Complaint Review: Jason Carter

I don't even know where to begin... I met Jay on SeekingArrangement.com. It is a website that tailors to finding a Sugar Daddy or a Sugar Baby. The website seems very legit. Jay was one of the people that contacted me fairly quickly.

I live in Upstate South Carolina and when he first contacted me he sent me a response asking me if I would be interested in coming to Dallas to spend some time with him. One of his favorite things to say is the word SUPER. "Let's get together for some SUPER FUN". "Come to Dallas and we will have a SUPER FUN weekend".

I should have seen RED FLAGS immediately from him. After we briefly shared emails he requested that I do a few simple things before he would finalize the travel plans. He was CRAZY interested in including my children. And that alone...should have been what caused me to run in the opposite direction. His first request was for me to promise to never log back in to SeekingArrangement.com again until after our trip was complete - he justified this by saying he felt if I was going to continue searching for other wealthy men they could pay for me to fly to see them as much as he could do the same. He wanted me to have no further contact on the site. He then asked me & two of my daughters to make a sign with his name on it and hold up the sign in a few pics. Send the pics to him and he would then finalize our flight plans to join him for the weekend in Dallas. Seemed harmless in the beginning. He claimed to be a Millionaire. He said he owned his own Software Company. He has a dog named, Rubens. He had been divorced, was 37-years-old, and has never had children. GOD keeps that from happening on purpose, trust me.

So, the very day we communicated and he asked for us to send him pics holding up the sign we did so. We created 3 signs to hold up that said "Thank You Jay". We drove to town and took pics holding up the signs and sent them to him. He was instantly thrilled & swore he would book the flights immediately. He supposedly booked them for November 8th - 10th. I never saw the tickets. But he did send me a screen-shot of just the corner of the page showing me it would be Southwest Airlines.

He immediately wanted to contact my daughters. My 17-year-old and my 12-year-old. He wanted to begin texting them and calling them whenever they wanted to chat. One of this other favorite things to say was that we were all a "PACKAGE DEAL" to him. He claimed he could get any woman he wanted BUT he could not get any woman he wanted that had children in the age brackets he was looking for. He said he did not want an infant child because they're "too annoying" and "too much trouble". He would rather "mentor" a child that he could "influence in a positive way".

Anytime we spoke on the phone he was out of control fake. His tone of voice, his language would be impulsive, strange cursing for no reason whatsoever...I think in an effort to look "cool" which he IS NOT...and he was always rushed, loud, obnoxious. I can honestly say that in the 3 weeks or so that I spoke with him I never had ONE SINGLE ADULT CONVERSATION. All of his conversations consisted of talking over me. He could care less what I had to say. He was FAAAAAR more interested in speaking with my 17-year-old daughter.

A few times, we pissed him off in conversation. Mostly by text. He would analyze each and every word we said and if he deemed it odd or suspicious he would call us and chew us out!!! He was good at lecturing us, to put it lightly. He was OVER THE TOP weird. One of his requests from the start was also for my daughters and me to text him at least 3 times per day to just "touch base" with us and send him pics of us throughout the day. He never once asked me for anything sexually inspired but I during week three he did ask my 17-year-old for a pic of her "in nothing but a bath towel with her hair wet".

He ended up adjusting our original plans to Dallas. After he communicated a few times with me and my 17-year-old daughter he decided to bring us out a week early and let us stay for an entire week. This was the big plan....My daughter & me would fly out of Atlanta on Saturday morning into Dallas. He wanted us to "wear sweats, no make-up, hair in a ponytail". He would pick us up at the airport and we would immediately go shopping for a fancy dinner dress because he would be taking us out to a very expensive restaurant that night. He had made reservations for us at the Dry Bar in Dallas to have our hair done. He made reservations for our nails to get done, massages, trip to the zoo, he sent us several texts out of the blue regarding restaurants and if we would like to dine there, etc. He even asked my 17-year-old or her clothing sizes and he made me drive her to a local department store to be "sized". And I did it. Like a total idiot would.

So....we were scheduled to "fly" to Dallas on Saturday morning. He wanted us to both stay at his home in Highlands Park area of Dallas, supposedly, and I would fly back to Atlanta to pick up my youngest daughter that coming Thursday and fly back with her to Dallas on Friday then the three of us would return back to Atlanta on Sunday. Technically, I would have to leave my 17-year-old with HIM. ALONE. For almost 2 days. From the beginning, I felt like this was a strange request and I didn't feel comfortable with it at all. It gave me the creeps to think I would have to leave her with a total stranger. He even went as far as to have me contact the local Highlands Park High School Counselor and arrange a "tour of the school" for her & him to go visit there while I was traveling back to SC to pick up my youngest daughter. All a joke now looking back.

On the Thursday before we were supposed to leave out of Atlanta, I sent him a simple text message that asked him the name of his business. I had NEVER asked a single question about him up until now. He literally FLIPPED OUT ON ME!!! He sent me about 20 messages in a row asking me was I getting cold feet. Telling me I was a Drama Queen. Questioning him wasn't allowed. I needed to keep my "Drama on my side of the Fence". He never answered my question. Which gave me all the reason in the World to start my investigation. And what I found TERRIFIED ME!!!! Thankfully I did a search of his name. All I knew him by at this point was "Jay" but his email address had implied his last name was "Collier". I don't even know how I actually found him so easily, but I did... Putting in a search for "Jay" and "SeekingArrangement" is how I found this site...RipOffReport.com. This is how I was able to stop the whole thing from happening. We were literally DAYS away from leaving South Carolina to travel ALL the way to Dallas... And honestly, I do not think we would have ever made it back alive. I really don't. He became a totally different person. And I know for a FACT he is a CHILD PREDATOR!!! I was never his target. My 17-year-old daughter WAS. I do feel he would have kept her there. He would have NEVER brought me back there to get her.

Oh, and when I was researching him that morning online...I logged back into SeekingArrangement.com to look at his profile again so I could remember exactly what it said. I may have been on the site for maybe 2 minutes...he was texting me less than 10 minutes after I logged off. It's like he was tracking what I was doing for sure. He was freaking out when he had originally stated it would be a "deal breaker" if he were to find out that I had logged into that site again. He was furious!!!! His paranoia was unbelievable.

I found out he doesn't live in Highlands Park. He lives in a TOWNHOME. A far cry from his "mansion" claim. He is a RACECAR DRIVER for a Non-Profit organization that OF ALL THINGS supports the U.S. Military!!! I was baffled! Look up Racing for Heroes. You will see this scumbags real life pics!!! The pics he sent to us were the pics he posted on SeekingArrangement. Just remembering the sound of his voice...terrifies me and makes me have nightmares.

THIS GUY IS BAD NEWS!!! Keep your CHILDREN away from him!!! I thank GOD that I searched him that day and that I found this site!!!! We had to change our cell numbers. I deleted my profile on SeekingArrangement. This guy has a SERIAL KILLER mentality. I do not think we would be alive today if we had went to Dallas that Saturday. At the very least, my daughter would have been held captive and I probably would have never seen her again.

Thank you, Lord. And thank you to the other women who posted about him before me. You saved our lives!