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Cherry Blossoms Dating Bias Standards Internet
Good Day,
I am a nonpaying member of Cherry Blossoms. I am from the Philippines. They offer to Asian women the free membership. I have opened an account this May 2013. and for the first three weeks that I have been a member I did not post any photo of myself. Then on the forth week I decided to post my photos. On the very first day that I have posted my photos I received numerous number of emails, chat invites and smile mails. And the mails keep coming while my photos were posted. These photos that I posted were pre approved prior postings. which means that CB have approved them and allowed them to be posted. Once in a while I would put my photos hidden whenever I am exclusively chatting to a man I met in the site. the reason being is that I want to concentrate to know deeply one man at a time. trying to figure out if something positive will result. Then if nothing will work out good then I would post my photos again. But on May 5, when I was trying to post back my photos Cherry blossom disallowed them and emailed me saying that my photos are so revealing and indecent. And even told me that I seem to be selling my body . Those remarks from CB shocked me becuase those photos were approved by them. And more importanlty it was not true that the photos are very revealing.. That remarks from CB was so unfair and very insulting. I would be willing to send you copies of the photos that I posted there. Pleae check and compare my photos with other photos that they do allow to be posted in the site.
I asked CB to reconsider their decision but they are firm in their decision not to allow my photos reposted. Now I am filling my complaint here, because I believe that CB made a big mistake in insulting me and accusing of me of selling my body. If their reasons they think is justifiable, why have they not chosen to completely blocked me. I want to teach them a lesson on how to treat fair their members.
I am willing to give my correspondence to CB and their reply to me. On how they have insulted my personality. They should keep their rules applicable equally to all, if my photos were okay then, why would they not be okay now, when those photos are the same photos I used ever since. Their r basis for disallowing reposting of my photos were so unfair and unacceptable.
I hope that you will look into this matter, and will appreciate your reply soonest. Thank you so much.
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MochaG
Springfield,If this
#2Consumer Comment
Wed, May 08, 2013
If the picture you attached to your original post is the one you used on the site, I can understand why they considered it revealing.
Before getting into the detail, I would like to give an assumption about approval of picture. I believe the approval is done by their automated program which is looking for certain characteristics in an image file. Then they would have some people manually look through each pictures again and that's why your picture is disapproved later one.
Now speaking of revealing, the picture is not that much revealing in western standard; however, in most Asian cultures, the picture is revealing. A general picture which shows a woman figure is to have cloth on, not only underwear/undergarment regardless how the body is facing toward the viewer. I guess Filipino culture may be different when they look at this because they are closer to westerner than Asian.
There is a problem in your report as well...
The problem is that you just opened an account not even 2 weeks ago, but you claimed you did not post your photo for the first 3 weeks? Are you sure about that? Shouldn't it be a few days?
Anyway, why bother arguing with them? You could simply take another picture and post it instead of trying to use the same picture again.