Complaint Review: Gregg Havass

Beware ladies,

Gregg Havass likes to come off as a good guy, who voluntered with children for 20 years. However his program was ended by the county 4 years ago. Yet it is all he talks about, as he hasn't done anything  since.

He spends his time trolling women on Facebook, sending a friend request, and then sends the same message to everyone:

Hi (enter name)

Thank you for conecting with me on Facebook. I like your vibe, posts and pics, and invite you to keep in touch. Wishing you a blessed day!

Gregg

He litterally has a file and cuts and pastes ! Then he likes and comments on your stories only (so no one else can see) he goes in for a date!

Then even though dating and  he has asked for  a committed relationship, he then continues to troll other women and date them behind your back. He won't like or comment on your posts, refuses to post or allow you to post a photo of you together. The reason being he wants to keep the illusion that he is single to other women that he is also dating or attempting to date at the same time! However he gets very jealous when you have male friends and gives you a set of rules to abide to, although he has 2 VERY close female friends that he has to text first thing in the morning and last thing at night! 

He has a great talent for criticizing how you parent (this is the typical out he uses in most relationships) He  also has a knack for having unachievable standards, ones that he himself can't keep, but he only focuses on you not keeping them. When you call him out, he yells and loses his temper, turns red, and then gas lights you again!

I wasted a year on him, and want to protect other women from falling for this narcissist. He truly plays a good game, the best I have ever seen!

He will continuously  love bomb you, claiming he has never loved anyone the way he loves you, and talk about getting married. Sends love memes all day long, which he also sends to other females. He will also gaslight you, claiming you said something that you didn't say. Always to his narrative, and to his benefit.

He is addicted to Facebook and literally rolls off of you and checks it! The fact that he hasn't had a relationship last over a few months in 15 years should have been a give away. He always claims it was the other person, he  NEVER is to blame!

Luckily for me, he feel asleep with his messenger open one night and I was able to see all the messages he had sent to other women, dates he had planned and women he had been stalking/trolling. Of course as a narcissist he tried to blame me, suddenly I was a jealous girlfriend, instead of a woman whoses intuition kicked in and knew something was up!

I know he plays a good game, so play carefully with this guy!

He has many of the  Covert Narcissistic traits:

• Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements, expects to be recognized as superior without actually completing the achievements)
• Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, brilliance, beauty or perfect love
• Believes that they are “special” and can only be understood by or should only associate with other special people (or institutions)
• Requires excessive admiration
• Has a sense of entitlement, such as an unreasonable expectation of favorable treatment or compliance with his or her expectations)
• Is exploitative and takes advantage of others to achieve their own ends
• Lacks empathy and is unwilling to identify with the needs of others
• Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of them