Complaint Review: Christopher Scott Calovic

I too once knew Chris calovic of lynn MA. He lived in a rooming house and completely terrorized me in 1999. We met online in some chat room and talked for several months before meeting in person. I was only 28 yrs old and had been separated from my husband of 7 years for 4 years, Chris was the first date I had been on as an adult.

I drove up to Lynn to see him and we met for dinner, he paid by the way. It would be the only investment he made in the time I knew him. He seemed nice enough, although he talked about himself quite a bit. His hygiene wasn't bad at that time, or I wouldn't have seen him again.

Over the next few weeks we saw each other occasionally and like the other girls he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. I didn't really buy into his bull and seriously wanted him to leave me alone. But when I tried to distance myself from him he would be really sweet and eventually that sweetness turned into threats.

He threatened to call my employer and report me as having an affair with a co-worker which could have lead to my being fired. I had a daughter to support and I had worked very hard to attain the position I had at my company. I was too scared to break it off with him.

Don't get me wrong he did have some very sane moments, moments when I thought he could be caring and sincere. But those didn't last. His favorite game to play with me was "let's make michelle stay awake". When we were together he would get "chatty" at night and talk my ear off denying me sleep. He would get his sleep while I was at work, making him nice and wide awake for another night of torture. If we weren't together he would call me and keep me on the phone until I passed out from exhaustion.

All this happened slowly over the course of weeks, I never stood a chance. You see, sleep deprevation causes some really nasty side effects. Before long I was hallucinating, both seeing and hearing things that weren't real. I also became somewhat of a zombie. That's when he milked me for thousands of dollars. I was lucky enough to escape without getting pregnant.

The last day we spent together is something I will never forget. We got into an argument at my house, I can't even remember what it was about. While trying to walk away from him he grabbed me by the wrists and he twisted them knowing it would hurt me. I had bruises for weeks after. My mother happened to walk Olin at that point and he let me go. She didn't realize what was happening.

I told him I was bringing him to the train station so he could go home. I never intended to see him again. On the way to the station he was bitching and threatening me. He of course used the same threats as with the other girls, he would sue me or get Mina to do it for him. I didn't care anymore. Sue me, kill me. Whatever, just stay away from me.

That was when he tried to jump out of the car while it was moving. I just snapped and stopped the car in te middle of the road. I threw him out and called my mother. I told her everything while still parked in the middle of a busy roa blocking all traffic. The rest is a blur. The police came, my mother came, and he was escorted by the police on the train. I was free.

So I went home, called my boss and told him everything about the abuse I had suffered. I was so embarrassed. I warned him about the false accusations Chris may attempt to make. I was assured that those accusations would never be taken seriously.

So I slept. For a week. And when I woke up I realized how lucky I was to escape with nothing but some cash and my dignity lost.

During the time I dated him he talked often of an Internet company he owned, but I never saw him go to work. He talked of Mina and how she controlled his finances, but I never met her. I don't think she's real. He spoke of a son he had and even had toys in his one room apt. He seemed to know how to manipulate people to get his way.

The only persons I met who were his friends was someone he called "pops", an older gentleman and a girl he was friends with who's name I can't remember.

I offer words of caution to all his children's mothers, run as fast as you can. Don't ever let him in your life. You'll probably never be able to collect child support from him as he will probably never hold down a job. Give yourself a good life by not allowing him in it.

As for Chris, I would like to you to know that you taught me a valuable lesson. I have had an amazing 13 years without you. My life has been full and happy. I couldn't imagine you in my life. It would be sheer horror. I also feel bad for your kids, do them a favor and stay away. You are diseased, with no hope for redemption. I believe you know exactly what you are doing as you keep repeating the same behavior. You will never know love or acceptance, charity or true friendship. You are incapable of feeling for anyone but yourself. Btw. Go ahead and sue me. Lol. I actually married a lawyer a few years after the incident with you. So my legal expenses will be covered :)

I am posting my experience in the hopes that all of those affected by Chris will know they are not alone. You never stood a chance. Just be glad it's over.

Why every woman here just seem to get impregnated by some loser? Who is the real needy?
They are quick to vall him a rotting tooth scum, but still had sex without protection with that creature. Really? 5 children and counting? Did he look like father material? Wrap it up people. Wrap it up.

If you have heard or seen Christopher (Chris) Scott Calovic please contact the Austin, Texas police department at (512) 424-5074 (five, one, two, four, two, four, five, zero, seven, four); or his father Joseph Calovic in Austin, Texas at (512) 288-0287.  His family has not heard from him since July 2008.  If you do not feel comfortable contacting them, then please just post a note on this website.

Also, please reply to this site if you have a child that could possibly be Chris's.  They may be entitled to some benefits and DNA testing may need to be performed.

Thank you.

What the hell ladies. What does this guy got in his pants anyway? Didn't you know that when someone goes on about how they are holy-er than thou they are lying?

Never trust a Christian that goes on and on about his/her good deeds. Christianity is a veil of deception in most cases.

I feel sorry for the kids. I guess they will be brought up in the real world?

As I have said before, I am Denae, from NH with his daughter Cristina. We now live in CT and although I have moved on, I will always be affected from my time with Chris. My credit is still shot as I was only 19 when I met him and he took advantage of that fact, and I still have trouble trusting. My daughter is now 7 and has the last name Calovic and is starting to ask where that name came from and I am not sure what to tell her at this point. She does know Chris' dad and son in TX so I will use them some how to tell her.

As of right now he won't talk to me. He's not talking to his father or son either. He didn't contact any of us for xmas or Zac's birthday in Jan. He seems to be off being self absorbed again. He keeps making kids, taking money, and then off to the next women who would give him money or a place to stay and some affection.

To all who have been hurt and all who will probably be hurt I am sorry. I hope all this kids have good lives with people who really love them and are never hurt if they don't have to be.

My email is that same as in my above post and anyone can contact me at anytime and I will give whatever info I have. I still talk to Chris father all the time and his son and my daughter know eachother well and love eachother. Hope no one else gets taken and he really does get the help he needs but I won't hold my breath.

Hello everyone. I have followed this for the past few months, wondering if I should post my own experiences. Chris is no longer in my life, but while he was, he made me miserable! I also know of two other women he has hurt badly, just as he has all of us. One of the two was also pregnant, but miscarried. The other, is a very wonderful woman who did not deserve what Chris did to her, as none of us have. Last I heard from Chris, he had admitted himself into a mental hospital in Mississippi to work on his issues, but since then I do not know where he is, or what he is doing. Unfortuantly, I doubt he has changed. I can say that he at least admitted this time that he NEEDS to change. I pray that he has or will change, but as its been said before, he has to want to change. I will not elaborate on the awful relationship I had with him, but I will say that I hope beyond hope that he is not still doing this to people. His life saddens me, because I know he has never truly loved anyone but himself, and that is no way to live life. If you dont love others, you cant really receive love in return either. I tried to love him, even after I found out the things in his past, about (some of) the things he had done to other women, I still tried to help him, tried to support him. It just wasnt ever enough. I truly pray he will wake up and come to terms with his issues, and get help. Help that can show him how to be a good person, instead of the twisted manipulative person he was/is. I am would like to say that I understand how all of you fell for his manipulations, because Ive been there, done that! He makes you WANT to help him, even while he refuses all offers of help. If he is in your life now, and you are reading this be VERY careful! I know it seems like he could never hurt you like he has us, but HE CAN and HE WILL. Unless YOU don't let him! God bless you all, and keep him in your prayers.

Hello everyone, I am the infamous Vanessa!

First of all I would like to thank everyone for not abusing the information that has been posted to contact me and would like to call the person who did post it a few names for being too much of a coward to contact me personally and posting it for the world to see. Oh and thanks to the website for posting my personal information without my permission or finding out if the information was correct.

I was begged by Chris along time ago not to post on this site, and now as of Dec. 5, 2008, we are divorced. It will be filed with Hancock County. I am sharing this because I know he will be looking at this site and did not show for the third hearing I had to pay for. He also could not find his divorce paperwork from Angela Hodges Beard, who is his son in Texas's mother, and I wanted to make sure everyone could find out I am no longer attached to him.

To my knowledge, Chris has contributed to have a son Zachary in Austin, TX, a son Matthew in Brockton, MA, a son in Byron, MI, a daughter Christina in Windsor, CT, and a soon to be daughter in Moss Point, MS. To my knowledge he doesn't have any parental rights to any of them. I know that his son in TX misses him and is concerned that he hasn't heard from him. He needs his father, especially since Chris's grandfather died and Chris was not there for the funeral. Chris usually checks in with his father Joseph every once in awhile, who I have actually met. I have spoken to his adoptive mother Barbara. As far as his real mother and siblings that live in PA, I have never spoken to or seen them.

About Chris, he is a charmer and can be caring. He is very smart in some aspects, dumb in others. He does have some mental issues which is hard for me to figure out where they have come from. It may be from physical and sexual abuse, and also just hereditary. He has been diagnosis with bipolar, which can be hereditary.

In this case, all of you mothers may want to read up on that, because you may have some problems to deal with after puberty starts. He also lies, about the littlest things, even things that do not matter. He also has an issue with taking care of himself. He has had several opportunities to fix his dental problems, and has not. He has a problem in general taking care of himself. I don't know if it could be a defense mechanism due to sexual abuse. He has seen several mental health personnel, religious counselors, and attended AA/NA meetings. He has to want to change himself; otherwise he will stay the same old Chris. He spends lots of time on the computer playing games and chatting on the internet. He plays on Everquest, Everquest II, Star Wars Galaxies, and other online games and computer games.

He is very paranoid about people being out to get him and is constantly changing his passwords, his IP address online, reloads his computer often, and has passwords and security measures that he does not share with anyone. He can burn up minutes on a cell phone. I have phone records showing him calling some woman 50 times within a two hour period. I am assuming she no longer wanted to speak to him, but he is very clingy as mentioned in above stories.

By the way, yes I agree with most of the information in the above stories about his behavior, attributes, stories of his past and activities, that I have also either heard about or seen personally. I have never experienced any chest pain, fainting spells, seizures, etc with him. I do know he has a problem with chemical imbalances in his system, which does not help matters.

I have not seen any documentation on his schooling status. I do know for a fact he attended a GED program, which he did not finish. He has a hard time with finishing projects. Whether it is a house project, a job, or a computer project, he does not have patience and gets upset very quickly, which I believe is part of his bipolar. From what I understand he attended school in Austin, TX and spent most of his teenage life there.

Why am I writing this? I am writing this for my benefit, for some closer, for your benefit to help you in any way I can, whoever my be searching information on Chris, and for Chris to maybe wake up one day and take care of himself for Zachary's sake. If anyone needs information, would like a photo, or how to contact his father, you may reach me at chrisfaults at yahoo. I am sorry for everyone who has had bad dealings with Chris, the ones who still are, and for the ones yet to come. All I can say is look to God for guidance.

Again, thank you for not abusing the information posted, and thank you to my friends who care so much about me,

Vanessa

Hi Jenn,

I'm going to be emailing you shortly. Thanks for the info. As for going on the Dr Phil show... I meant it only as a means of getting the word out about him. But he himself is more suitable for Jerry Springer, you're right. He's a JOKE! I will talk to you soon Jenn. Take care.

Hey Olivia,

I surely don't mind if you contact me and would like to speak with you as well. You can reach me JennRaeBe on AOL. I think my contact info will go through as that without being deleted! We'll see.

Oh, about the baby...I KNOW that the sperm donor was Chris, however; my husband will be my child's father! The baby is due December 31! I am SOOOOOO ready for her to get here. Will she ever know about Chris? HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't want to shame her in that way.

As for all these children growing up and meeting and marrying one another, that's a scary thought but you never know. There's got to be many, many more out there. Maybe Dr. Phil is a good idea but I'm thinking this may be more like Springer material...lol...

Hope to talk to you soon!

In the meantime, ladies WATCH OUT!

Hey Olivia,

I surely don't mind if you contact me and would like to speak with you as well. You can reach me JennRaeBe on AOL. I think my contact info will go through as that without being deleted! We'll see.

Oh, about the baby...I KNOW that the sperm donor was Chris, however; my husband will be my child's father! The baby is due December 31! I am SOOOOOO ready for her to get here. Will she ever know about Chris? HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't want to shame her in that way.

As for all these children growing up and meeting and marrying one another, that's a scary thought but you never know. There's got to be many, many more out there. Maybe Dr. Phil is a good idea but I'm thinking this may be more like Springer material...lol...

Hope to talk to you soon!

In the meantime, ladies WATCH OUT!

Hey Olivia,

I surely don't mind if you contact me and would like to speak with you as well. You can reach me JennRaeBe on AOL. I think my contact info will go through as that without being deleted! We'll see.

Oh, about the baby...I KNOW that the sperm donor was Chris, however; my husband will be my child's father! The baby is due December 31! I am SOOOOOO ready for her to get here. Will she ever know about Chris? HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't want to shame her in that way.

As for all these children growing up and meeting and marrying one another, that's a scary thought but you never know. There's got to be many, many more out there. Maybe Dr. Phil is a good idea but I'm thinking this may be more like Springer material...lol...

Hope to talk to you soon!

In the meantime, ladies WATCH OUT!

Hey Olivia,

I surely don't mind if you contact me and would like to speak with you as well. You can reach me JennRaeBe on AOL. I think my contact info will go through as that without being deleted! We'll see.

Oh, about the baby...I KNOW that the sperm donor was Chris, however; my husband will be my child's father! The baby is due December 31! I am SOOOOOO ready for her to get here. Will she ever know about Chris? HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't want to shame her in that way.

As for all these children growing up and meeting and marrying one another, that's a scary thought but you never know. There's got to be many, many more out there. Maybe Dr. Phil is a good idea but I'm thinking this may be more like Springer material...lol...

Hope to talk to you soon!

In the meantime, ladies WATCH OUT!

First of all, I would like to say that I will not be contacting Vanessa at this time. Thunder Cat, do not be afraid of Chris. He talks a big game, but that's it. He is all talk and no action. If you are afraid of Mina, don't be. She wants nothing to do with him and he fakes every correspondence that he is supposedly having with her. Besides, he can threaten all he wants. He has no grounds or means to do anything. So what if he calls?! Do you honestly think he would EVER call ANY of us? Nope, he is a coward. I just wouldn't post your number online because that is not safe in general.Thank you everyone for all of the information posted.

Chicgamer, I appreciate you seeing whatever good there is in Chris, but one afternoon... heck even one week with him will not tell you what he is about. You don't find that out until you're in too deep with him. You haven't lived with him, or gotten pregnant by him to see his true colors. Chris is charming and manipulative. I don't expect you to understand after spending only a short time with him. But please don't call us liars. I would never ever make up anything like this. And I doubt that none of these other people would either. I'm sure one day we will be able to "prove" you wrong, but until that day comes, please have faith and believe what we are saying is only truth. JENN, I am SO sorry to hear what happened to you. Did you keep the baby? Not that it's any of my business, but that baby would have been my son's half-sibling. I'm trying to keep count of how many there are and hopefully none of them will meet and marry one another! LOL.

Seriously though, I would love to talk to you if you are willing. As for Chris seeing this report.. I don't care. He gave the standard Chris response as far as I am concerned. WE are the liars, not him. He told me the same thing when I was with him. He told me not to talk to his dad, Whitney, or anyone else because they are all trying to "ruin" him. It's nothing but lies, we want nothing more than to destroy his life. Well, we don't have to destroy his life. He already has. We are simply letting everyone know what he did and what he is capable of. As for Doe, if someone doesn't want to post info... ok that's fine. I'm not asking for phone #'s or email addresses. I simply want to get the word out and connect with others and find out their story. I have been contemplating and I don't think it would be such a bad idea to go on Dr. Phil... lol. I can't believe this man has impacted so many lives in this fashion.

I thankfully have moved forward. I am remarried and we have a baby together. He wants to adopt my son that is fathered by Chris. And of course, he wasn't around to get his name on the birth certificate, so it can easily be done. I'm sure Chris will deny that we were ever together (believe me Chris, the feeling is mutual) or that he fathered a child with me. Unfortunately it is all true. I would gladly welcome a DNA test to prove it. Plus, I have witnesses ;) Not something I am proud of at all. Thank you all for all and any information! I'm so sorry for those of you affected by this deadbeat. Just keep praying, not only for ourselves, but for Chris as well.

Well Doe,


This is Thunder Cat responding to you........ I can tell you must be slow yourself....You missed the point. But I understand........Vanessa knows me and she also knows what I posted. This may be you to Chris....always trying to manipulate again....GOOD LUCK.......KEEP RUNNING>>>> and if your not Chris reread the paragraph and take notes to fully understand the meaning. God Bless YA>

Wow Thunder Cat--It seems to me the other women on here have the "GUTS" you seem to lack--at least they have been bold enough to give their names. In my opinion, someone shouldnt ask others to do things they wouldn't have the nerve to do themselves. All of us on here are here for the same mistake and while I'm really getting to know just 1 person on here, I feel confident enough to speak for myself and the ones I don't know and say that none of us are proud or happy about whatever situation we ended up with involving Chris. My impression of this site is to warn other women about Chris and to encourage and support each other and share stories--not to justify to judgemental people why we did what we did. I am also sure Vanessa is extremely appreciative everytime you ask her that very shaming question and rub her mistake in her face even more. No one doubts what you say about Chris, and I must say a big CONGRATS :) to Vanessa for finally getting rid of him!! I hope when you make one of the biggest mistakes of your life that you don't have someone like you right there reminding you of your embarrassment and how stupid you may feel for things you overlooked and telling you to do things they are too much of a coward to do themselves. You are right about Chris. I do not disagree with any of it. You are also a hypocrite and judgemental and thats the last thing anyone who's been scammed and manipulated by him needs to deal with. I may not have put my real name, but notice I am not demanding that of others either.

Wow Thunder Cat--It seems to me the other women on here have the "GUTS" you seem to lack--at least they have been bold enough to give their names. In my opinion, someone shouldnt ask others to do things they wouldn't have the nerve to do themselves. All of us on here are here for the same mistake and while I'm really getting to know just 1 person on here, I feel confident enough to speak for myself and the ones I don't know and say that none of us are proud or happy about whatever situation we ended up with involving Chris. My impression of this site is to warn other women about Chris and to encourage and support each other and share stories--not to justify to judgemental people why we did what we did. I am also sure Vanessa is extremely appreciative everytime you ask her that very shaming question and rub her mistake in her face even more. No one doubts what you say about Chris, and I must say a big CONGRATS :) to Vanessa for finally getting rid of him!! I hope when you make one of the biggest mistakes of your life that you don't have someone like you right there reminding you of your embarrassment and how stupid you may feel for things you overlooked and telling you to do things they are too much of a coward to do themselves. You are right about Chris. I do not disagree with any of it. You are also a hypocrite and judgemental and thats the last thing anyone who's been scammed and manipulated by him needs to deal with. I may not have put my real name, but notice I am not demanding that of others either.

Wow Thunder Cat--It seems to me the other women on here have the "GUTS" you seem to lack--at least they have been bold enough to give their names. In my opinion, someone shouldnt ask others to do things they wouldn't have the nerve to do themselves. All of us on here are here for the same mistake and while I'm really getting to know just 1 person on here, I feel confident enough to speak for myself and the ones I don't know and say that none of us are proud or happy about whatever situation we ended up with involving Chris. My impression of this site is to warn other women about Chris and to encourage and support each other and share stories--not to justify to judgemental people why we did what we did. I am also sure Vanessa is extremely appreciative everytime you ask her that very shaming question and rub her mistake in her face even more. No one doubts what you say about Chris, and I must say a big CONGRATS :) to Vanessa for finally getting rid of him!! I hope when you make one of the biggest mistakes of your life that you don't have someone like you right there reminding you of your embarrassment and how stupid you may feel for things you overlooked and telling you to do things they are too much of a coward to do themselves. You are right about Chris. I do not disagree with any of it. You are also a hypocrite and judgemental and thats the last thing anyone who's been scammed and manipulated by him needs to deal with. I may not have put my real name, but notice I am not demanding that of others either.

Wow Thunder Cat--It seems to me the other women on here have the "GUTS" you seem to lack--at least they have been bold enough to give their names. In my opinion, someone shouldnt ask others to do things they wouldn't have the nerve to do themselves. All of us on here are here for the same mistake and while I'm really getting to know just 1 person on here, I feel confident enough to speak for myself and the ones I don't know and say that none of us are proud or happy about whatever situation we ended up with involving Chris. My impression of this site is to warn other women about Chris and to encourage and support each other and share stories--not to justify to judgemental people why we did what we did. I am also sure Vanessa is extremely appreciative everytime you ask her that very shaming question and rub her mistake in her face even more. No one doubts what you say about Chris, and I must say a big CONGRATS :) to Vanessa for finally getting rid of him!! I hope when you make one of the biggest mistakes of your life that you don't have someone like you right there reminding you of your embarrassment and how stupid you may feel for things you overlooked and telling you to do things they are too much of a coward to do themselves. You are right about Chris. I do not disagree with any of it. You are also a hypocrite and judgemental and thats the last thing anyone who's been scammed and manipulated by him needs to deal with. I may not have put my real name, but notice I am not demanding that of others either.

OH My!! This was not a surprise to me at all when I saw this report. I know Chris and I know his WIFe Vanessa. She is a sweet SWEET lady. I rather not post my name, but he did the same to her. I really felt sorry for her when I first met him. I asked her was (SOMETHING) wrong with him. You can look at him and tell he is not right. I remember he also cooked her some of that GOOD OLE spaghetti when they first met. He has those rotten teeth and looks dirty all the time. You can smell his breath a mile away.

Well I can say a lot more. But I would rather not. But Olivia you and Vanessa needs to talk. I reviewed all the information about her on top and it is correct. Her phone numbers are all right. YOU NEED TO CALL HER. I would put my number on here, but the SCUM bag may get it and call. And to all of you other women...LIke I ask Vanessa all the time...How in the H$LL you didn't know this guy was bad news. All I have to say is this guy is probably doing it to someone else now. TRUST ME.....HE's out of Vanessa's life!! Thank Heavens. Well all I have to say is someone needs to have the GUTS to post their number. Or should I say anyone can call Vanessa. She is a sweet lady. Or better yet Olivia post your number. I'll call you and talk about him.

Thanks ,

Galatians 6:7 (Contemporary English Version)
Contemporary English Version (CEV)
Copyright 1995 by American Bible Society


7You cannot fool God, so don't make a fool of yourself! You will harvest what you plant.

Hey Chris this one from all of the decent men in this world that work hard and are responsible, your actions are of no help to us-Keep running, they're coming to get you!

You can choose ANY combination of the above names and you may be correct on the name he goes by now.
CHICGAMER, is it? As in CHICK GAMER? Hmm...oh well, anyway, are you even kidding me? You are either CHRIS himself or you spent ONE afternoon with this loser. You can not possibly know what you are talking about if you are not him.
These women have been through so much and you can get on here and dare them to prove you wrong? Are you insane? THEY ALREADY DID PROVE YOU WRONG! Are you S L O W ?

Maybe I should read some of the reports to you if you are having trouble understanding what he is doing to people. Not just to women, they can get their life together and move on, but to small innocent children. They have to forever be connected, or disconnected, or wondering,,,,,it is just so sad that he can continue doing this to them.

I just hope and pray that someone can do something that will make this man stop this!!! Forget making him be responsible. Anyone that knows him can figure THAT will not happen. But just someone that can make him STOP.
I agree with the people above: ONE) IN MY OPINION>He belongs in a suit! TWO) IN MY OPINIO>He is a scum bag and THREE) I am so sorry to Olivia, Jenn, and others who are brave enough to get on here and try to spread the word!!!!! I know and you know you will all be fine! You are strong women. That is evident by your coming on here. But you will be more than fine. I believe with all my heart that one day you will see results of your efforts here. He can run for a long time and he can hide a while. But not forever. I BELIEVE>He WILL have to answer for all of this. And I dont mean in another life. I believe it will be in this one.
Good luck and God Bless to ALL.
Grennen.

You can choose ANY combination of the above names and you may be correct on the name he goes by now.
CHICGAMER, is it? As in CHICK GAMER? Hmm...oh well, anyway, are you even kidding me? You are either CHRIS himself or you spent ONE afternoon with this loser. You can not possibly know what you are talking about if you are not him.
These women have been through so much and you can get on here and dare them to prove you wrong? Are you insane? THEY ALREADY DID PROVE YOU WRONG! Are you S L O W ?

Maybe I should read some of the reports to you if you are having trouble understanding what he is doing to people. Not just to women, they can get their life together and move on, but to small innocent children. They have to forever be connected, or disconnected, or wondering,,,,,it is just so sad that he can continue doing this to them.

I just hope and pray that someone can do something that will make this man stop this!!! Forget making him be responsible. Anyone that knows him can figure THAT will not happen. But just someone that can make him STOP.
I agree with the people above: ONE) IN MY OPINION>He belongs in a suit! TWO) IN MY OPINIO>He is a scum bag and THREE) I am so sorry to Olivia, Jenn, and others who are brave enough to get on here and try to spread the word!!!!! I know and you know you will all be fine! You are strong women. That is evident by your coming on here. But you will be more than fine. I believe with all my heart that one day you will see results of your efforts here. He can run for a long time and he can hide a while. But not forever. I BELIEVE>He WILL have to answer for all of this. And I dont mean in another life. I believe it will be in this one.
Good luck and God Bless to ALL.
Grennen.

You can choose ANY combination of the above names and you may be correct on the name he goes by now.
CHICGAMER, is it? As in CHICK GAMER? Hmm...oh well, anyway, are you even kidding me? You are either CHRIS himself or you spent ONE afternoon with this loser. You can not possibly know what you are talking about if you are not him.
These women have been through so much and you can get on here and dare them to prove you wrong? Are you insane? THEY ALREADY DID PROVE YOU WRONG! Are you S L O W ?

Maybe I should read some of the reports to you if you are having trouble understanding what he is doing to people. Not just to women, they can get their life together and move on, but to small innocent children. They have to forever be connected, or disconnected, or wondering,,,,,it is just so sad that he can continue doing this to them.

I just hope and pray that someone can do something that will make this man stop this!!! Forget making him be responsible. Anyone that knows him can figure THAT will not happen. But just someone that can make him STOP.
I agree with the people above: ONE) IN MY OPINION>He belongs in a suit! TWO) IN MY OPINIO>He is a scum bag and THREE) I am so sorry to Olivia, Jenn, and others who are brave enough to get on here and try to spread the word!!!!! I know and you know you will all be fine! You are strong women. That is evident by your coming on here. But you will be more than fine. I believe with all my heart that one day you will see results of your efforts here. He can run for a long time and he can hide a while. But not forever. I BELIEVE>He WILL have to answer for all of this. And I dont mean in another life. I believe it will be in this one.
Good luck and God Bless to ALL.
Grennen.

You can choose ANY combination of the above names and you may be correct on the name he goes by now.
CHICGAMER, is it? As in CHICK GAMER? Hmm...oh well, anyway, are you even kidding me? You are either CHRIS himself or you spent ONE afternoon with this loser. You can not possibly know what you are talking about if you are not him.
These women have been through so much and you can get on here and dare them to prove you wrong? Are you insane? THEY ALREADY DID PROVE YOU WRONG! Are you S L O W ?

Maybe I should read some of the reports to you if you are having trouble understanding what he is doing to people. Not just to women, they can get their life together and move on, but to small innocent children. They have to forever be connected, or disconnected, or wondering,,,,,it is just so sad that he can continue doing this to them.

I just hope and pray that someone can do something that will make this man stop this!!! Forget making him be responsible. Anyone that knows him can figure THAT will not happen. But just someone that can make him STOP.
I agree with the people above: ONE) IN MY OPINION>He belongs in a suit! TWO) IN MY OPINIO>He is a scum bag and THREE) I am so sorry to Olivia, Jenn, and others who are brave enough to get on here and try to spread the word!!!!! I know and you know you will all be fine! You are strong women. That is evident by your coming on here. But you will be more than fine. I believe with all my heart that one day you will see results of your efforts here. He can run for a long time and he can hide a while. But not forever. I BELIEVE>He WILL have to answer for all of this. And I dont mean in another life. I believe it will be in this one.
Good luck and God Bless to ALL.
Grennen.

I should have posted this sooner to hopefully prevent more women to falling victim of the "rotten tooth scumbag" as Whitney called him before...lol...I met Chris online in mid April. We talked online for a few days. He worked for an organization that was rebuilding homes destroyed in Katrina and I had lost my home in Katrina. Seems like a godsend huh? No way! We talked for a few days and before we even met Chris was telling me that he loved me. My husband and I were having serious marrital issues so I was pretty vulnerable at the time! I fell right in head over heels.

We ended up meeting the next week. The next day I went back. I ended up spending the night with him and calling in sick to work the next day. We rented a motel room in which I paid for half because he was broke...as usual! We "dated" off and on for the next couple of weeks and I was all dead set on leaving my husband and Chris was talking about getting married as soon as my divorce was final all the while he was STILL married to Vanessa.

I found the rip off report online and was completely shocked. Of course Chris denied the whole thing and told me that he had printed it off and was going to show me that very day. He says that everyone on here is crazy and they posted these things to "ruin" him. A couple of weeks after I cut off contact with Chris I found out I was pregnant. I wasn't sleeping with my husband at all at the time so I'm pretty positive that it's his. He must have the most potent sperm EVER. I was pretty lucky considering the things some of these ladies have been through. I thank God that it didn't go that far. If you meet him ladies seriously DON'T fall for his game. It's all fake and I wouldn't believe a word that comes out of his badly decayed rotten mouth!

If anyone wants to contact me, PLEASE do.

I can't believe what all you people are saying about Chris. He can not be like this. He was so nice when I traveled down to Mississippi. He may have been a little different, but who isn't? He showed me a couple things around town, and he was a perfect gentleman. Did I miss something? I would like to hear from anyone out there that can prove me wrong....

Thanks for the info boyscoutdave. I think you may be right... to a point. The only difference is that while Chris does make up lies and stories about his past, he does it in the present tense as well. I have many instances of this logged in my memory bank, but one example is telling his former roommate Brad, that he was hooked up to the internet in a library because he was homeless while sitting in front of me in the living room of our apartment! He knows exactly what he is doing. I've seen him conjure up so many stories and lies that I believe nothing that comes out of his rotten mouth. I've also spoken to his father and his ex and confirmed my suspicions. I envy your kind heart, however I have been exposed to more than you have seen, as many of us have. He is indeed sick, but he created his sickness.

Ive know chris for about a year now

Last year, It was my sinor year of high school, and I traveled down to Waveland, MS with my youth group for spring break for hurricane releif. This is where we met Chris. We didnt like him very much. We mostly sat around, when we really wanted to be doing hard hard work.

He was working as a volunteer coordinator for the City of Waveland.

Two friend of mine and I decided to go back to MS for a longer time to help build houses. We went through this organization called walls of hope.

We traveled down there this past fall, and much to our suprise, Chris had been hired by the organisation only two days before.

We met his then wife, Vanessa, the honest to God, nicest woman id ever met. His step daughter, Gabby, and neice, Amber... both your typical teenage girls.

He was a nice guy, with good intentions... but really annoying pretty much all the time... wasnt reliable for anything... cept a good steak dinner.

Last I heard, Chris had recently been fired (after my friends and i spent a good amount of time building him his own office) and had divorced his wife. Heck, I remeber when he first decided to.. he told us first... walked up all non-chalant and told us like it was a normal conversation topic.

But, i noticed a couple similar characteristics of Chris to that of my step-father. My steo father has Borderline Personality Disorder. Basically, he makes up stories about his life, which are all lies. But theres a catch. He doesnt know the difference between the finction and the non-fiction. As far as he knows, those stories are real. And once the fake reality is confronted, his mind makes up new ones... And he often put his foot in his mouth as a result, and he says very innapropriate stuff all the time as if it were the most relevant thing in the world.

Chris has all the same syptoms. I strongly beleive Chris is just undiagnosed.

Its not uncommon at all... while growing up with the disorder, kids often have active imaginations and thus, stories are attributed to it. Once grown up, these people often move from place to place and meet people who dont know anything about thier life before, and it is easy to fill in the blanks with something false. Its next to impossible for anyone to see through.

Eventually things fall apart...

But seriously Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious issue, and left untreated, it wrecks peoples lives.

Trust me, I know... my step-father raised me and my famliy on a life that wasnt real... 12 years... a marriage and 3 kids... the story sucks. But were trying to make it a happy ending.

Chris, yes, is an annoying AHOLE sometimes... But i think he need help

help and Grace...

Ive know chris for about a year now

Last year, It was my sinor year of high school, and I traveled down to Waveland, MS with my youth group for spring break for hurricane releif. This is where we met Chris. We didnt like him very much. We mostly sat around, when we really wanted to be doing hard hard work.

He was working as a volunteer coordinator for the City of Waveland.

Two friend of mine and I decided to go back to MS for a longer time to help build houses. We went through this organization called walls of hope.

We traveled down there this past fall, and much to our suprise, Chris had been hired by the organisation only two days before.

We met his then wife, Vanessa, the honest to God, nicest woman id ever met. His step daughter, Gabby, and neice, Amber... both your typical teenage girls.

He was a nice guy, with good intentions... but really annoying pretty much all the time... wasnt reliable for anything... cept a good steak dinner.

Last I heard, Chris had recently been fired (after my friends and i spent a good amount of time building him his own office) and had divorced his wife. Heck, I remeber when he first decided to.. he told us first... walked up all non-chalant and told us like it was a normal conversation topic.

But, i noticed a couple similar characteristics of Chris to that of my step-father. My steo father has Borderline Personality Disorder. Basically, he makes up stories about his life, which are all lies. But theres a catch. He doesnt know the difference between the finction and the non-fiction. As far as he knows, those stories are real. And once the fake reality is confronted, his mind makes up new ones... And he often put his foot in his mouth as a result, and he says very innapropriate stuff all the time as if it were the most relevant thing in the world.

Chris has all the same syptoms. I strongly beleive Chris is just undiagnosed.

Its not uncommon at all... while growing up with the disorder, kids often have active imaginations and thus, stories are attributed to it. Once grown up, these people often move from place to place and meet people who dont know anything about thier life before, and it is easy to fill in the blanks with something false. Its next to impossible for anyone to see through.

Eventually things fall apart...

But seriously Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious issue, and left untreated, it wrecks peoples lives.

Trust me, I know... my step-father raised me and my famliy on a life that wasnt real... 12 years... a marriage and 3 kids... the story sucks. But were trying to make it a happy ending.

Chris, yes, is an annoying AHOLE sometimes... But i think he need help

help and Grace...

Ive know chris for about a year now

Last year, It was my sinor year of high school, and I traveled down to Waveland, MS with my youth group for spring break for hurricane releif. This is where we met Chris. We didnt like him very much. We mostly sat around, when we really wanted to be doing hard hard work.

He was working as a volunteer coordinator for the City of Waveland.

Two friend of mine and I decided to go back to MS for a longer time to help build houses. We went through this organization called walls of hope.

We traveled down there this past fall, and much to our suprise, Chris had been hired by the organisation only two days before.

We met his then wife, Vanessa, the honest to God, nicest woman id ever met. His step daughter, Gabby, and neice, Amber... both your typical teenage girls.

He was a nice guy, with good intentions... but really annoying pretty much all the time... wasnt reliable for anything... cept a good steak dinner.

Last I heard, Chris had recently been fired (after my friends and i spent a good amount of time building him his own office) and had divorced his wife. Heck, I remeber when he first decided to.. he told us first... walked up all non-chalant and told us like it was a normal conversation topic.

But, i noticed a couple similar characteristics of Chris to that of my step-father. My steo father has Borderline Personality Disorder. Basically, he makes up stories about his life, which are all lies. But theres a catch. He doesnt know the difference between the finction and the non-fiction. As far as he knows, those stories are real. And once the fake reality is confronted, his mind makes up new ones... And he often put his foot in his mouth as a result, and he says very innapropriate stuff all the time as if it were the most relevant thing in the world.

Chris has all the same syptoms. I strongly beleive Chris is just undiagnosed.

Its not uncommon at all... while growing up with the disorder, kids often have active imaginations and thus, stories are attributed to it. Once grown up, these people often move from place to place and meet people who dont know anything about thier life before, and it is easy to fill in the blanks with something false. Its next to impossible for anyone to see through.

Eventually things fall apart...

But seriously Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious issue, and left untreated, it wrecks peoples lives.

Trust me, I know... my step-father raised me and my famliy on a life that wasnt real... 12 years... a marriage and 3 kids... the story sucks. But were trying to make it a happy ending.

Chris, yes, is an annoying AHOLE sometimes... But i think he need help

help and Grace...

Ive know chris for about a year now

Last year, It was my sinor year of high school, and I traveled down to Waveland, MS with my youth group for spring break for hurricane releif. This is where we met Chris. We didnt like him very much. We mostly sat around, when we really wanted to be doing hard hard work.

He was working as a volunteer coordinator for the City of Waveland.

Two friend of mine and I decided to go back to MS for a longer time to help build houses. We went through this organization called walls of hope.

We traveled down there this past fall, and much to our suprise, Chris had been hired by the organisation only two days before.

We met his then wife, Vanessa, the honest to God, nicest woman id ever met. His step daughter, Gabby, and neice, Amber... both your typical teenage girls.

He was a nice guy, with good intentions... but really annoying pretty much all the time... wasnt reliable for anything... cept a good steak dinner.

Last I heard, Chris had recently been fired (after my friends and i spent a good amount of time building him his own office) and had divorced his wife. Heck, I remeber when he first decided to.. he told us first... walked up all non-chalant and told us like it was a normal conversation topic.

But, i noticed a couple similar characteristics of Chris to that of my step-father. My steo father has Borderline Personality Disorder. Basically, he makes up stories about his life, which are all lies. But theres a catch. He doesnt know the difference between the finction and the non-fiction. As far as he knows, those stories are real. And once the fake reality is confronted, his mind makes up new ones... And he often put his foot in his mouth as a result, and he says very innapropriate stuff all the time as if it were the most relevant thing in the world.

Chris has all the same syptoms. I strongly beleive Chris is just undiagnosed.

Its not uncommon at all... while growing up with the disorder, kids often have active imaginations and thus, stories are attributed to it. Once grown up, these people often move from place to place and meet people who dont know anything about thier life before, and it is easy to fill in the blanks with something false. Its next to impossible for anyone to see through.

Eventually things fall apart...

But seriously Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious issue, and left untreated, it wrecks peoples lives.

Trust me, I know... my step-father raised me and my famliy on a life that wasnt real... 12 years... a marriage and 3 kids... the story sucks. But were trying to make it a happy ending.

Chris, yes, is an annoying AHOLE sometimes... But i think he need help

help and Grace...

To whomever posted the last rebuttal... thanks for the information! It could definitely become useful. If not to me then, to someone else he has wronged. Anymore info you have would be appreciated.

Chris is now living in Waveland MS married to Vannessa Farve
he is volunteering in the Long Term Recovery for Hancock County
Lives on Mars St.
phone # is 228-493-1364 Wife works at Hancock Medical Center
Phone # is 228-467-8600
Still not Working!
go for child support?

Well Brad, that is all too funny to me. I knew that he was leaving the state to go stay with you, that much he told me. But he also said that you offered him a job at a church! HA! Everything else he told, of course, was a lie. He found out I was pregnant, a week later came up with the "I got a job out of state" bit, used MY credit card to buy his bus ticket and took off. When he was here in Michigan we were staying with a woman whom WE owed rent to. And that HE promised to pay. And he never looked for a job here either. He never stayed in a library to hook up to the laptop. He was right in front of me in the living room every night on EQ. I didn't pay much attention to what he was doing on there though, so I'm sorry he sucked you in on his scams. His scams never cease. He's been using that "My roommates stiffed me on rent" bit for a while. As far as I know Chris has since gotten married, I just hope that either she realizes what he's about before it gets too late, or that with the help of prayer and a miracle he's changed for her sake. Personally, I don't care either way. I'm happy now, all he did was bring misery into my life. Besides my son, I love him to death. His behavior, as someone else has described, really is comical. Not to the people that fall victim to it, of course. I just can't believe a 34 year old man would behave like this, it's unbelievable. Anyhow, thanks for the info Brad. I'm really sorry that you became another victim. Thanks for helping warn the world!

Tupelo, MS

I can't say I'm shocked to read this report. I met Chris on Everquest and a mutual friend who lives nearby asked if we would let him stay with us till he got on his feet. They offered to help financially since they just didn't have room so we agreed. Yeah, I know. *sigh*

This was in 2003 and he was coming from Michigan so I figure it was here that he came. The story he told us was that he had been staying with someone and his room mate had stiffed him on rent and got them evicted. He had been staying in a library where he could hook up his laptop to stay in touch with everyone.

He said he managed to borrow enough money to get a bus ticket and we put him up for a little over 2 months before I finally had enough of his freeloading and gave him the boot. He never even looked for a job while he stayed here and his kooky, almost paranoid manner really got under my skin.

We did talk with his father and he seemed like a really sweet man and expressed that Chris suffered from bipolar disorder and that he worried about him. Apparently they are estranged but we never got into details about why.

After we gave him a deadline to get out, he promptly went to Columbus, MS where he became involved with some folks who own a nightclub. He did some work for them and developed a relationship with a woman there. Then we lost contact with him so who knows where he is or what he's doing. All information about what happened in Columbus, MS is based on what Chris told us himself via instant messages.

Chris Calovic is bad news and I would advise anyone to avoid him.

When I wrote this report, I really REALLY wanted to find Chris and try to screw up his life someway, somehow. Now, honestly, I don't want ANYTHING from him... not even his money. I don't want him to have anything to do with me or my son. He is worthless!!!! So I'm not sorry I wrote the report, because I'm finding out a lot more than I thought I would, and I'm helping to warn the rest of the world to stay away from him. My intentions however have changed. I just really wanted to hurt him, but I realize that to do that is not my place. He will have his judgement day. And when my son gets old enough to realize what his sperm donor was like... he'll thank me for not trying to get him involved. He has plenty of love and support without him. Not that Chris could provide ANYTHING for him anyways, but he's not needed nor is he wanted for ANYTHING! So like I said... my intentions for this report have changed. But if you come across him... BEWARE!

Oh wow, I cannot believe so many women have come forward with Chris Calovic horror stories. I "dated" Chris, in March/April of 2002. We met online, we told me he was single for about 6 months, but he had a daughter in New Hampshire. So he talked me into going to dinner with him.
He came to my house to take me to dinner, surprisingly he paid...but I should have known he was "Off" when he wouldn't leave until I kissed him, and even then it was 3:30 AM...man am I embarrassed!! Denae (sp?), I was with Chris right after you two broke up, while he still owned the store and was still living in that house. Had I known all of this, I would have stayed far far away...I should have anyway. All the BS he put me through. I just want to say that I'm sorry...if ever I said or did anything hurtful to you in any way...he was around when I was in a very vulnerable stage in my life, and made me even more so. I'm so sorry to the women who have had his children. I know about his son that lives with his father, Danae's daughter, and Mina's son, whom he claims is his, but never took care of, nor aknowledged.

I know of the office where Mina worked, if she did exist. Who knows. He fed me the same exact lies as you all, the Louise Woodward, Ground Zero, Working with the Red Cross and constantly being "On Call" for them. H**l he had me believing he was going to Afghanistan right after 9/11. He told me he was 1 semester away from being a lawyer, LOL too funny. He was a recovering Drug addict and alcoholic, and had done some serious crimes in Texas. He lived in that Despicable house, I actually helped him clean that dirty room of his, and those poor poor dogs and that bird...I wish I could have taken the, with me the last time I left there.


Oh and yep, I even had him do the chest bit, and pass out on me. I had NO way of getting home and was pretty much stranded whenever we were together, which was like every frickin day cuz he HATED My family. He told me I was 22 years old, and had to start acting it, because I was so close to my mother, he was so jealous of us. He almost turned me against my family....I d**n near had a nervous breakdown because of him, but at this time I truly thought I loved the guy...ugh what a MORON I was. I am so embarrassed by this period in my life. Thank GOD I never had a baby by him and had a family who loved me enough to talk me out of marrying the loser. Yep, I almost ran off and married him...was going to move to Florida, live a great life...YEAH!

He also told me about his father sexually abusing him, which I could never understand because he left his eldest son in the custody of this man...? Made no sense, but in my sorry state I was a total flake because of him. He always flaunted his ex in my face too....not the lawyer, but the one he had the baby girl by in NH. UGH What an a**hole!

The final straw for me and him, was when my mother nearly had a heart attach and he called her a liar. I went home, changed my #s, my Email addresses and never talked to him again. Though he was seen around my house a couple of times. that was that...1 month of PURE h**l. Probably not as bad as some, but pretty bad for me.


Anyway, I'm going on and on...there is just so much that happened in the MONTH that I was with this guy, I could write a book. Hey, we Chris Calovis Survivors should get together and do just that! Warn the women of the USA, go on Oprah, Dr Phil can psychologize us....the whole deal. No, I'm kidding, trying to make light of a very serious and sad situation. I'm sorry to you Olivia for having to go through the things you've gone through. Good luck with everything, to you all!! If you want to chat, please email me and we can trade war stories, this goes for any of the Chris Calovic survivors.

CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report.

Hi, its "ms. x" Would rather not say my name, but you are welcome. I was so upset to see that there are there are others out there who have expierenced the "CC" effect. But no, to someone elses reponse, I never saw him clutch his chest and fall to the floor. I was only with him for a short time, but let me tell you, what a nightmare as you had read previously. But you know how bad he is. You have nothing to be ashamed of Olivia, everything happenes for a reason. It happened to you and you had the guts enough to come on here and file a report about him, that took alot of guts. Not knowing if there were others, and to my surprise and yours, there are many of us women that fell victim to him. I wish there was a way to post his face on a poster that states " if you see this man, be afraid, be very afraid...just run"

There is no excuse for him what so ever. But in reponse to the other woman who reponded and thought it sounded like she was with him the same time i was, maybe he was, i dont know, but i ended it when i realized i was being stupid.

Hopefully more women hear about this report and read it and stay clear of him.

"ms. x"

Well Well Well. How amazing that I found this little article!! I only knew Christopher...but was never involved with him. So I am not a woman scorned...just a gal that once knew him and thought he was a freak. I DID however see the things he was doing to women. WOW~! When I think of Christopher, 2 completely separate feelings pop up. One is COMICAL!! OMG people! YOU KNOW what I am talking about if you have ever been around him! Clutching his chest and falling to the floor. Needing an ambulance or hospital around every corner. Did you people seriously think that was normal?? Let's see what other memories I have....Oh yes....certainly you saw him pound on the computer until it about broke, make spaghetti that stained his teeth, did not take a bath or brush his teeth unless you MADE HIM. How ATTRACTIVE!! A semester away from being a lawyer?? A pilot?? And then to find out it is a VIRTUAL PILOT>>>>THATS FUNNY!!
Are you people smoking crack>?
I really do not mean any disrespect. But this guy is almost comical when you think about all this at one time!!

The other side of me is sad. I am sad for all the children that have to learn one day that their biological father is Christopher Calovic. GOOD GOD!! Can you imagine?? Learning that your father is Christopher Calovic? Makes you want to hurt yourself! The way he uses women and preys on them should be criminal (and actually probably is),,,but he turns it around and tells them MINA is going to sue them. Which is quite funny because if there is a MINA I am sure she is not a lawyer and I cant imagine anyone that has ever met the man not hating his guts. So she is history!! He really does not want to contact her or anyone else he knows since he has left a trail of bills and babies from one side of the US to the other!!

And hellooooooooooo!! OF COURSE "DAVID" IS CHRISTOPHER!!!!! Either that...or he took the laptop up to the local pshych ward and had a David type in crap. By the way...it is my opinion that he should be in a suit. Either white or orange. TAKE YOUR PICK! But bars are his friend.
The only other thing is how he even thinks he can use God.!! WOW~~ what nerve. You know, Satan does just that. He takes what is beautiful and sacred from the Lord and turns it into something ugly and grotesque. How sad for Christopher on the day of our Lord's return. Even if he is nuts and the Lord still takes him in....he will not by any stretch of the imagination be called a good and faithful servant!! He uses people of God and our Lord is Loving and Comforting...but he is also a JUST GOD> I can not imagine a JUST God allowing Christopher to get away with hurting and preying on innocent people~~

I can say with 99.99999% accuracy that ANY POSTS to this site that is defensive of Chris will be from CHRISTOPHER himself acting like a lawyer or whatever!! OR by the women that he has currently in his web of lies. They will learn.
Sadly, too late.

You will already be hurt. Your life will already be changed. :( Permenant scares from Christopher Calovic. It should be a book and he should be behind some type of enclosure!!
Thats all for now.

Ah I too had the great misfortune of living with and being involved with Chris for about 3 months. I too got the stories about Irag, drug abuse, child abuse (which aren't true because I spent a lot of time with his father) I supported him the entire time he lived with me while he sent out pictures of himself in my office online claiming it was his. I have the stack of credit card bills that I am still paying for because of him. I am still paying for the mistake I call Chris. I can never look at the soda Big Red again because he drank them constantly and it stained his rotting teeth. I am embarrased I had anything to do with him. He is a disgusting human with no hygiene skills at all. He was an Everquest junkie when he lived with me as well. However I loved it because when he was playing EQ I didn't have to deal with him. I do miss his son Zachary and his father Joe. We spent alot of time in Austin with them when he was here and they are both amazing. I still keep in contact with them. I feel sorry for Olivia because he must have come to her after I booted him out. I am sorry about that Olivia. However it was fun to know that my relationship ended with the police and my father throwing him out of my house and sending him off in a taxi cab! If anyone wants to contact me I love to hear about "Chris" stories as I call them. Spoiledrottentx on AOL. I talk to Danae alot and I truly feel for you Olivia. I am sorry.

Hello all, I am the one who has the daughter in Boston and she is right. He has given me maybe $300 since 2002 when I left him. Sounds like I was seeing him at the same time as the person from NH because he was living in the Rooming house in Lynn when I met him beginning of 2000. I lived with him for over 2 years and helped/owned a computer store with him. The story of everything is way to long to tell on here but there are many kids and he takes care of none. The only kids he says are his are mine and his son that lives with Chris's father, the rest he saws the women are lying from what I heard. I have had no contact with him for over a year. My daughter is now 4 and he hasnt seen her since she was 18 months old. I think I have found him though and am working on getting a child support order. My email is blueydnae@aol.com if anyone needs info or has any, Im really friendly, apparently to friendly to him and now I will pay for it forever. I would like to talk to Olivia sometime, since you have my daughters brother kinda :) email if you like. Good luck to all those he has effected and the once hes after now, run.

Well on the night of August 13th, I caught Chris online, and surprisingly enough he talked to me. And not too surprisingly wouldn't tell me where he was. His paranoia still works apparently. I purposely kept my son's name out of the conversation, seeing if he would ask about him. He didn't ask once, about his name, birthday, birth weight, if he was walking, talking... anything. The whole conversation was about Chris. What he went through, and what he's dealing with, cry me a river. I doubt that I'll ever hear from him again. I gave him my cell phone number, but of course he has excuse after excuse to not call or email. Oh, he also tried the "I tried to contact you, but got no response" bit. TOTAL BS. I gained nothing from the conversation we had. Hell I can't believe a word he says. He thinks I'm out to get him, or harm him. He flatters himself too much. I could care less about hurting him. I will go to other resources though if I don't hear from him soon. My son doesn't deserve this. I still think what I thought before, a loser, scam artist, deadbeat human being. So unless he was caught in Katrina, I will accept no excuse.

Since I don't know your name, I'm just going to call you Ms. Ex.. if thats ok. Well, Ms. Ex, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I'm so glad to know that someone out there knows him and what he is about. You described him PERFECTLY! Yes, I am confident that we are talking about the same person. He was definitely obsessed with his "lawyer ex". She was about all he talked about. Whether she existed or not... hell if I know. I do know all about the Louise Woodward deal. He tried telling me he was an advocate/spokesperson for her. I think every word uttered out of his mouth was a lie. He also told me he was abused as a child. Well Ms. Ex, if you happen to know his whereabouts, or ever hear from him, please let me know. I want what is owed to my son. You know I was so ashamed when I was pregnant about what had happened I didn't tell anyone. Thats how disgusted I am with myself, but thats not half as disgusted as I am with him. I HATE him.... as I'm sure half the country does now. Thanks for your response, it is GREATLY appreciated.

this is the same Chris Calovic that I knew back in 1999, judging by his picture on the filan approach site, IT IS. Olivia, I totally agree with you. I met Chris on line. We only lives 2 cities apart, so we decided to meet. I was seperated from my spouse and just wanted to get out of the house. Well, Chris and I met in Lynn, MA. He seemed like an ok guy at first, but after 2 months, my god, was I annoyed. He lived in a ROOMING house, and let me tell you, it was a mess. dishes piled, full asktrays all over the place and finally, boxes upon boxes upon boxes of tee shirts that said "we believe louise" Claimed to be a volunteer for the red cross, salvation army, claimed to be a computer gurue (make me laugh) and claimed to be the keyboardist in a christian band and did not only have a daughter in boston that he did not care about, but he has a son also by his x who is a lawyer (or so he says). He claimed to be this great guy who did all these things to help people. I never saw proof. He even told me that he was abused as a child. I told him that I wanted to go out with my sister and he freaked out on me. Said no, you are not going and you are coming over here. I laughed and left. He kept calling me, asking me what i was talking to my sister about and why iw as with her. I kept hanging up on him. He would not let me talk to anyone that knew him, for the same reasons that he told you. They will lie. He is the liar and the loser.

He made me bounce checks that i had to pay for, made me pay for everything told me that he would get his 'lawyer' to wire the money to him to pay me back. Well, that never happened and I was out 1300.00 for the cost of the items i purchased and the returned check fees.

one night i bumped into my spouse i was seperated from (chris was not with me) and we got back together and chris kept calling me and calling me. Telling me he is bad, will hurt me and will lie to me, that i was stupid for thinking anything different. I told him no, that was not true and well, hubby and i are still together, but chris would not have heard of it at the time. He even told me that if I had my husband go after him that I would be sued. Sorry, my husband and I have better things to do. But HE kept calling me!

Finally i just gave up answering my phone. On the computer on instant messanging, he would bother me...threatened me that if i didn't talk to him he would have me fired from my job. Then had the balls to tell me after i responded to him that he was going to sue me for harrassment. So finally I just blocked him. But he found other ways to get to me. Emailing me at work again telling me he was going to have me fired. Jerk.

After stumbling across your post Olivia, I had to respond. I was wondering if any other poor women fell into his trap of empty promises of love and happiness, and apparently they did. he is a scumbag with a bad skin problem on his arms, balding, lazy, lieing, disgusting human being. You should take him for all he is worth. He has to pay you child support for your son. Make him pay! Everytime a song would come on the radio that reminded him of his x (the lawyer) he would say 'oh, this is me and so & so's song, are you jealous?' Um, no i told him. But he lept on doing it. Schmuck. Yes, he is a loser. I bet you anything that every woman who has been with him all say the same things about him. If you read his profile on the final approach site, he picture is there and it says this about him: http://www.finalapproach.webhop.net/

"Turn Offs: Liars, cheats, players, superficial people, materialistic people"

--looks who is call the kettle black!!


I do hope things get better Olivia!!

I've known olivia for a LONG time and i have seen his child, which is a WHOLE LOT MORE THAT CAN BE SAID FOR HIM. Think about it for 2 seconds, who would lie about something like that? it certainly isn't olivia. i work with olivia and i see her struggle everyday with the lies and deciet he fed her constantly. and yes, he is a DEADBEAT DAD. what kind of man has a kid HE'S NEVER EVEN SEEN?? what makes it worse is that he has MORE THAN ONE CHILD HE DOES THIS TO. At least i can pull my head out of my a*s long enough to know who the liar here is, and David, you obviously don't know him very well...or he's lying to you like he does to everyone else. If you're really such a friend to him than maybe you should try getting him to take some responsibility for his actions. And CHRIS - you lying coward piece of dog vomit, i hope you read this and see what people really think of you.

I've known olivia for a LONG time and i have seen his child, which is a WHOLE LOT MORE THAT CAN BE SAID FOR HIM. Think about it for 2 seconds, who would lie about something like that? it certainly isn't olivia. i work with olivia and i see her struggle everyday with the lies and deciet he fed her constantly. and yes, he is a DEADBEAT DAD. what kind of man has a kid HE'S NEVER EVEN SEEN?? what makes it worse is that he has MORE THAN ONE CHILD HE DOES THIS TO. At least i can pull my head out of my a*s long enough to know who the liar here is, and David, you obviously don't know him very well...or he's lying to you like he does to everyone else. If you're really such a friend to him than maybe you should try getting him to take some responsibility for his actions. And CHRIS - you lying coward piece of dog vomit, i hope you read this and see what people really think of you.

I've known olivia for a LONG time and i have seen his child, which is a WHOLE LOT MORE THAT CAN BE SAID FOR HIM. Think about it for 2 seconds, who would lie about something like that? it certainly isn't olivia. i work with olivia and i see her struggle everyday with the lies and deciet he fed her constantly. and yes, he is a DEADBEAT DAD. what kind of man has a kid HE'S NEVER EVEN SEEN?? what makes it worse is that he has MORE THAN ONE CHILD HE DOES THIS TO. At least i can pull my head out of my a*s long enough to know who the liar here is, and David, you obviously don't know him very well...or he's lying to you like he does to everyone else. If you're really such a friend to him than maybe you should try getting him to take some responsibility for his actions. And CHRIS - you lying coward piece of dog vomit, i hope you read this and see what people really think of you.

I've known olivia for a LONG time and i have seen his child, which is a WHOLE LOT MORE THAT CAN BE SAID FOR HIM. Think about it for 2 seconds, who would lie about something like that? it certainly isn't olivia. i work with olivia and i see her struggle everyday with the lies and deciet he fed her constantly. and yes, he is a DEADBEAT DAD. what kind of man has a kid HE'S NEVER EVEN SEEN?? what makes it worse is that he has MORE THAN ONE CHILD HE DOES THIS TO. At least i can pull my head out of my a*s long enough to know who the liar here is, and David, you obviously don't know him very well...or he's lying to you like he does to everyone else. If you're really such a friend to him than maybe you should try getting him to take some responsibility for his actions. And CHRIS - you lying coward piece of dog vomit, i hope you read this and see what people really think of you.

I am writting this in respons to your rebuttal david. He may be your best friend and all but you need to get to know him a whole lot better then what you do. I am Olivia's very close friend who was going to let them live with me becuase they had no place to go becuase your "best friend" is a lazy pile of s**t. He didn't have one single job while they were together. He told everyone a different story-for example he told me and my boyfriend that he had a degree in computers that he had a degree in pyschology, he claimed to have owned a computer store in Arizona, and also claimed to have gone to school to be a lawyer. If he has all these degrees why couldn't he find a job? Answer me that question. And to top all that off he said he was a recovering drug and alchol addict of 15 years. Lets see, you do the math he was 31 years old. Can we say LIAR? Olivia is a wonderul person who trusted him no matter what her family and I told her. I saw it from the second I met him. I new he was a real winner. Olivia is one of the most honest people that I know she works very hard to make a good life for HER son. And that low life knew she was pregnat and walked out on her. I really hope you are his best friend because if you are then I am sure that you talk to him-so do me a favor and tell him to go to this site and read what I am saying. And tell him to be a man and send me a respomse I want him to tell me that MY BEST FRIEND is a liar. Besides I have a few things that I would love to say to him. In my mind he nothing but a liar, scam artist, lazy low life, BUM, cheater, and scum on the inside of a public toilet bowl. How dare you condone his actions. You obviously must be just like him. It is guys like you and him that give the good ones a bad name. It's people like you and him that should be over fighting for this country instead of good MEN that care about people. Atleast if this country had guys like you and chris over there and you got hurt or killed it wouldn't be a big deal. Like I said since you are his best friend PLEASE PLEASE send him to this site and let him read what I have wrote. I would love to hear what lie he comes up with now. And besides what guy uses a girls credit card to buy stuff for himself and doesn't pay it back. also if he was a man at all he would have sold that precious lap top computer of his to get money for a place to live for both of them - but oh no can't do that because supposedly he father My big wig jugde in Texas bought that for him and he would be very upset. That lap top was stolen and if I could have gotten my hands on it I would have taken it straight to the cops and had it checked out. Oh please do me the favor and have him visit this site and let him know that if he has any balls at all he will respond.

David,

Wow, he's obviously got you fooled too! What a true best friend he is, I told you he was a liar and he's obviously lied to you. If he is working, GREAT!! Then he can send me the money he owes me and my son. He would never do that to me huh?? I've got about at least a dozen witnesses that KNOWS he did. I've got proof that he did... do you want to see the credit card statement? You can call Greyhound and verify who's name the bus ticket was in and where the destination was to... go ahead, I will give you all the info you need to verify it. I have nothing to hide. If he doesn't think he has a son, let him come up here and take a paternity test, I WELCOME IT! If you are his "best friend", what a man that his best friend has to stick up for him! He's a real class act, let me tell ya. Funny how I never heard of you. Of course he is a liar, so its possible that you are real. Another thing David, I have nothing, absolutely NOTHING to lie about. If I didn't have my son, I wouldn't even deal with his sorry a*s, but my baby wasn't exactly a whoops, so he needs to own up to his responsibilities. He's a fake, a phony, a liar and a wad that should have been swallowed. If you want to be his best friend you go right on ahead... you are the company you keep. Tell the balding, rotted teeth, lying scumbag I said hello. Oh and tell his lawyer I said Hi too... we both know her name (that is if you ARE his best friend, and if she REALLY exists), because I'm sure he's mentioned that he's going to sue... the big cry baby. I could care less... bring it. And for you to stick up for a man that does this to women... or even anyone for that matter, you are nothing but a worthless human being yourself that deserves to be lied to and used by him. Well thats all for now, until we meet again...

Olivia you are the liar. he is my best friend he never would do that too you...so you lie real hard!!

he pays his bills and works full time....how dare you talk such trash like you do?