Complaint Review: Kerry Jane Stallbaumer

For starters I have been looking for whereabouts of old high school freinds and came across this search entry and found this gibberish. I was Glen's first girlfreind for over 7 years, and from the time we started and till the time I let him go he hasn't once layed a hand on me or verbally bashed me as most of the "children" on this report has claimed.

If it wasn't for Glen's motivation, I would probalbly look like the thinning, brunette blob called Kathi. Or the indecisive Kerry that for what I've have learned about had a meddling freind that stuck her nose in Glen and Kerry's affairs also. If there was anything that was a little off is the sleepovers to Marcy's house and the brother that was a sexual partner with Kerry prior to Glen was living there. To me that sounded a little off base.

So who knows, a paternity test should be in order for both girls.

I have the deepest respect for Glen in what he has done but also am worried about the strain he is having on his relationship with his son Christopher. He should remain vigil to his son regardless of what Kerry has pulled with him in the past and keep in touch with his son. His son is being scared by the fact of his mother policing his father's contact with Chris and by his father not challenging his rights as a parent.

Like I stated in my title of this report, Children are not leveraging tools!

Also the child support issue is a farce! come on now... I've seen a few of Glen's checks and man how does a family survive on $257 every 2 weeks? While his ex-girlfreind lives rent/utility free with her parents? And if you are reading this Kerry check the Stockton Courts, you parent refused to place their income for the equation of child support so I guess Glen got the shaft end of the deal since it is supposed to be "household income".

I pray you (children) get the hatred thats denying a child the love of both parent he most deservingly needs... money is nothing compared to the love they get from their parents.

I've said what I wanted to say. Glen I love you and your wife Shannon and your "6" children and hope to visit you guys soon when I'm up in Sacramento. Kerry, I know that you've had some hard growing to do trying to raise your son Christopher with the insights from your peers... its time to let your heart choose to let your son have contact with his father.

To all... PEACE!

I AM A FRIEND OF SOME OF THE PEOPLE MENTIONED AND I WOULD LIKE TO RESPOND TO THIS CRAP. ALL OF THIS STUFF BETWEEN THE PARENTS GOES BOTH WAYS. IT IS ALITTLE HARD FOR GLEN TO EVEN CARE ABOUT THE OTHER CHILD OF KATHY WHEN HE HAS ASKED FOR A PRATERNITY TEST AND THE JUDGE HAS SAID NO.

SO TO KATHY THAT WAS A LIE.SECOND OF ALL GLEN DID NOT LIVE IN CALIFORNIA IN 1999 SO HE COULD NOT HAVE SEEN YOUR SON ON CHRISTMAS SO THAT IS LIE NUMBER TWO.

WHY SHOULD HE PAY CHILD SUPPORT TO SOMEONE HE CANT SEE OR PROVE IT IS HIS.I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD HAVE ALSO TRIED SOME BIRTH CONTROL BECAUSE YOU OBVIOUSLY SLLEP AROUND. HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SEE CHILDREN THAT ARE HIS WHAT YOU MOTHERS ARE DOING IS WRONG YOU ALL NEED TO GROW UP AND TEACH YOUR CHILDREN A LITTLE OF RESPECT FOR THEIR FATHER BUT WHEN YOU DONT HAVE ANY ITS TO HARD TO TEACH THEM ANY.

THIRDLY GLEN IS NOT A WIFE BEATER HE HAS NEVER BEAT HIS WIFE OR ANYONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER I THINK YOU GUYS AE JUST JEALOUS ABOUT THE LIFE HE HAS NOW.

YOU WOMAN NEED TO GROW UP AND BE WOMAN.YOU ALSO NEED TO TELL THE GRANPARENTS TO STOP TRYING TO BE THE PARENTS AND MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOUR SELF. THAT DOES NOT TEACH THE CHILDREN ANYTHING SOME DAY YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE.GLEN WANTS TO BE A PART OF KRISTOPHERS LIFE ESPECIALLY BUT KARRY WILL NOT LET HIM. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS HOW I KNOW EVERYTHING BUT MY SUGGESTION ONCE AGAIN IS GROW UP AND QUIT BEING TIT BABIES.

I want to commend Marcy for responding to this outrageous report!! I am the Mother of the second son of this person (or so called person). I know Kerry and I know how hard she works to raise her son. She knows she can not count on this LOSER'S money. Every bit of money she gets from the Child Support goes to her son and not herself. She is a hard working woman that is just trying to give her son the best life she can give him. If he wants to debate her integrity he needs to first look at himself and see what he has done to the two woman that conceived his sons and raised them by THEMSELVES!! Marcy is correct in stating that he is a woman beater and he also an emotional abuser and our sons are better off not seeing him.

He chooses to deny my son in court but has NEVER requested a paternity test. I have never objected to one because I know without a doubt that my son is also his son, because unlike him I'm an honest person and I didn't sleep around. I would like to clarify one thing Marcy said, I was not the one in bed with Glen when Kerry walked in. I had already had Thomas when that happened. Kerry walked in on Glen and the woman that is his wife now. Kerry and I were both victims of this man. Neither one of us knew about the other one until after. My son has not seen his father since Christmas morning 1999, when Glen looked at my son and said, "I don't want you anymore!!" then looked at me and said, "He's all yours!" What kind of MAN would say that to a 4 year old??
He didn't mention my son because then he would have to publically admit to being his father, and heaven forbid someone might find out that he has yet ANOTHER child!!

I just wanted to voice my opinion!!! Let the "Other MOM" be heard!!

I want to commend Marcy for responding to this outrageous report!! I am the Mother of the second son of this person (or so called person). I know Kerry and I know how hard she works to raise her son. She knows she can not count on this LOSER'S money. Every bit of money she gets from the Child Support goes to her son and not herself. She is a hard working woman that is just trying to give her son the best life she can give him. If he wants to debate her integrity he needs to first look at himself and see what he has done to the two woman that conceived his sons and raised them by THEMSELVES!! Marcy is correct in stating that he is a woman beater and he also an emotional abuser and our sons are better off not seeing him.

He chooses to deny my son in court but has NEVER requested a paternity test. I have never objected to one because I know without a doubt that my son is also his son, because unlike him I'm an honest person and I didn't sleep around. I would like to clarify one thing Marcy said, I was not the one in bed with Glen when Kerry walked in. I had already had Thomas when that happened. Kerry walked in on Glen and the woman that is his wife now. Kerry and I were both victims of this man. Neither one of us knew about the other one until after. My son has not seen his father since Christmas morning 1999, when Glen looked at my son and said, "I don't want you anymore!!" then looked at me and said, "He's all yours!" What kind of MAN would say that to a 4 year old??
He didn't mention my son because then he would have to publically admit to being his father, and heaven forbid someone might find out that he has yet ANOTHER child!!

I just wanted to voice my opinion!!! Let the "Other MOM" be heard!!

I want to commend Marcy for responding to this outrageous report!! I am the Mother of the second son of this person (or so called person). I know Kerry and I know how hard she works to raise her son. She knows she can not count on this LOSER'S money. Every bit of money she gets from the Child Support goes to her son and not herself. She is a hard working woman that is just trying to give her son the best life she can give him. If he wants to debate her integrity he needs to first look at himself and see what he has done to the two woman that conceived his sons and raised them by THEMSELVES!! Marcy is correct in stating that he is a woman beater and he also an emotional abuser and our sons are better off not seeing him.

He chooses to deny my son in court but has NEVER requested a paternity test. I have never objected to one because I know without a doubt that my son is also his son, because unlike him I'm an honest person and I didn't sleep around. I would like to clarify one thing Marcy said, I was not the one in bed with Glen when Kerry walked in. I had already had Thomas when that happened. Kerry walked in on Glen and the woman that is his wife now. Kerry and I were both victims of this man. Neither one of us knew about the other one until after. My son has not seen his father since Christmas morning 1999, when Glen looked at my son and said, "I don't want you anymore!!" then looked at me and said, "He's all yours!" What kind of MAN would say that to a 4 year old??
He didn't mention my son because then he would have to publically admit to being his father, and heaven forbid someone might find out that he has yet ANOTHER child!!

I just wanted to voice my opinion!!! Let the "Other MOM" be heard!!

I want to commend Marcy for responding to this outrageous report!! I am the Mother of the second son of this person (or so called person). I know Kerry and I know how hard she works to raise her son. She knows she can not count on this LOSER'S money. Every bit of money she gets from the Child Support goes to her son and not herself. She is a hard working woman that is just trying to give her son the best life she can give him. If he wants to debate her integrity he needs to first look at himself and see what he has done to the two woman that conceived his sons and raised them by THEMSELVES!! Marcy is correct in stating that he is a woman beater and he also an emotional abuser and our sons are better off not seeing him.

He chooses to deny my son in court but has NEVER requested a paternity test. I have never objected to one because I know without a doubt that my son is also his son, because unlike him I'm an honest person and I didn't sleep around. I would like to clarify one thing Marcy said, I was not the one in bed with Glen when Kerry walked in. I had already had Thomas when that happened. Kerry walked in on Glen and the woman that is his wife now. Kerry and I were both victims of this man. Neither one of us knew about the other one until after. My son has not seen his father since Christmas morning 1999, when Glen looked at my son and said, "I don't want you anymore!!" then looked at me and said, "He's all yours!" What kind of MAN would say that to a 4 year old??
He didn't mention my son because then he would have to publically admit to being his father, and heaven forbid someone might find out that he has yet ANOTHER child!!

I just wanted to voice my opinion!!! Let the "Other MOM" be heard!!

First things first, he should say 7 kids! The one with Kerry is the eldest. One (whose mother will remain nameless) is 5 months younger than Kris. (who Glen denies) Then there are 5 children after that. As previously stated above, do you know what birth control is????? Obviously not.

This sorry excuse for a man cheated on Kerry and got the aforementioned second woman pregnant. What did he expect when she caught them in bed together????? That they would stay together???

One of the big reasons Glen doesn't see his son is because the jerk is a woman beater. And would any of you want your child to see their father hit their mother? I think not.

Glen claims that he loves his son but he ripped up every picture he had of Kris and sent them back to Kerry.

Glen can keep crying about the money he doesn't even pay. If the state does find him, he quits his sorry a** minimum wage job and hides like a little chicken 'til they find him again.

Now anyone reading this may think, well, she must be a friend of Kerrys and is biased to the situation. This is not the case. I haven't spoken to Kerry in almost two years. I believe there are two sides to every story and this is just the tip of the iceberg of this one.

I felt a little truth needed to be added to Glen's lies.

If you look in to the real problem it is that the court or child support service dont care about the kid's at all just the money they can get out of it. A real woman of today knows this. And would also belive that the system is unfair to the kids and the man & woman. Just remember in the long run the on you have will find this out on his own. As you will be finding out in the next year or so. That the system will have to change or it will have to go.

There are place today that are getting the law to remove the system of child support. In the states it also should be fixed. A person should pay for their kids. But in a fair way that both the man and woman pay the same. They need to check out all the claims and do a job not just take the woman's word for it. Do you know that a woman can tell them that you are the father of her kids and you will have to pay.The system is unfair to all fathers , Mothers , kids. I have 2 sons that are over 18 now and hate their mother for all the lie's she did, But I was always their for them.
They see the system as kids as slaves to the system and that woman only have kids to make money from the state.

That is why you here that a kid die in the car and the mother is in a house have a good time or she just go out and leaves the kids at home. Remember some people never want to work and fined this as a way to make money and just have fun all the time. It is unfair to the tax payer to> Think about this. If a person cant drive and cant work because of the wrong infomation. They say that the dead bet dads are around about 1,000,000 in california and they lose about 80,000 a year job. That would = 80,000 * 1,000,000 * 50 states = . You do the math.
Good luck

Now let me ask you something. Did you think about how you were going to raise 5 kids before you had them? Normal people put on condoms and make sure the other person is taking birth control to be sure they don't bring children into the world that they can't afford. Oh I know, you thought the woman would take care of that? My biggest suggestion to you woould be to get a vasectamy ASAP to save the rest of the world from having to raise your children for you because you can't afford it.

I suspect that there is a reason why you can't see your kid. Maybe you can't abide by the court-ordered visitation? You wish to punish the woman for leaving you? You are in jail? Could be anything. If you are not around the woman or the kid you have NO IDEA what the maother spends the child support on. GIVE ME A BREAK. If you proved your income properly, the court only assessed what is the minimum allowable for one child. Is it the court's fault you have 5 kids? Is it your son's fault that you had more kids than you can handle? Or maybe its the mother's? GIVE ME A BREAK

I have one child and get court-ordered child support. It is $44 a week. Do you know that barely covers anything? You are a dirt bag who outta be sterilized. It's like anything else: You don't buy a car you can't afford, so do you have a kid you can't? YOU MADE YOUR BED, LIVE IN IT.

Take some responsibility for your life and the lives you created. My son's father recognized that the money the court gives me is not enough and sends me more all the time. I have one child. Do you know how easy states are on deadbeat dads? I'm positive you got off easy, but it seems like a hardship because of all the kids you had.

GET A BETTER JOB DEADBEAT AND DEAL WITH YOUR LIFE.

I feel bad for your son because he will always have to live with the fact that his father can't support him or his family at home.

Undue Hardship ..I would try taking the snake back to court, file a motion for undue hardship. If you are supporting five kids not even a neo-feminist judge could go against you. I personally love it when I see a man quit his job and go on welfare, maby that is what she needs. If the system is forcing you into this situation let the system dig you out, as hard as it sounds for a little while become poor and see what happens. Now in canada if you get caught quitting your job they will take drivers license and possibly put you in jail, I suspect the same applies in the u.s.a. so be carefull and cover your back.