John D Stuthmann DEAD BEAT DAD Winston Salem North Carolina
Redheaded deadbeat so called dad walked out on 4 children november 2002 his children's ages at the time 10,9,3,2 months, living it high out in the Hamptons on Long Island NY until he got himself fired, crying the blues he can't survive let only support his children, skips the state with his girl friend Maria to avoid court orderd chid support in arrears $7,000 and counting.
Hasn't made any contact with his children since Feb. 2004. Be a man John if you know how!!! get your reheaded self back up here to NY and answer to your children and get this divorce on the ball. the children and I would like to move on. Anyone with any info please contact the NYS child enforcment agency or NYS department of social services.
thank you in advance and GOD bless you.
Diane
Mastic Beach, New York
U.S.A.
3 Updates & Rebuttals
Leticia
Anytown,Other,
U.S.A.
Lori, the divorce laws in NY are insane.
#4Consumer Comment
Thu, July 06, 2006
Just take a look at the dumb laws website, it is very confusing.
Also unless, she has the money to up and move her and her children very far away, I doubt that she has a choice.
I had a friend who's father had walked out on her mother when she was 4, the state of NJ finally gave her mother a divorce due to abandonment, (meaning he can or will not sign) when my friend was 20. Because they wouldn't even consider it until over 16 years had passed. (and her mother had to prove that she had tried on her own to locate him, to no avail.)
That's just how it is in the that area.
Lori
Kalkaska,Michigan,
U.S.A.
Are you going to tell me.....
#4Consumer Comment
Thu, July 06, 2006
That you are NOT able to get a divorce in the state of New York, in four years time, without the consent of your husband? If so, maybe you should consider moving to a more friendly state for a few months, get your divorce and then go back home.
If you CAN get a divorce from your husband, without his consent, what's holding things up? Why haven't you pursued this and moved on?
Sorry girl, 4 years is a long time to hang on waiting for someone else to take action, even with kids. There's got to be more to this story......
Diane
Mastic Beach,New York,
U.S.A.
John D Stuthmann DEAD BEAT DAD Largo, Florida
#4Author of original report
Thu, July 06, 2006
John Stuthmann continuing to avoid supporting HIS 4 children, now owes roughly $17,000,00 and counting!!! Living under the protection of his girl friend Maria R. Mesen, I hope she knows he's not divorced and refuses to sign the papers( WAKE UP GIRL IF HE CAN WALK OUT ON HIS CHILDREN I,M SURE HE'LL GET TIRED OF YOU!!!)
170 Larchwood Drive
Largo, Florida