Complaint Review: James Spillman AKA Marty Spillman Child Abuser

Marty or James whatever you go by these days to aquire new victims.... I am attaching actual letters you wrote my mother from Jail or prison whatever you want to call it. You did live in Ohio in 89 and no you were not locked up the whole year, I also have proof of that. You were arrested in april or May of 89 for stealing from storage sheds along with my mother, she was sentenced and because I was so young they let you stay at home with me until she got released the end of July 1989 I have all that paperwork too so please don't lie cause I can and will prove you wrong.

If you need to be refreshed for your memory loss which seems to be a lot lately here goes. You were supposed to turn yourself in the day my mother got released and of course you didn't the police came you went through the back door and even broke the door you ran through the woods and was caught cause you were not wearing shoes. The police took you away the end of July I also have the doctor reports if you want those too which verifies I was raped and yes I was 11 simple math is easy to do here.

Now please pay attention the the attached photos cause they are letters including envelopes you sent my mother Please keep in mind this is only 2 I have in my possession many more even ones you wrote me, I want to ask you just one question 2 parts. What right did you have writting my mother after you admitted what you did to me? and what made you think I or she would ever forgive you? In your letters you admit others have accused you too. Now if you still aren't refreshed here goes we lived right next door to your mothers on Etna street in Russel Ky for only a short time before you and my mother got locked up

we had 2 german sheppard puppies but you didn't molest me until my mother was locked up. You should be fully aware of who I am now and from the pictures I have attached you should also not only remember the phone recording the police made which is also in my possession where you stated "Noone will know the love you have for me" when I asked you why and you stated "I would have blamed it on the boy down the street" to my question about what if I would have gotten pregnant. You need to stop fighting what and who you are. Based not only on what you did to me but these others sound just like what you did to me.

You are a pedifile you prey on females with little girls. You are sick and you need to stop fighting whats real. I thought the other lady was talking about me cause the other one she was talking about sounds just like what you did to me I was supprised to find out it wasn't me it was someone else. Do you feel bad at all you have destroyed so many little girls innocense? You taught me how to draw your famous rose and for years I drew them and ripped them up into shredds. I am done hating you but you need help.

I will never forgive you and my mother is dead and I'm pretty sure she would not forgive you either and well I know she didn't. Stop blaming victims and take some responsability for your actions stop blaming stress, drinking and drugs like in your letters. If you read the letters please keep in mind I am the Tina in there and I was 11 years old, he speaks of me like I am some 30 year old lady, I have many more where Marty states "I am not in love with your daughter I am in love with you"

Once again remember I am 11 I really don't have a problem putting all the letters and my medical paperwork on here so Marty please answer the questions I have asked or I will put them all on here and before you know it you will be all over google and all your neighbors will know exactly who you are. I sell Google so I work from home and can work from anywhere in the country plus I do have pictures and I will put your picture and all the letters along with your record everywhere. This is not harrassment when I am just protecting the public from a preditor, mollester and a convicted rapist.

Marty, I don't know I just had to shake my head reading that hot mess of a post....but I wanted to start with your last comment as I am just wondering who in the hell your talking to. I have not had any contact with you since I was a child, so how do you know anything about my first marriage? Sounds like our family is busy talking about something they have NO clue about, since none of them have ever been a part of my life other then causal conversation online. My first husband and I did part on good terms, as far as robbing him, I am totally lost on that one, either your brain is fried from the drugs or your mixing me up with another one of your victims, because I have never stolen anything from anyone EVER, least of all my first husband since he never worked a day of his life, and never had ANYTHING lol. I bust my a*s working for my family as does my new husband of 15 years. And to be honest, we have done very well for ourselves, despite both of us growing up in poor households, we have made a good comfortable life for ourselves without taking from others..........something you would know NOTHING about.

You may have stolen my childhood, and you may have caused a lot of pain and confusion in my life, but I beat the odds and became a better person because I am a good person. You on the other hand will NEVER be anything other then a liar, cheat, thief, drug addict and a child molester.

So whats the count now Marty, I never knew of Tina, but lets see. Me, Chrystal, Tina, Melinda and her sister who you attempted to give beer to and tried..........and failed to molest. I guess 6 girls (That we know of) are ALL lying on you right? Funny how most of your "grooming" behavior all seems to fit the same pattern, but I guess we are all just lying whores who seduced you right? Funny how everyone is out to get Marty, who is just the victim of horrible little girls. I mean, jeeze, a bunch of 11, 12 and 13 year old girls just ruined your life right? I guess we had nothing better to do then make false accusations against you, who was just a friendly guy right?

When does the lies stop Marty? You can claim what you want about what my mom did, or my step dad did, or greg, or anyone else.............I don't believe ANY of your stories about them, but to be honest I am NOT here to argue with you about what they may or may not have done according to you, the man who still lies even in the face of his victims. I am only interested in what happened to ME, you can waste your breath talking about other people I DON"T CARE, but don't sit behind your computer screen talkin trash and lying, because at the end of the day, I know the truth and so do you!!

This is not about my family, or my ex husband or anything other then what happened when I was a child. Yet you keep throwing it out there, like that is gonna relieve you of something? I don't care who did what to you, YOU HAD NO RIGHT to do what you did to me!!!! I was a child, just a dumb little girl who should have picked up a frying pan and beat you in your evil head with it, I wish I had the courage back then to have done what I only dream of doing now.

As far as anyone standing beside you. The ONLY reason why they wanted you was failure to register as a sex offender, which is a small charge........I would LOVE to know why the FBI would stand by your side, when the lady spoke with us, she seemed quite sure that they wanted nothing more then to throw you UNDER the jail. But I guess your version of the story is always brighter then everyone else's. The way I heard it was your went in there and played the old sick decrepit man who is dying of diabetes and the state let you off easy because they did not want to foot the medical bills.............yeah, I did a little digging of my own. Of course your story sounds so much better, but yeah um....its called PUBLIC records dip s**t, and anyone can read up to find out the truth. Your lies can only take you so far Marty.

Your sick, your evil and your filled with rot and fungus, there is NOTHING good or redeeming about you or what kind of life you have lived. When this earth is blessed with your passing, no one will mourn you, and I pray there is really a god in heaven, because that means there is a devil on the other side waiting to give you a little of what you gave others..........

To Tina:

I am sorry that you went though this too.........I knew there was other girls, but never knew who all. Don't feel bad, we all have to deal with this the best way we know how. I did not do a great job of it as a child, but I did grow to be a stronger person from it I think. We did press charges on Marty, unfortunately, due to a technicality that his lawyer found, the case had to be dismissed. Still makes me sick, that a man can rape a child and get away with it just because paperwork was filed incorrectly.

I am glad that you pulled yourself up and kept on going, thats the best way to heal from the pain. You are more then welcome to contact me (They remove email address from the post but mine is) my4boyz98 (@ yahoo)

dose it puzzle you as to why childrens services came to court an defended me here in ky? and why the government didnt transfer me to ohio when i was released? and why ky will not alow ohio to arrest me over here? because here and the government do actule investigations unlike ohio where they give you lawyers that work for the prossecution and not for the person.they know i was railroaded and more or less forced to plead out to this bull sh*.by not contacting any of my wittnesses.such as her teacher.family doctor,next door neiober that about ended up in divorce ove her telling his wife that he hit on her for sex,you on here claiming i done something to you when you was 11,when you was 11, i was in ohios maximem security prison in lebonon over receiving stolen property from may of 89 to nov-of1990.then lived in flatwoods ky till 1992 then to columbus then lived in pataskala ohio for 5 months then lived in that dump your mother rented me illeagly for 4 months then she got mad cause i got my family out of that roach an rat infested 2 room dump you all called a home. then went to jail in newark ohio for a recieveing charge for 4 moths an was denied bail on a charge that didnt exist.it was dismised soon as i got in the court room by judge spar.i dont need to prove myself to no one.but any one that wants can come and read over every charge ive ever had cause i keep hy legal papers here at the house where anyone that wants cvan look at them to just how many lies you and yours have told...yea you and your x parted on good terms huh?after you robbed the guy.i recon thats on good terms to you.530 am

Oh yes its me and I have all the letter proving what you did to me when I was what 12 and 13 really? I think the Feds if you are telling the truth about getting freed I will make sure you don't cause I really do have all the letters you wrote my mom Marti remember her? Oh yea she died. You are sick and the police still have the phone call we had together that was recorded when you said that you did it cause no-one knows the love you have for me and you would have blamed the boy down the street if I would have gotten pregnant.

Oh yea you said in your letter which I have that you were drunk and on drugs thats why you did it, really I was a child you sick man. I am looking for you now so i can get closure. You can't say we are all liars if you would like send me your address I will make you copies of all the letters you wrote my mom and the details you wrote with your own hand. you make me sick and please for once in your life admit you are wrong and appologize like you did in your letters.

My name is Tina my mother was married to this man him and my mother got into some trouble and she was arrested, he would pay me to drink and when he thought I passed out he would rape me. I was 12 when it started it ended when I was 13 because he was arrested on robbery charges and my mom came home. I have proof I have letters from him and the police recorded a phone conversation he had with me I asked him 2 questions 1. why did you do it? Marty replied no-one knows the love I have for you. 2. what if I would have gotten pregnant? Marty stated I would have blamed it on the boy that lived down the street.

he continued to write my mom after this and told her how sorry he was and that he would love a second chance. I wouldn't go to court I was very young and scared I hope you understand. I have my medical records to back up everything I am saying. He took my verginity. I am a very sucessful woman now, I work for Google and have done well in my life after many years of counseling and self disapline. I have no trust for men and I don't sleep around. This is crazy to bash a victim. How can you sleep at night knowing that this man is still free and hiding?

I am so sorry I wish I could have stopped him and I think if I would have went to court or filed charges you all would not be going through this now, believe me when I say I am blaming myself for your pain and sufforing.. I have plenty of proof and how sick I got after the rape. I dont drink or do drugs and you cannot kill my character. If you would like you are more than welcome to e-mail me directly (((email redacted))) if you are a victim or if you need support of any kind mental or emotional I am here for you.

I will even go to court for you with all my documents to show this is a patern. Do not get discouraged we must all stick together. My mother has since passed away. I was reading some of his letters to my mom and its sad he admitts to everything he did to me and the police in Licking county still have Marty on tape talking to me if anyone wants anymore proof, I can also scan and post the letters that show the truth about this man. He is very sick and needs help and god forbid him find the next little girl. I know you are telling the truth about him telling you he loves you and all I can say is stay strong and please remember I am always here if you need a friend.

CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report.

PS: My mother is not reading any of this.......she does not even know you are posting on this thread, and even if she did she has already said she will never visit this site again, so your comments trying to hurt her.......are wasted.

1) I don't care what Greg did, not my problem.

2) Your whole post gave me a headache, trying to figure out what your saying though the spelling, bad grammar, and just plain stupidly made my head hurt.

This is whole back and forth is just stupid, as for your comment about us belonging in a hole, is that your way of making threats? Sounds like it, keep in mind that threats online are taken just as serious as threats made in person. You don't scare me, I keep a well stocked arsenal and I know how to use them, you want to talk about holes, come near me and your family will bury you in one.

I am done with this back and forth, at the end of the day I know what you are and better yet so do you. You can tell your family what ever you want to try and make yourself look like a saint, but you know what........I don't think they believe you Marty, wither they ever accept what happened or not, deep down everyone knows what you are Marty, and you are the one that has to live with that. I don't care what anyone in this family thinks of me, at the end of the day wither they are a part of my life or not does not change who I am.

One day the truth will be shown, wither its on judgement day or when you harm another child, and those who shunned me and tried to make a young girl feel like a liar will know the real truth, and on that day........I will be vindicated.

Go back to what ever life you have made for yourself, and do children a favor and stay away from them, you have ruined enough childhoods Marty.

you should read back over what you have wrote dumb a**.lies i dont have to lie and while i worked carls ignition .i drew a pay check not a welfair check .so you best get your story strait.while we lived in ky your mommy stole our ids out of my car and aloud greg and  his 13 year old step daughter that was on the run for running away with his 13 year old step daughter,would you like a copy of the police report comcerning the ids and the running off with the step daughter,cause i can sure furnish both. from 1992 and 1993...so keep that mouth up.cause thats all it is is mouth. oh and ive never lived in zansville orlogon.and tammy has 3 adault boys no girls to say if your going to tell lies,at least get your imfo right.ha ha ha....

people look at my record an sayv .huh.theres none of this on there so they know you and your bunch of hookers do nothing but lie.so go back to your hole where you an your family belong.in a hole.now make sence of that.

Ok, so I just read your message, maybe I need to break this down Barney Style for you? Do you need crayons and paper? I can draw you a picture if it helps bright one.

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You said: You will regrett this.
I said: I was not afraid of you, and that I would kick your tail if you came around me, or my husband would.

So please out of that, how do you get I would come looking for you? Do you have ANY brain cells left? Why would I come looking for you? I would not sully my eyes looking upon your nasty self, I pray I never run into you, as I am sure the mere sight of your face would induce my gag reflex. Get a life Marty, you were a hot mess back in the day, and your still a hot mess.

As for your comments to my mother, really? Who in the hell have you been talking to? Because obviously they are so full of cow turds or they really are as stupid as you, because ALL of my sisters and brothers work a job. How my mother raised us as children was HER bussiness NOT yours. So what if she was on Welfare? Thats what it was there for, to help women and children, I never saw you turn down no food stamps or welfare check that your wife got while you worked under the table.

All those words to my mother, does it make you feel good to spread lies and try to hurt her? For what, because of what YOU did to me? YOU are the one who ripped this family apart. YOU are the one who made the choice to take away a child's innocence. YOU are the one who continues to lie and try to hurt the child YOU hurt. I know my mother was not perfect, but its funny how this is about YOU yet, you want to try and air other peoples laundry. Marty, I don't give a green turd about any of that, Say what ever floats your boat, if you slander my mother I will have my husbands uncle sue you for slander..........of course she would get nothing, as you have nothing and never will have anything. But it might bring me a little personal satisfaction watching you squirm like a dirty worm on a hook.

You run your mouth at my mother, but get upset if someone speaks ill of yours? For one thing dear Uncle, no one said anything at all about grandma, get your facts straight dip s**t. The only thing I ever said about grandmother was that she said some really horrible things about me who was a child at the time, now I forgave her, and even was by her bedside when she died.......I hold no grudges against her, I am a mother to boys as well, so I can understand how much it had to have hurt her when this all happened, so I was able to forgive her. I also forgave Anita, Patty and Carol for speaking ill of me, even though I was a child. You on the other hand get nothing from me, not only did you do what you did, but you spread lies about me, a child, to try and cover your own sick perverted behavior. I don't blame them for believing you..........you speak with a silver tongue Marty, you always have. I forgave them years ago in my heart, I have nothing but love for them, wither they want it or not, if not that is their loss, again not mine.

I shudder at the thought of you in my town, around the people I love and respect. But I have no fear, nothing you can say or do will ever hurt me, you continue living your miserable joke of a life, and I will continue with mine. Stay away from me and my family, while I don't want anything to do with you, I will not be threatened by you either, I have no fear from someone like you anymore.

Ok, so I just read your message, maybe I need to break this down Barney Style for you? Do you need crayons and paper? I can draw you a picture if it helps bright one.

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You said: You will regrett this.
I said: I was not afraid of you, and that I would kick your tail if you came around me, or my husband would.

So please out of that, how do you get I would come looking for you? Do you have ANY brain cells left? Why would I come looking for you? I would not sully my eyes looking upon your nasty self, I pray I never run into you, as I am sure the mere sight of your face would induce my gag reflex. Get a life Marty, you were a hot mess back in the day, and your still a hot mess.

As for your comments to my mother, really? Who in the hell have you been talking to? Because obviously they are so full of cow turds or they really are as stupid as you, because ALL of my sisters and brothers work a job. How my mother raised us as children was HER bussiness NOT yours. So what if she was on Welfare? Thats what it was there for, to help women and children, I never saw you turn down no food stamps or welfare check that your wife got while you worked under the table.

All those words to my mother, does it make you feel good to spread lies and try to hurt her? For what, because of what YOU did to me? YOU are the one who ripped this family apart. YOU are the one who made the choice to take away a child's innocence. YOU are the one who continues to lie and try to hurt the child YOU hurt. I know my mother was not perfect, but its funny how this is about YOU yet, you want to try and air other peoples laundry. Marty, I don't give a green turd about any of that, Say what ever floats your boat, if you slander my mother I will have my husbands uncle sue you for slander..........of course she would get nothing, as you have nothing and never will have anything. But it might bring me a little personal satisfaction watching you squirm like a dirty worm on a hook.

You run your mouth at my mother, but get upset if someone speaks ill of yours? For one thing dear Uncle, no one said anything at all about grandma, get your facts straight dip s**t. The only thing I ever said about grandmother was that she said some really horrible things about me who was a child at the time, now I forgave her, and even was by her bedside when she died.......I hold no grudges against her, I am a mother to boys as well, so I can understand how much it had to have hurt her when this all happened, so I was able to forgive her. I also forgave Anita, Patty and Carol for speaking ill of me, even though I was a child. You on the other hand get nothing from me, not only did you do what you did, but you spread lies about me, a child, to try and cover your own sick perverted behavior. I don't blame them for believing you..........you speak with a silver tongue Marty, you always have. I forgave them years ago in my heart, I have nothing but love for them, wither they want it or not, if not that is their loss, again not mine.

I shudder at the thought of you in my town, around the people I love and respect. But I have no fear, nothing you can say or do will ever hurt me, you continue living your miserable joke of a life, and I will continue with mine. Stay away from me and my family, while I don't want anything to do with you, I will not be threatened by you either, I have no fear from someone like you anymore.

if you call drug addics family,then i guess so;and as for the threat you made concerning your hubby thats a laught girl i dont think ill lose any sleep over it...im in hunington every day around eighth street.i aint hard to find...

brenda gail im not hideing from anyone.but you an yours are.your hideing both your past an present from the wourld.you can say what lies you want on me.you or yours bad mouths our mother again and alot is going to come out concerning you,and yours.such as welfair fraud that you have already admitted to in your statement.and the fact that had it not been for mom gary don an patty an ernie you would went without alot.your kids and you and your husband live off welfair your entire lives while running games on the local churches claiming you had no money to pay your bills an no food for your kids,and then in the last couple of years you conned your brother ernie out of 300.00 claiming it was to pay you eletrice,that must not be of importence since you went and bought a computer with that money..and the time you told your x husband ronnie that if he didnt give you so much money that you would claim he had sex with the kids.funny cause you tried the same thing with me ..give me money or ill do this to you.didnt work though..did it.ive proved to the feds that i comitted no crime and its going back to court baseed on their findings.remember when you was arrested in the 1970,s for eposeing your self to some kids at the corrner of parsons an markinson? theres alot of things i remember as if it were yesterday.are you sure you want it all to come out?cause we can do this all day..marty spillman

Wow, what rock did you crawl out from under? Please go back, the children online do not need to have another predator in their mists!! I thought it was illegal for you to be online? But then again, the law and you are like oil and water.

Ok, so I don't go into a jumbled ramble of insults and name calling I will go thought your ignorant post point by point.....which to be honest is not easy since half of it makes little or no sense.

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Chrystal is going back to court to recant her story. If this is true.......then it really is the sign of the times that the world is ready to end. Why in the world would she do that? You know what you did to that girl, I know what you did to that girl, and she knows. Everyone else only knows what they have been told. She can recant until she is blue in the face, in her heart she knows what happened. You can brush over the details, say your sorry, claim it never happened, whatever, but at the end of the day, I know what happened and so does she. As for your wife.........if she is indeed still with you, then that is some twisted up s**t right there. I knew she was not the brightest light bulb on the shelf, but even she was not dumb enough to think you were innocent. Which basically means she does not care what kind of a twisted up freak you are, just so long as she has a man.........pathetic.

2) I am confused about the comment about a email? Did all the Pam cooking spray finally rot out your brain dude? I don't know anything about a email, if I wrote one I would gladly claim it. I don't even know where that girl is, let alone what her email is. If I did I would email her and ask her how she is doing, she was a good kid, just had the bad luck of being in a family with you. To this day, it haunts me knowing that I should have spoke up sooner and maybe she would have been saved from your sick life. It is one of those guilty things I will live with for the REST of my life. She can claim it never happened, we all deal with our pain in our own way, but I will always feel the guilt of not speaking up sooner.

3) The Government: If that is true, it does not surprise me in the least.......but I seriously doubt it since your still listed as a wanted sex offender. Funny, maybe they should have gotten into contact with every child you have ever been around. For a man who has been wrongly accused, why is it that you have been accused so many times?

4) The only good kid my mother raised was Chrissy. You are right, Chrissy is a great kid, but then again we all are.....but I can firmly guess that she would be as creeped out about that comment as I was, I mean who wants you to think they are a good kid?

5) Um, not sure which family member has been spewing lies yet again, but Pete was dead BEFORE Chrissy got into the mess with that money. As for mom, Chrissy has never said mom was involved in it, and she would have told me if mom was..........Chrissy never holds back, if someone was in it, she would have told me by now lol. Fact is you don't know any of us, your just going on what someone said, as usual.

6) Me claiming we had sex: Um, I have NEVER claimed we had sex. Sex is between to consenting adults, what you did to me was not sex, it was abuse, it was sick, and it still turns my stomach every time I think of your dirt encrusted nails on my skin. There are not enough showers that can wash the flith of you off of me. I shudder when I think of your name, and feel sick to my stomach knowing that somewhere out there you are still breathing. Your sick Marty, something in your is rotten and maggot filled, there is not enough chruches in this country to give you a oz of forgiveness. I may rot in hell for refusing to forgive you, but I will gladly take it as I will NEVER forgive you!

7) I will regret this: Really? How so Marty? You think you are gonna do something to stop me? Please, please come find me, I am not a 11 year old little girl anymore...........I would gladly hold you down and beat you with your own freaking leg you sick twisted old pervert!! You come within 100 feet of me or my family and you would wish you had never been born. Much like I have wished all my life. And trust me, if I can't do it.........my husband has assured me he would plant his size 11 foot up your scrawny broken tail.

Now that I have addressed my points, I will say this. You can claim what ever makes you sleep better at night, you know what you did and I know what you did. I don't care if ANYONE in this family believes me or not, I washed my hands of them years ago. I will continue to be a part of any family members life that wishes me there, if they don't want to be a part of my life, that is their loss, not mine. I don't hold no ill will towards them, nor do I wish them unwell, I accept that they were not there and have only your word and mine to go on. If they choose to believe you, that is their choice...........I accept that, I just pray that any child in their lives are kept at a distance, just to be safe if nothing else.

As for you, I wish you the worst, I hope everything that can go wrong in your life does. I hope Karma comes around and bites you so many times you wish you would die. I wish for you all the pain and suffering life has to give. I pray that every moment of greatness that I feel, and every moment of happiness in my life is switched around and becomes a moment of pain and suffering for you. I will spend my life enjoying what true family is about, I will continue to show my children and their children someday that a REAL family loves and supports them, without evil and sickness. And you, you can go back to what ever hole you crawled out of screw yourself Marty!!!! If you had grown any over the years, had became a real man, you would have said you were sorry, you would have at the least not accused me of lying, but you have not changed, you can not even admit to yourself that you are a twisted up freak.

toni, i have news for you.you an your lies are about to come to a head.crystal calls me daily and she has agreed to take the truth back to court on my behalf.that e.mail you mailed to her poseing as me did not work.she called me about it .i told her how to find out who sent it.an she did.she is still my daughter and her mother is still my wife.in short,u can put your lies to the curb any time now cause this will com back to haunt you along with that w***e you call a mother.

i grant you that..the us government knows now that i committed no crime and children services as well. thats why they came to court an backed me here in ky.the ongly good one your mother did raise was crissy,it was kind of m,essed up the way your mom an peet put her upto busting counterfiet bills and then wouldent stand by her...and as for you claiming we had sex..id have sex with a mag pie first...

Anita,

If the orginal comment was not from you then I offer my apolgies for my anger. But your comments today are not much better. Where does this anger come from? What have I done to you? Yes I filed this report, the rip off report site is for bussiness and people who you wish to warn other about. (Feel free to look under the sex predator section which was where this was filed) Yes I filed it, for one big reason to protect any child that may be near your brother! The fact is NO child is safe around him, if that upsets you I am sorry, but thats reality.

As for your comments, I was 11. I am sorry you do not know the whole story, as it is obvious per your post you are going on what your brother (The rapiest) said and your mother (The mother who never wants to think badly of their children) said. I do not blame grandma, as a mother with sons I know how hard it is to imagine your baby boy hurting someone. I pray I never have to know anything bad about my sons, and I pray I have raised them to never hurt anyone. But I can imagine how hard it would be to accept your son hurting a child. So I do forgive grandma, she said some hurtful things that got back to me (Funny how everything gets back in this family) At 11 and 12 to know your family blames you for a uncles behavior is pretty messed up, but thats life I guess.

As for concentual or not, I know there are some of you who believe that, and nothing I can say will ever change your mind. But I know and at the end of the day that is all that matters. Using threats to keep a child from telling does not make it concentrual. Anita...I WAS 11!!!! I was still playing with my barbie dolls, I was still oblvious to sex and what it was. I remeber looking up to you as my aunt and thinking how awesome it was that you went to collage, and how I was going to do the same thing. I remeber looking up to Patty she was so cool.....smoking her Kool ciggerettes with her platnum blond hair on the back porch, I wanted to be just as cool as she was! Then I met your brother, the famous Marty, who had been to prison.....I was so facinated with our family and all the things that had happened. When your brother raped me (And yes, when a grown man holds down a 11 year old girl and has sex with her it is rape) and threatend me and my family I truely believed he would hurt them....he was in prison, and thus a bad guy in my eyes. (Keeping in mind I WAS 11!!!!)

Then when I told, to have EVERYONE in the family look down on me I was so confused...no longer did I look up to any of you! Yes I made some mistakes in my life, maybe it was from losing that innocene, maybe it was just who I was, I will never know....but to be honest I really don't care. I was a teenager, so I had sex with Greg at 17, it was MY CHOICE! And Pete NEVER touched me. I have spoken to Chrissy about what you claim, and she told me she never said that. If its true or not I have no idea, but I trust her. She has to live with what happened, wither what she told you was true, or if it was just a lie to get attention or wither she ever said it at all.

As far as my dear husband (And no I do not say that sarcasticly) I do have a dear husband, he is a wonderful man who has supported me though my ups and downs and has loved me despite my flaws. I don't think I need to defend him, because to be honest I really don't care what you think of him....he is my light. But to set the record straight, he took HIS paycheck (Which we had planned on using for rent) and left me after a horriable argument. It was wrong, and he knows it....but in anger we all do things wrong. He came back and we fixed it. As for the threatning of his life, :-) Yes that is true as well, I wish I could claim it was a lie....but yes he threatend to kill himself if I did not give him another chance. He was desprate to make our family work, and in that moment of fear that I would leave him forever he made a silly remark about taking his own life and cut his arm. (Bicept I should say) It was stupid, but men often will do anything to get what they want. I know deep down he would never have hurt himself, but he would say ANYTHING to get up back together. Its odd, but its not the first time a man would do something so stupid. As for Daniel, yes I did marry him, at age 18 and we had a son together. It did not work out because we were so young, but thankfully we were able to part as friends....and he is a good father to my son. I know my first marriage was a mistake, but my marriage with my new husband makes up for much in my life. God made him just for me, and me for him. While we had a bumpy start we have found what works and are happy with each other. I pray everyone could find the happiness I know.

This will be my last reply to this thread, I posted this report years ago when what your brother did was still a part of who I was. I have since found that living in the past brings me NO relief and that what happened back then does NOT define who I am. I have been blessed with a wonderful husband and 4 magnficant children. I have a butieful home, and a stable life. I have a family who loves me and my children and husband and thats all I need in life. No my childhood was not all cotten candy and rainbows, but maybe that is for the best.....who would I have been if it had? Maybe better, maybe worse but in the end I can not complain. I have a mother who loves me, and sisters and a brother that we talk to and stay in touch. They are not perfect, but neither am I. So no I would not change a thing, when I go home this weekend it will be to a family who is eagerly waiting to see me, who we will sit and talk for hours and who I KNOW IN MY HEART love me. So I think I am pretty blessed.

I don't hate Marty, I pity him. He will wander this earth continueing to take what is NOT his to take. He has ruined some childhoods, and he will never be able to wash the stink of sickness from himself. He knows the truth, and I know the truth. In the end what you think or anyone else for that matter really does not matter.

Again if that first post was not yours than I am sorry.....it was hurtful, and what I said was in retalation to that. Who ever did write it.......I am sorry that you feel the way that you do, and even sorrier that you did not have the courage to stand by what you said and admit it was you. I have my suspions on who it was, but please know I hold no ill will towards you either. I just pray that you open your eyes to the truth and never try to hurt anyother person like you did me.

(PS: Spell check is broken, so please forgive my horriable spelling....yes I know its sad lol)

I don't know who wrote the rebuttal that says peanut-USA..but, it was not me.  You need to stop this rediculas bashing Toni.  You need to quit.  I am going to turn this in on this site and see if they can stop this.  Your facts are not correct and you need to stop making things up trying to make an already bad thing worse.  FYI...Marty was not running from the crime. He spent the 5 yrs he was given and just didn't report where he was living is all.  He was however arrested and that day release.  Not due to any thing other then he had to report his recidence and has.  He never lived in Zanesville or Logan.  Other then Ohio and Kentucky that is all he has ever been.  So, please quit bad mouthing my dead mother.  She never once called you anything and for you to say this must be you feeling it yourself.  She can't be hurt by your needless name calling, but, Me and whoever wrote this saying they were me are the ones that have to keep dealing with this crap.

As for your dear husband?  Honey, you told me and others in the family that he stole your rent money and that when you wanted to leave him he started cutting himself saying he would kill himself.  Now, I don't know about who your talking about being a good man, but, you were married before that to Daniel.  You need to remove your anger and vent it in a more positive way that will help you, not hurt yourself and others that care about you.  You are hurting, I get that....but, why after all these years are you calling it rape?  I understand you made a mistake and Marty took advantage of it.  But, why keep repeatedly bashing him with lies?  What he did, taking advantage of a 13 yr old relative, was pretty bad enough, don't you think??  Just stick to the truth and it will work for you more.  Anyway, I didn't write that up there...I did reply one time...but, not the one up there.

I want the truth to come out! My brother is now in jail, I'm sorry that he hurt not only my daughter but the 14 year old who was 9 years old when it started!

My brother and his wife along with the 9 year old was renting my upstairs apartment when it first happened my daughter correctly said she was 11 years old, and because of the shame of it, didn't tell me until she was a year older, I then filed charges, but because of her age there was little they could do!

He ran of course, while my sister Anita helped to hide him even though in her own heart she said she really didn't want him at her house,she also had young children. My own mother and their's told me once that she didn't want him around my little sister, because when she lived in Kentucky she felt sure he was also abusing another young girl!

I was not their but if I had, I would have turned him in! We need to protect the children, I really hope my brother is helped and stay's away from children altogether!

Although my sister's seem to think he should be allowed to run free, because they always seem to blame the little girl's he hurts, I guess you have to be the mother of an abused child to really understand,what pain is when you can't help your child to get through this kind of pain!

It goes on in families all the time, incest is a fact of life, I myself was raped by a family member who to this day deny's it even though two other sister's say he bothered them too, but didn't get as far!

Anita, I say shame on you! You own daughter was hurt by one of her friends that didn't care about the shame he brought on her, and I know it hurt you terribly! So for you to make accusations of Pete who tried to keep your own husband from harming you, is sick! My oldest was 16 almost 17 when she ran off with his brother, and Greg we have no excuses for, nor will I make any, he is a child abuser and is in jail for it!

My girl's all say that Pete never bothered any of them, and Chrissy swears that you lied when you claimed it happened!

I always had respect for you and I still love you, but don't ever speak to my children of these things again!

They don't need your hate, I know that you have a life full of depression and I am sorry you made mistakes in your life, you were the smart one, serving God, going to college,should have had that big wedding because you kept yourself pure for marriage!

I'm sorry that your life is so bad! But don't take it out on my children, they don't deserve that and neither do I !

James  ( Marty) made his choice to run instead of reporting where he lived and leaving the state of Ohio! Thank God its over at least until they let him out and he runs again!

God is about love, and I know you have had precious little in your life! But you made your bed as mom told me one time after I had complained about Ron, now sleep in it and stop hurting children!

By the way Tonya was never a thief you have her mixed up with Chrissy, age does that! She has 4 wonderful boy's and a wonderful husband who takes care of his family, they are almost all on honor roll or close to it, very responsible!

I love you kiddo, I know you won't believe that, I love all my family, but we are a mixed up bunch, let's treat our children better and hope they will grow to become good christian adults and be responsible and keep their children safe from harm!

I also counted back the years....I was 11 when your brother raped me, and 12 when I told. It went on for less then 6 months. So yes I should have told, but I was afraid and ashamed of what happened, if that makes it my fault then believe what you want! This story you keep telling that it was concentual is not true and it really hurt me back then and it still hurts, but I know the truth even if you have no idea what the truth is.

Trust your brother.........I am sure someday when you have grandaughters you will be sure to invite him over to stay! As for Pete, shame on YOU! How many times did Pete come to your defense when your husband was beating on you? I remeber as a child him leaving out in the middle of the night to come to your aid and grandmas aid, and for you to make up lies about him is sick. He should have left you in your own mess, for all the respect you show him!

Sorry, the above comment was to be addressed to Anita, in my anger I typed the wrong name.............

Also your comments that Pete had sex with all his stepdaughters and his son is a lie, but then again all you know are lies! As for Benny, Terry was 16 (Almost 17) which is the age of concent in Ohio! Get your facts straight! Also your brother never lived in the basement so your stories I went to the basement and suduced him are again lies. I am sure in your twisted mind that a child can seduce a grown man. Is that why you refused to let him around your daughters? Is that why you said you tossed him out after you caught him sneaking into Chrystals room (At which time she was 8)

If thats the way you feel I am sure you will be more then comfortable letting him move in and be around your daughters when he gets out........NO? I thought not. Your free to think what you wish about me, but honey I am no theif and no screamer as you say lol..........in fact that is kind of funny you should say that. You must be mixing me up with your own children, was it not Erica who screamed and slapped at her own grandmother? Who left bruises on grandmas arms, and who took every advantage of her she could?  Who was caught stealing at school and was disrespectful to you all the time (In your own words)

The only good that comes from our family is that we are not close, I would be ashamed to allow my children to be around someone like you who would defend a monster and try to make the child look like the guilty person. I pray that your children and grandchildren are NEVER subjected to being raped or molested as the scars never leave. My own children suffer from what your brother did.........because I never let them stay at other peoples homes or be around men alone. I am always diligent in making sure they are safe, but in doing so I prevent them from living and experiancing life, and for that I blame your brother. For you I blame you and others in the family for their comments when I was a child and for the pain that you made me feel for something that was NOT my fault. I am sure it is easier to believe the lies your brother (The man who raped children) tell then to believe the child who was a victim!There are none so blind as those who choose not to see. What is so trustworthy about your brother that you would believe I snuck down and seduced him, at that age? I mean come on, even your smarter then that Anita! Saying that only makes you sound like a liar and I pity you and anyone who reads your comments.

So go ahead and spew your lies and your hate, because in the end it does not matter. I know the truth and god knows the truth, and while you may judge me here on earth I will have my justice in the end. Your brother is a monster, and by defending him you are just as bad.

At the end of the day, he is in jail locked up like the animal he is, and you have to deal with your own judgement when that day comes, I hope you have a good excuse for god as to why you bashed two girls and defended your sick brother!

Carol, and yes honey I know this is you........your ignorance shows even in your comments. It is truly sad that you would defend this man, as for anyone sneaking down to the basement, is that what your brother told you? I am sure it is easier to believe a grown man who has much to hide, then the child who was raped. I am sorry that you are related to me, and feel even worse for your children, how do you even call yourself a mother? Your brother is a sick b*****d, as for the little girl who cried "wolf" she was not lying, it was his rape of her that convianced me I had to tell regardless of what he did to me or my family. See at the tender age of 13 grown men (And I use the word man lightly) have a good game of scarying little kids into not telling. His stepdaughter was 9...how can you jusify what he did to her if not me? As for her having sex with a older man later in life, um she was 17 and he was 28. Big diffrence honey! Even so after what Marty did to her, I pray she found some love somewhere, for a stepfather to do what he did to her makes me sick. I have learned to live with my demonds, I have learned to live with the fact that at 13 my uncle did the unthinkable and stole my virginity. Your so mad about yout brother being "outed" but you don't give a s**t about the other children out there he raped! Honey YOU and YOUR WHOLE family are SICK! Grandma sat back and said the same trash you said.....that her poor baby was set up, and that I that horriable 13 year old s**t took advantage of him....a grown man. At that time I was hurt so badly that You and Your sisters and Your mother would think that about me. I spent years questioning myself about what I should have done diffrently so my uncle would have not done this. I trusted NO man until after 7 years of being with my husband he taught me not all men are monsters! Thankfully I have grown up, and I know there was nothing I did wrong other then to have told. I was afraid and your brother was in jail so often and the horror stories he told me about what he would do to me, and my family was enough to scare me. So yeah, maybe I should have told when it happened.....but as a adult I know I did not do anything to encourage his rape, nor did his little stepdaughter! He also attempted to moloest another girl, who her father was a friend of his......he got his a*s beat by the dad, which is what my stepfather should have done. Whats truly sad is You and YOUR family, how they could make two little girls feel like garbage so you would feel better. Your brother is the scum of the earth, and from what I hear his new wife turned him in because he raped her children. He was arrested yesterday........but I guess her little girls had it coming to them too huh? Never could it be that YOUR mother and YOU and YOUR family was WRONG! You people hid him, and for that you can explain your actions to god above. I am sure he will get a kick out of your excuses as to why you beat a little girl down into the mud making her feel like garbage over your sick brother! You say you are going to heaven, well honey until you do what is right your going to hell with me....and I am going to enjoy the look on your face when you are burning right next to that peice of white trash brother of yours! Course you will have plenty of company.......since so many in your family talk a good game, but are all the same as you! As for my mother, wow are you ever going to get over your jealousy? I mean come on already, you trash talk her, search her out and then try to make her life misrable. In reality we all laugh at the stupidy that flows from your saggy lips! As for Benny....um Terry was 16 (Almost 17) and yes she ran off with him of her own free choice. So my question is how can you shame Benny for what he did (With a concentual almost adult) but you can condone your brother raping a 13 year old and a 9 year old? Um.....yeah nothing right? Your rant again shows your ignorance! As for Pete, I was raised with him and he treated me like nothing more then his daughter. If he did do something to my sister I am sure he is rotting in hell right now. The diffrerance is Mom tossed him out when he was accused. How can you blame her for that? Oh wait its Brenda...........you can use anything to try and run her down! The fact is you are jealous of your sister and ALWAYS have been! You run your trap about how she was on welfare, sweetheart so you were as well! Don't you just love the fact that I am not ashamed what so ever to spill family secrets where you would roll over in your grave to keep it hidden. You are a sad person, and as one who has learned to grow from her pain I can tell you that you need to put away your hurts and try to do something more productive then to try and hurt others. In the end it makes you petty and people pity you. Anyways, I need to hop off here and have a glass of wine to toast your brother going to jail.........hopefully when he attempts to commit sucide in jail he succeeds this time! I would love to spit on his grave!

You have some nerve bashing your uncle that way!  What about Gregg or Pete or even his brother on the run at the time of having sex with your at the time 14 yr old sister Benny?  Marty was not convicted of rape he was however accused of having sex with his then 14 yr old step daughter and was arrested of atempted rape.  Cause they didn't have any proof or anything.  The girl after his being arrested and put in jail went on to be addopted and having sex with a 34 yr old man which is the reason she cried wolf in the first place! 

You however are a real piece of work.  You go down to the basement where he was staying at the time and sleep with him then you try to blame just him and say his played on your feelings of worth?  You have always been a screamer dear and a thief and should accept your own part in this.  Funny how your Mother can keep this going for her own brother but did nothing about her husband's sexual encounters with all of his step daughters and his own little boy...and her husbands brothers that had sex not only with his own step daughter that he ran away with..but, you and your sisters!

I feel sorry for you that you vent on your uncle, my brother...but, say nothing about the other.  Shame on you!  Get over it!  And grow up!