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  • Report:  #1268529

Complaint Review: Dr. James Bayassee

Dr. James Bayassee of Counseling Services Durham NC. unethical and harmful behaviors to clieints Durham North Carolina

  • Reported By:
    lyn — Durham NC North Carolina USA
  • Submitted:
    Tue, November 17, 2015
  • Updated:
    Fri, July 15, 2016

Dr. James Bayassee committed many gross infractions against the practice of psychology with a client of 4 years. His bitter and resentful attitude always dominated the relationship.His desire to be in control did also. His insistance ond using dianosis inappropriagtely did also.He created mistrust and the relationship wet sour and he erupted in anger and terminated the relationship agaist the willlof the client and threw her into a panic and feelings of despair and distrust of clinicians which were not helpul. He knew her vulnerale points and picked her worst fears rejections, to get back for his b itter ad resentful behaviors .!She never felt supported for he was never supportive.

He spend all his time proving how wonderful he was ad how much more educated although he had one phd and she 4.He met his match and did not know how to handle the relationship and put the blame for his inadaquacy off onto her.

The NC board of psychology when asked if he did this wright or that said negatie but would not sanction him for wounding a cient who paid for help and concern. She receied bitter rejection and refusal to discuss it even closrue of the any kind. He made her suidical and told her dauhter he did not care. He never cared for a client. he only caed what he made them think of himself as wonderful.

He s need for approva was psychoic and his bitter resentment viscious and pathological.He refused to change If you were the victim of his patholoy so what.he did not care for your welfare but for his goals to control and manipulate the relationship. if he felt he could not do that  he blamed he client and got rid of the for admirig ones.

he was admired at first until all the descrepancies of his character were displayed and the messages mexed.you cannot  be resentful and caring at the same time . he haa acharacer flaw which prevents good therapy orhealthy relationship. As long as he can play king ofthehill, he pretends nicenes

When confronted he sees red and reacts. He dos nor realize orcare the damage hedoes to clients with his ownpathology. Nor does the Boardofpsycholoy care what damage he does to a client. As long as sexual asault cant4 be proven, they don't care what a psychologist they license does. Even though they admit things he did was wrong.

He must have an in with the board members and control them to shurt their eyes to bad practices.Manipulators can do that. And he has the power of his credentials to hide behind although all other professionalscosulted as to what he did was wrong.

You can't out an official once elected unless watergate. But he keeps his viscious and underhanded moves undercover. Only his victims can speak for it and he has them all documented as demented so as to be beleived He is the professional even though a flawed one. The board does not care. He is always late, gives advice, gives persoal exerience, gives too much personal information, uses physical touch to covince his concern when there is none and makes you feel there is relationship when there is none.

He could care less what hapens to you unless you commit suicide as his client which some have. I dont' wonderwhy. he drives your crazy . He is a crazy maker. He keeps you so confused you don't knkow what to think.

I saw his games but was caught in transference and did not know how to get out. when i metionsed it it. he did not consider it and change the relationship but ende it wthot my concsent or witho no prepartion or referral

I don't want to even see another clinical psychologist for their degree does not make them sane nor not diseased themselves to go around diagnosing othres inaccurately according to thier own problemes. Not once did he consider my needs or concerns but ony his goals and desires. He tainted my medical records so

i had to leave my family doctor and seek one out of town not associated wiht duke to get LTC which i told him was a gols from the begining. He tainted my records with wrong inaccurate dignosis and destroyed my goals  He has no conscince. he does not care what he does.

He is divorced and preteds it was all her fault. He hos has the family that he can control to worship him. He can't relate intimately however and it must be terribly shallow.I am sorry for the man. His picture depicts a sad face. He has had past experiece he has never overcome himself and tries to treat others. One must be well themselves to be a therapist. Every therapist has some problems but they should not contol the work with clients not contol the therapist

His problems control and consume hin and he nust prove himself right and the cleit wrong. that is not what therapy is about . but a helping relatioship in which superiority is not an issue. The cliet's welfare shoud be the goal not the therapist mood or agrandisement.

This therapist has therapy all mxed up . he studies in kentuckty where the country folks are and did otgrasp what psychology is about or therapy. To him it is proving the client is sick and then he is the remedy. A client should find their own remedies with support and concern which fit thier lifestyle and needs. not thetherapist's demands.

Dr Bayassee has therapy notions all screwed up and mixed up with controling people.  He seems to listen but never rememers what you said. He is preoccupied with himselfand puts down what he hears you say not even checkig to see it he is accurate. he does not care. He holds his opinion inviolate.

He even resents usingn hypnosis for psysical issues the cliet has. The psysical and mental and psychological and spiritual are all connected and you need to be able to treat all aspects of the issue  Not one aspect to the exclusion of others. other therapists have help my physical problems with hypnosis. He gave me heart failure with the relationship and ignoring the effects of the violece in my environment upon me helped me develop it.

Since I left him I am over the heart failure but not the pain in my heart from his mistreatet and harsh treatment of me and attempts to control me which I am still dealing with . And issues of rejection he made worse he knew Ihad and used against me that is low down and untrustworthy.

Do not be vulnerable to this man or he will destroy you with it somehow if displeased in any way. You cannot predict how hewill react but bitterly and resentfylly but to what you never know.

Walking on egg shells and having to please is not a client's reqquirements. But with this man it is a requirement. You must please him in all his demands or be harmed and rejected.

He does not consider how the rejection affects the client . he does not care. When he is throug , he iw through even if yu are not and still need help. If he wants to be rid of you he will say he can no ongerhelp you even if you are still looking to him for it. So best never look to him for it for you will bdeieed according to his whims and patholoty. He cannot relate in a healthy manner himslef and caot teac you to. He wants to play God and prescribe medication to you nd control your medical records and relationship with your doctor. Dont let him.  You will be like me without a family doctor and with ruined medical records he tells your doctor which go into your medicial records. you have to changd physicians and een towns to avoid the damage he can tell your dotor that goes s into yur records including wrog inaccurate diagnosis.

That is a way he gets back and controls you for his resentments of you for being you.

God help his wife and kids! They look to him for a beavioral model ad will end up as pathological as himselt.

Intimacy the man is not capable of. So do not get close or divulge any secrets you don't want known.

He breaks confidentiality by getting you to sign to be helpful to talk to othes in your life he messes up with his negative comments regarding you. I believe hel kept me in the hospital for a month by talkig to my doctors at Memorial wheras myother therapist was working to tel the thruth i should be hout and at home.

It makes him feel important apparently to see other people controlled.

This is not therapy; it is dagerous relationshi with a pshchotic control freak.

Beware. Don't say after 4 years  when you find out,  i did not tell you so

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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