Complaint Review: Fritz C. Heneman III

This notice is being posted solely out of concern/warning for fellow dancers in the greater Metro Denver area. Fritz Heneman frequents the downtown strip clubs 4-5 times per week, he at first seems to be a consummate business professional, very kind and charming and will tell you the same 3 stories about the strippers he has dated that "broke his heart" and ripped his heart out, these stories are meant to elicit pity and an emotional response. He holds a top security clearance and is extremely successful in his professional life, however, his behavior in his personal life suggests that he may have some type of personality or delusion disorder. He becomes extremely obsessive very quickly, so my recommendation would be to bypass him entirely, the money is just not worth it.

He will try to develop a personal relationship, this is where a lot of girls are moved by pity and/or money to engage with him. DO NOT MAKE THIS MISTAKE! If you give him any sort of personal information, he will use this to stalk you and make your life miserable at work. He is not just another "regular." He will convince himself that he loves you and that you love him back, that you are in a relationship, he will monopolize your time, throw hissy fits if you try to talk to other customers, and just generally make things extremely difficult at work. If you give him your number (as many girls do with regulars) be prepared to be called about 15 times a day, many times at 3 or 4am, and receive about 50 text messages when you don't answer. It's pretty much just harassment.

Once you decide that the aggravation of dealing with him is simply not worth the money, and you let him know that you don't want to see him any longer, that's when he becomes aggressive. He will come to your workplace every night trying to find you, if you're not there he will talk to any dancer/bouncer/customer/bartender/TLC that will listen, and the problem is that what he says is 50% truth and 50% delusional rambling, which has the potential, as you know, to ruin your reputation at work. I have seen him driving by my house a couple of times as well, there is no indication that he is dangerous necessarily, but he definitely has the potential to harass and stalk and make life difficult if you don't comply with his demands.