Complaint Review: Dwight Mays EAP

Lets see, you sent your wife to a pastor for "stress/unfaithfulness" counseling and he banged her too. AND YOUR BLAMING HIM??????

Sure, he didn't live up to his responsibility as a moralistic friend and pastor, but your ole lady is the s**t dude. Wake up. She was there for the same thing she did with him.

Its her that won't stop.

This is to the husband whose wife was seduced by this pastor:

I'm sorry this happened to your family. You mentioned that this pastor was counseling your wife for stress/unfaithfulness. Where were you? From my course on counseling married couples, both parties should have been present. This pastor should have asked both of you in his office, as well as have another competent individual in his office with him while counseling couples. This way, you would have both sides of the story, and then the counselor would be able to weigh the evidence and come up with a plan to help both parties. When only one person goes to a counseling session, you'l have a one-sided story that may tend to paint a bad picture of the other party, that may not be true.

Sorry to say, this pastor was very incompetent in handling his counseling responsibilities, he abused his pastoral authority as well. I hope everything works out between you and your wife.

The next time you or your wife needs counseling, always make it a point to go into counseling together, as this will prevent possible adultery situations or temptations.

...Altavista, VA (20 mins outsite of Lynchburg) (434) 309-2624. Good luck.