause he ruined my X-mas by learning of in unfaithfulness.

And as for you few girls that think he doesn't have a disease, you are so wrong. I haven't been checked since I have been with him. But there is living proof of his disease. The mother of his baby daughter which I won't say any names because she is a very sweet girl who is also a victim told me something that just devastates me. Their baby girl is blind because of the STD Hsv I think it was called.

Brett told me his daughter had a seizure when she was about three weeks old, and caused blood on her brain which resulted in brain damage and blindness. He sure failed to tell me it was because of him that she is blind. Because he had a STD. Who knows what else he has. So ladies and gentleman, yes he is diseased. His beautiful innocent baby girl is living proof.

Sounds like Brett needs to keep his little peepee in his pants.

Then to make things worse, I called Brett's supposedly x-girlfriend (baby's mom) to be honest with her and let her know how stupid I was that I stayed with Brett after his unfaithfulness after he cheated on us with eachother. She then told me that they were back together also. Found out that he had sex with her on Feb 6th when I had sex with him on Feb 8th. So he was playing again.

So his other girlfriend decided to do a three way call to Brett and I was quiet in the beginning. She called him and he answered by saying he baby. Boy, that sounds very familiar to me. She started talking to him and asking him questions about how much he loves her and when he actually realized he can't live without her.

That creep actually said he knew it "the moment you walked out of my life" he said. (which was x-mas). I thought you b*****d. He told me he was glad she was gone that it was so stressful lying to both of us. But tells her he loves her and will do anything to prove it. That sounds familiar eh girls!! She then said to him that someone wanted to talk to him.

He thought it was going to be his baby daughter. Well guess what, it was me!!! He just about sh*t!!!!! He stuttered over and over again. He was yelling and telling me I was only a fling never anything more. Funny how he tells her and I the same thing except when she is on the phone, I was the fling and that he loves her and they are getting married this year.

He put $10,000 down on a new house 120 miles away from his house now in Lake Stevens so the other women can't show up while she is there. Funny cause two weeks ago him and I were still talking about going to Vegas and getting married.

He was screaming at me and getting all defensive. Don't understand why he would get so pissed at me when he is the one who screwed me over. He can't handle that he got caught again. And I can't believe Brett that you actually started to cry, your such a faker. And he must of been embarassed because when we were on the three way call she said they hardly ever have sex because it's bad. Oh Brett that must of destroyed your big ego. You must of been crapping your pants when she said that.

All Brett wants is to park his little caboose in everyone's tunnel. And anyone who thinks different, who thinks he is a nice guy. I got news for you. He cheated on you too. You just weren't smart enough to catch him. On the three way call he said he loves her (baby's mom) and will prove it too her. Well I have to ask, if he really loved her do you think he would of cheated on her with four different women??? I think not. I'm sure it's more than four. Just four she has found out about.

Brett is a lonely person. He has a serious sex addiction. His lies and cheating is a sickness. He doesn't see anything wrong with it. And it's okay for him to cheat but he would be furious if someone did it to him.

Brett has no friends. He has told me that numerous of times that he doesn't have a single one. Funny how he looks up his x-girlfriends to get them to say something in his favor on here. He just calls the ones who didn't catch him cheating. You notice he never called the ones who he screwed over to put their experience with him on here!!

Hmmm, 37 and never been married.
I hope his baby's mom who is now expecting the third child and plans to marry him after all the crap he has done to her, gets wise and leaves his a*s. He is worthless. I hope she takes him for everything he's got. I suspect since I'm sure she isn't in love with him and says the sex is bad, it won't last too many years. He will get caught again anyway.

And Brett, do us all a favor and take that cross necklace off. You are no Christian. You are a disgrace to God. And to human kind. You are the exact kind who give men a bad name. You have even ruined the name (man) for a lot of the good men.

Don't even bother trying to defend yourself Brett because you and I know EXACTLY what happened in our relationship and all the bad things you have done. You actually lied to her on the three way call about me after you knew I was listening. That is pathetic.

And forwarning for you. You know it is against the law to spread diseases when you know you have it. So you better hope I come up clean or your going to have a lighter wallet because I will sue your pants off! And will do everything to get ahold of Michelle here and your son's mom and whoever else.

You need to keep your peeter in your pants and stop hurting innocent women. I hope she dumps your a*s and someday you do find someone if you actually are capable of loving, and I hope she hurts the hell out of you so you know what you have done to so many women.

I hope you feel good about yourself to live with the fact everyday that you caused your daughter's disability because of your sex addiction. I hope that one moment of sex was worth what you have done to your daughter.

Goodbye, and good riddance.

P.S. What goes around comes around. I believe you will get yours in the end. Like I said, take the cross off cause you are a disgrace to God and even that cross won't help you make it to heaven. Your goinjg somewhere else for all your sins.

I dated Brett for six months. At Christmas time I called his phone and a girl answered. Found out he was cheating on me with her and cheating on her with me. I was stupid enough to give him one more chance and he did it again. Not only with the same woman, but four women. Could be more that I don't know about. He will look in every woman's eyes during sex and say "your so beautiful, I love you so much". Sound familiar girls???

We talked about vegas and getting married and moving to where he is now in Lake Stevens, which he is moving again soon because all the women know where he lives right now so he has to get out of there before his current girlfriend who he plans to marry this year moves in. He turns his phone off when he is with his women incase one of the others call. Sound familiar??

I am also from Wenatchee and I can tell you that the girls who think he is wonderful are very nieve. I have seen the real creep in action. And as for ALL THE WOMEN HE HAS USED, HURT AND LIED TO JUST TO GET A *&*&!! iSN'T IT IRONIC HOW BAD HE SUCKS IN BED. What did we all see in him? Couldn't be his looks, he's fat, bald with a little gray hair and has no *&* and no waist. Overlooked it when I loved him, but then started finding out about other women. I am sorry for you women who have ever crossed his path.

Just two weeks ago we still talked about marriage. Then broke up, got tired of his crap. Funny how most women on here say nice things, could it be because he called them to respond to it. Of course he didn't call the ones he screwed over. Got news for you girls who like him, he screwed you over too, you just didn't catch him. That's why things didn't "work out" with you, cause he had no intention of them working out. When he got too many women at once he got stressed out. He was too close to being caught. I got on a three way call with the one he cheated on me with twice and her twice with eachother, but there were the other three too. Anyway, I was quiet and he said a bunch of things then I let him know I was on there. Let me tell you girls, the b*****d actually started to cry. The girl he says he loves, who he cheated on her with with four women that she knows of, agreed to marry him. He loves her he says, but he told me that too two weeks ago. Of course when he found out I was on the phone, he said I was just a fling. Then laughed as he was so proud to of pulled it off for six months saying he loved me and wanted to marry me.

But he isn't as smart as he thinks because just about the whole time I kept questioning him cause I suspected it. He kept saying I was being negative and psychotic like all women are he says. Does that sound familiar to anyone???? One thing about Brett is he can't be alone. And his sexual behavior proves that it is a sickness. He can't control it. He is literally a sex addict. He admits all the time that he has to play with his monkey ALL THE TIME. Must be between visits from his women!

Now he realizes he's getting older and less attractive. He desperately wants to feel important and needs to be needed therefore decides to get married sometime this year. That poor girl. I have a feeling she will get tired of his crap also. He has proved to this beautiful girl that he doesn't really love her over and over again by constantly cheating and lying to her.
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hope she takes him for everything he's got. And by the way Brett, you are no christian. Take that cross neclace off because you are a disgrace to God.

You are a disgrace to human beings. Go ahead and slam me all you want with a response on here because YOU and I both know the truth about what happened in our realationship. We both know you are a liar and cheater and can't keep that little peepee in your pants. Forwarning, if I find out you gave me anything, you better watch out cause it's against the law to be spreading diseases around considering you know you have them. I won't say any names but to the woman who plans to marry him (like we all have), good luck and watch your back. He has proved to you time and time again by cheating on you and lying A LOT that he doesn't really love you. Good luck. Sorry to freak you out the other day Brett by the three way call. But hey, it's about time someone else got the laugh on you. I can't believe you cried you big faker.

I AM VERY PROUD TO SAY THAT I MET BRETT IN 2003, HE IS A CARING LOVING MAN. THE ONLY THING I REGRET IS THAT IT DIDN'T WORK OUT BETWEEN US, HOWEVER WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND TALK AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE. HE TOLD ME EVERYTHING ABOUT HIMSELF FROM THE GET GO , INCLUDING SHOWING ME A COPY OF THIS REPORT. THAT ONLY PROVES HE HAD NOTHING TO HIDE FROM ME.I DON'T KNOW WHERE THE COMPLAINER GET OFF ACCUSSING HIM OF ALL OF THIS, AS A FORMER MILITARY PERSONEL MYSELF I KNOW THAT STD'S ARE SCREENED FOR OFTEN. BESIDES I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THEM IF THAT WAS THE CASE.

WE WONDER SOMETIME WHY WOMEN ARE REGARDED AS PSYCOS HERE IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE.I JUST WANT TO CLARIFY THAT BRETT IS A TRUELY KIND HUMANBEING THAT WILL HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART FOR THE REST OF LIFE.

IF YOU EVER GET THE CHANCE TO MEET HIM I AM POSITIVE YOU WILL FEEL THE SAME.

I just wanted to comment, not on the wrongness of how Brett treats women, but on the STUPIDITY of all of you who have made comments about him on this site.

Brett DOES NOT have any stds. (amazing but true!) I know this because I do not have any, and I have had unprotected sex with him just like the rest of you.

The girl who felt the compulsion to put this on this site is apparently pathetic and dumb. Admit it, the real reason for this is because deep down you cannot believe that you LET yourself fall for his lines. Thats right LET. You knew better, just like all the other girls. I certainly did. I knew what kind of a guy he was, but unlike all the rest of you whiny girls I didn't try to delude myself that I could change him, that I was the one. Face it! you always knew that there never will be just one girl for Brett. You did in fact say you knew about the girl in Wenatchee right? SEE you KNEW he was the unfaithful type.

The people who try to defend him are stupid too. They obviously don't know him very well. because if they are refuting his ways with women, they are wrong.

Who doesn't want to have their cake and eat it too? You would be lying if you said you didn't.

Brett cannot get custody of his kid. Court order? Stupid girl, this is the state of Washington, do you actually have no idea of how little rights fathers have in this state?

You have to be married to be an Adulterer, I guess that one doesn't fit either.

I cannot believe the nerve, putting Bretts address and phone numbers up here. In fact I think there might be a law somewhere that applys to that somehow.

Since I have seen photographs of his girls, I don't understand where you get off attacking his appearance.

So am I placing the blame for your unhappy situation(s) on you? Nope. I have to say I hope you learned something out of this. I hope every girl who has had a relationship with Brett learns a little something about life. You will of course have to find your own lesson, I hope you can find something positive in it. I also hope Brett learns a little something too.

Because basically very few of us know what it is that drives us to do things. Things like sleeping around and lying, thinking you can change someone (no one has that power), saying hurtful things about people, and all the other dumb things we ALL do in this playground called life.

As for Brett not employing foreplay, and being a sloppy lover, Boy do I feel sorry for you if thats all that you brought out in him!!! I certainly enjoyed him.

And thats just it isn't it? I enjoy Brett for just who he is, not for who I imagined him to be or for what I wanted from him or what I could make of him or fantasized he was. Just Brett flaws and all. He is a pretty decent person in all despite his ways with women.

Revenge only hurts the vengefull one.

See for yourself:

Thanks for your obviously biased opinion. For your edification, it was I that dumped her. And obviously she couldn't handle it. In fact it was her that would not leave me alone as I had asked. You apparently are the immature one and obviously didn't read any of it as you would have known that. As well, you are correct you don't know me, therefore it is you that is wasting your breath. So, I really don't care about your opinion on the subject. It is all water off my back. You have asked to refrain but did not ask me to cease. I am asking you now to cease and never contact me again or I will pursue a court order against you. Go ahead and test my resolve on this matter. And yes, I will refrain from ever contacting you again.

P.S. Learn how to spell, at least your opinions may seem to have some validity if you knew what the words meant and could spell them correctly. This looks like it could have been written by a 2 year old and probably was, at least mentally.

Goodbye!
----- Original Message -----
From: Brett Heatherington
Sent: Friday, February 14, 2003 5:06 PM
Subject: Re: Here's the rest of the continuing saga of "As Port Orchard Turns"; Episode 1 will follow for those that didn't get it yet!


I am appalled that a mindless twit like yourself would actually think other people would be interested in this crap you are sending out. I did not ask to view your personal vendetta, your wasted effort in trying to win the heart of someone who is obviously far above your status and maturity level. I do not wish to be spammed in this way. You are immature, and a waste of space and take up valuable air that someone with a purpose could be using. Please do us all a favor and disapear from socieity. You are disturbed, and deranged and very annoying. I do not blame Laura for keeping you at a distance. You belong in a deep hole, without a ladder. You obviously can not handle rejection. Please refrain from splattering your obviously twisted idea of revenge upon my computer again. You are worthless to me, and a very sad sad person.

Basically it comes down to this: I do not know you, but I do know Laura. I couldn't care less what you have to say. Especially since you are trying to harm someone else through this blatent immature stunt. Your acting exactly like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum. Grow up. Be a Man for once in your life. Please stay out of mine.

In case your wondering, I have a very good relationship with Laura, as a very good friend, and I have the upmost regard for her. She has my undying repect, and is a very good person. You on the other hand, deserve no respect, neither for your actions here or your words. If Crud had shoes, you would be the crud on the bottom of cruds shoes.

Good day to you.

Good Riddance.

Actually folks, the only raving psycho in this whole mess is the Heidi who so bravely attempts to rescue her dear Brett. For example...Brett bought a new house, and Heidi used to stand at the window looking in the neighbors house, and when they would walk by Heidi would quickly call and say "I see you...Hi!" It FREAKED the neighbors out.

She also faked pregnancy, and gave the "baby" a name. She told the neighbors it was a girl on the ultrasound when she'd only been pregnant for about 1 month. Doctors can't tell that soon. Then when she went to Oregon to see her mother, she conveniently had a "miscarriage". She also fakes having all types of cancer and other problems to try and make Brett feel sorry for her. She also gave Brett this really stupid nickname (Percy).

It is a pattern with her. She does the same things with each and every boyfriend she has. You can't take her word for a d**n thing. She is a crazy B@##@! As for Brett, you're a big girl, let him enter at your own risk but certainly don't let some stupid website make up your mind. If you happen to read this and know him, get to know him before you hate him, like him, or sleep with him. Need I say more?

Well, here we are again!! This site is still up and it's causeing my friend a world of grief. Shall I say it again? This man Brett Heatherington is a very loving man and is looking for his soulmate. Ladies if your on this site because of something he did in you or said to you or that someone else put doubt in your mind then look very close at him. He's simple and not too hard to figure out. When he's scared he retreats into your cave. Give him time he does come out and does look both ways for you!!

The women that wrote this was angry at him and he doesn't deserve to have this thrown up in his face every turn. We all screw up, even me and even you! But does that give you the right to shame him after you find this site? Please, I ask of you... He isn't what these words say he is. He's loving and one of the most giving men I know.

They filed the following rebuttal to the above Rip-Off Report:



Their email: heidimoldstad@hotmail.com

Their name: Heidi Moldstad



Their relationship to the company: Supporter



Rebuttal:

I know this man personally and I haven't met a more honest, loving, giving young man in my life. The women that wrote this must have been on some type of PMS kick and didn't think before she acted.



We all have faults and We all make mistakes, I just hope someone else doesn't treat her the way she treated this man. I know the facts, And if your lucky enough to meet this man your life will be all the more richer. He's very sensative man, Would bend over backwards for his friends and family, Defender of his faith in God!



He knows who wrote this And still WILL NOT talk ill about her or about the things she has wrongly accused him of. He won't say it but I will in his defense, The women named Michelle IS A NUT CASE!!



The women who wrote this complaint should have looked further down her nose to see that. Use BACK GROUND CHECKS WOMEN!!! Now about the STD remarks- He is checked regularly not because he has it, But when your with the fire Dept. your required to do it! And he comes up negative on all accounts.



LAdies and Gentelmen this man has been wrongly accused of these actions his only fault in this matter is he did hurt the feelings of one lady and she wanted revenge. Lets grow up and play nice. Another thing... He's working towards getting his son back!! But in this state men are screwed over only because they didn't give birth to the child. In another words this is a

Mommy State. Please pardon the bad spelling but when I see someone being wrongly accused I type faster then the brain wants.



Thank you for taking the time to read this.....Brett, I don't believe one word this women wrote about and is accussing you of doing.