Michael J. Tutera, Tutera & Associates LTC LLC Inc false promises used & abused & left to fend for self Kansas City Missouri
I have been financially supported by Mike Tutera for the past 4, almost 5 years. I have not worked, and stayed home with my son during this time. I have known him for 9 years.
We have had a verbal arrangement for the past 4-5 years, he told me he would always take care of myself and my son financially.
I never had intercourse with him, but did other things for him, and his associates, when asked to, because I felt indebted to him.
I am not his girlfriend, nor was I his wife (he was married when we first met, but since has been divorced), he paid for everything (and then some) for my son & I, bought 2 cars for me(one that he took away, and until recently when I found out he'd sold it, has kept promising my mom and me he'd give it back. Since he'd personally given my other car to my mom, but when he took the new one back I had to get my old one from her),paid for 2 (4000 each time) breast implant operations, because he wanted me to, I was against it at first, and even knowingly supported my live-in boyfriend for 2 years.(And up until this last month he had been telling my mom and me he was going to marry me, and even had my mom buy him wedding bands when she went to Taiwan, for us) Until last April when Clint, my boyfriend was killed in a car wreck.
There were some very shady circumstances (and physical evidence) surrounding his death that gave reason to believe Mike may have caused his accident. I never imagined Mike a murderer, and not of my boyfriend!
A very mentally deficient "friend" of mine gets mad at me and calls Mike saying all sorts of b.s. regarding him & me, causing him to freak out and thus cut me off. (although he called and told me he would set something up financially for my son & I, he just wanted to keep it hush-hush in front of others, basically to look better in front of his friends, he didn't ever follow through on that)
This was in July, and for the next 3 months we talk here and there, but the money stops completely. And then prior to my birthday he asks me if I want to come back and he once more promises to make good on his original arrangement and financially support my son and I again, thus lifting any worries that I wasn't going to be able to pay my bills, and eliminating the need for me to work, like i'd begun to look into.
At the first of this month I don't hear from him for 2 weeks and when I do he sounds all doped up amd has this inane story of his psych ex trying to kill him and how he was basically hiding out, but would get me some money asap. He carried on with this false promise, of money for my bills, as well as christmas, causing me to believe that my checks (which have all been returned and fees accrued, and they're still left unpaid, including my rent for December). And during this time he's asking me to send him naked pictures of myself by email, which I do, still under the impression that he's going to take care of the mounting money problem, because he outright says so, and after all this time, why should I not think he will? He has for years.
I sent him an email yesterday, christmas, telling him to please not do this to me, because I don't have anyway to pay the rent. Begged him to call me, because I didn't understand what was going on, and it wasn't right to my son or me.
His response? He emailed me saying that I fail to remember that i'd tried to frame him for murder, and my situation was my own fault, that he wasn't going to help me and to never contact him again. That's the basics of the matter, there are more details, if needed. Thanks, I just don't know what i'm supposed to do, especially when my landlady wants her rent money that I do not have, or even to feed my son when our food runs out. Help!
Tracy
Kansas City, Missouri
U.S.A.
9 Updates & Rebuttals
Brenda
Kansas City,Missouri,
U.S.A.
complete insanity
#10UPDATE Employee
Wed, November 12, 2008
This has got to be the most HILARIOUS thing i have ever read. These women need to go back to preschool (as it is obvious they have a colective iq of 13 between them). I have known this man for years, and he is sooo above any of these alligations, that it is just laughable! He has been in love w only one woman for the past 15 years, and if any of you truly did know him you would know that. Just stop your lame attempts at extortion, and slander, and go back to what it is you obviously perform at most----lying on your back. Nice life you all built for yourselfs. From your own mouths he wants absolutely nothing to do w you, so where is he now, aside from your (very limited) imaginations. Go back to whatever brother you came from, and leave this wonderful man alone. It's women like you that make the rest of sick. I would almost say pity, but you brainless females brought it on yourselfs. Enjoy the trailer park WT.
Mamarowden
Olathe,Kansas,
U.S.A.
Looking for...
#10Consumer Comment
Mon, July 30, 2007
I am looking for one of Michael Tutera's ex or present girlfriends, Sonya. Anyone heard of her. She was an old friend of mine and I am trying to find her. She was with Michael starting in 1993 - he was completey in love with her!
Lyda
Phoenix,Arizona,
U.S.A.
Mike Tutera a STAND UP GUY!
#10UPDATE EX-employee responds
Mon, May 21, 2007
So, I came across this report on Mike Tutera simply because I, myself used to be like the girl who decided to "report" him. I worked for Mike about 7-8 years ago, and just like the female who wrote this origial "complaint" he afforded me a great lifestyle.
Like her, no sex was EVER exchanged between the two of us, just a great friendship from a generous man with a big heart.
Working for Mike, I went into it KNOWING that my "shelf-life" would not be long and planned for that by saving the money and putting it away while working for him.
Mike is a kind, honest, straight forward individual, and I had nothing but the best experience while working for him.
I saw the female that originally wrote the article, retracted her negative comments about him and I was happy to see that.
I just wanted to say THANK YOU to him, wherever he is, cause he was a HUGE part of my life and I will always be greatful for his generosity and his friendship to me
SINCERELY
Tracy
RAYMORE,Missouri,
U.S.A.
AND THE YEARS GO ON...
#10Author of original report
Tue, June 28, 2005
SO IT'S BEEN AWHILE SINCE I FIRST SUBMITTED THIS REPORT AND WANTED TO UPDATE BUT COULDN'T REMEMBER MY EMAIL ADRESS FROM BACK THEN. WELL I DID END UP TALKING TO MICHAEL AFTER I FILED THIS REPORT ON HERE, BUT THAT'S NEITHER HERE NOR THERE AS I NO LONGER BLAME MICHAEL FOR WHAT HAPPENED.
I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY TO "SHELBY" FROM OLATHE THAT SHE SHOULD GET HER FACTS STRAIGHT AS I DID NOT SEND NOR HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MIKE RECIEVING A BLACKMAIL LETTER.
I DID HEAR ABOUT THAT LETTER YOU SPOKE OF, BUT I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT OR THOSE INVOLVED WITH SENDING IT, AND NOR WOULD I HAVE EVER TRIED TO BLACKMAIL HIM FOR MONEY.
I HAD PLENTY OF OPPROTUNITIES TO HAVE STOLEN FROM HIM SHOULD I HAVE CHOSEN TO, BUT HE WAS MORE TO ME THAN JUST CASH AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT TO HIM. AND AS FAR AS CONTACTING THE AUTHORITIES ABOUT THE INFO THAT I KNOW IMPLICATING HIM TO MY EXES DEATH, I CARE FOR MIKE TO MUCH TO BE TO DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD CAUSE HIM THAT KIND OF TROUBLE AND NO MATTER WHAT I THINK I KNOW I WILL NEVER KNOW THE REAL TRUTH.
I ADMIT NOW THAT AT THE TIME THAT I WROTE MY ORIGINAL RIPOFF REPORT I WAS VERY UPSET THAT HE HAD LEFT ME TO FEND FOR MYSELF, BUT IT HAD ALWAYS GONE WAY DEEPER THAT MONEY, AND MORE THAN ANYTHING I WAS VERY HURT BY THE BROKEN PROMISES AND LOSING HIS FRIENDSHIP, WHICH I GUESS, IN MY NAIVETY, I BELIEVED WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE! I REALIZE NOW THAT MY POSTING THE RIPOFF WAS DONE COMPLETELY WITHOUT THOUGHT AND OUT OF ANGER, AND THAT HE REALLY DIDN'T "OWE" ME ANYTHING. I JUST BELIEVED HIM AND WAS BLIND.
I PROBABLY SHOULDN'T HAVE POSTED WHAT I DID, AND I KNOW I'VE NOONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT MYSELF. AND IF I KNEW MY OLD EMAIL ADDRESS I WOULD RETRACT WHAT I'D WROTE THEN. AS, DESPITE WHAT HAPPENED THEN, AS WELL AS WHAT MY LIFE HAS BECOME, I ONLY HAVE THE GREATEST RESPECT AND AM GRATEFUL FOR HIS HELP AND THE TIME HE SPENT WITH ME. AND WILL LOVE HIM FOR HIM ALWAYS.
Tracy
RAYMORE,Missouri,
U.S.A.
AND THE YEARS GO ON...
#10Author of original report
Tue, June 28, 2005
SO IT'S BEEN AWHILE SINCE I FIRST SUBMITTED THIS REPORT AND WANTED TO UPDATE BUT COULDN'T REMEMBER MY EMAIL ADRESS FROM BACK THEN. WELL I DID END UP TALKING TO MICHAEL AFTER I FILED THIS REPORT ON HERE, BUT THAT'S NEITHER HERE NOR THERE AS I NO LONGER BLAME MICHAEL FOR WHAT HAPPENED.
I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY TO "SHELBY" FROM OLATHE THAT SHE SHOULD GET HER FACTS STRAIGHT AS I DID NOT SEND NOR HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MIKE RECIEVING A BLACKMAIL LETTER.
I DID HEAR ABOUT THAT LETTER YOU SPOKE OF, BUT I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT OR THOSE INVOLVED WITH SENDING IT, AND NOR WOULD I HAVE EVER TRIED TO BLACKMAIL HIM FOR MONEY.
I HAD PLENTY OF OPPROTUNITIES TO HAVE STOLEN FROM HIM SHOULD I HAVE CHOSEN TO, BUT HE WAS MORE TO ME THAN JUST CASH AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT TO HIM. AND AS FAR AS CONTACTING THE AUTHORITIES ABOUT THE INFO THAT I KNOW IMPLICATING HIM TO MY EXES DEATH, I CARE FOR MIKE TO MUCH TO BE TO DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD CAUSE HIM THAT KIND OF TROUBLE AND NO MATTER WHAT I THINK I KNOW I WILL NEVER KNOW THE REAL TRUTH.
I ADMIT NOW THAT AT THE TIME THAT I WROTE MY ORIGINAL RIPOFF REPORT I WAS VERY UPSET THAT HE HAD LEFT ME TO FEND FOR MYSELF, BUT IT HAD ALWAYS GONE WAY DEEPER THAT MONEY, AND MORE THAN ANYTHING I WAS VERY HURT BY THE BROKEN PROMISES AND LOSING HIS FRIENDSHIP, WHICH I GUESS, IN MY NAIVETY, I BELIEVED WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE! I REALIZE NOW THAT MY POSTING THE RIPOFF WAS DONE COMPLETELY WITHOUT THOUGHT AND OUT OF ANGER, AND THAT HE REALLY DIDN'T "OWE" ME ANYTHING. I JUST BELIEVED HIM AND WAS BLIND.
I PROBABLY SHOULDN'T HAVE POSTED WHAT I DID, AND I KNOW I'VE NOONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT MYSELF. AND IF I KNEW MY OLD EMAIL ADDRESS I WOULD RETRACT WHAT I'D WROTE THEN. AS, DESPITE WHAT HAPPENED THEN, AS WELL AS WHAT MY LIFE HAS BECOME, I ONLY HAVE THE GREATEST RESPECT AND AM GRATEFUL FOR HIS HELP AND THE TIME HE SPENT WITH ME. AND WILL LOVE HIM FOR HIM ALWAYS.
Tracy
RAYMORE,Missouri,
U.S.A.
AND THE YEARS GO ON...
#10Author of original report
Tue, June 28, 2005
SO IT'S BEEN AWHILE SINCE I FIRST SUBMITTED THIS REPORT AND WANTED TO UPDATE BUT COULDN'T REMEMBER MY EMAIL ADRESS FROM BACK THEN. WELL I DID END UP TALKING TO MICHAEL AFTER I FILED THIS REPORT ON HERE, BUT THAT'S NEITHER HERE NOR THERE AS I NO LONGER BLAME MICHAEL FOR WHAT HAPPENED.
I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY TO "SHELBY" FROM OLATHE THAT SHE SHOULD GET HER FACTS STRAIGHT AS I DID NOT SEND NOR HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MIKE RECIEVING A BLACKMAIL LETTER.
I DID HEAR ABOUT THAT LETTER YOU SPOKE OF, BUT I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT OR THOSE INVOLVED WITH SENDING IT, AND NOR WOULD I HAVE EVER TRIED TO BLACKMAIL HIM FOR MONEY.
I HAD PLENTY OF OPPROTUNITIES TO HAVE STOLEN FROM HIM SHOULD I HAVE CHOSEN TO, BUT HE WAS MORE TO ME THAN JUST CASH AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT TO HIM. AND AS FAR AS CONTACTING THE AUTHORITIES ABOUT THE INFO THAT I KNOW IMPLICATING HIM TO MY EXES DEATH, I CARE FOR MIKE TO MUCH TO BE TO DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD CAUSE HIM THAT KIND OF TROUBLE AND NO MATTER WHAT I THINK I KNOW I WILL NEVER KNOW THE REAL TRUTH.
I ADMIT NOW THAT AT THE TIME THAT I WROTE MY ORIGINAL RIPOFF REPORT I WAS VERY UPSET THAT HE HAD LEFT ME TO FEND FOR MYSELF, BUT IT HAD ALWAYS GONE WAY DEEPER THAT MONEY, AND MORE THAN ANYTHING I WAS VERY HURT BY THE BROKEN PROMISES AND LOSING HIS FRIENDSHIP, WHICH I GUESS, IN MY NAIVETY, I BELIEVED WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE! I REALIZE NOW THAT MY POSTING THE RIPOFF WAS DONE COMPLETELY WITHOUT THOUGHT AND OUT OF ANGER, AND THAT HE REALLY DIDN'T "OWE" ME ANYTHING. I JUST BELIEVED HIM AND WAS BLIND.
I PROBABLY SHOULDN'T HAVE POSTED WHAT I DID, AND I KNOW I'VE NOONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT MYSELF. AND IF I KNEW MY OLD EMAIL ADDRESS I WOULD RETRACT WHAT I'D WROTE THEN. AS, DESPITE WHAT HAPPENED THEN, AS WELL AS WHAT MY LIFE HAS BECOME, I ONLY HAVE THE GREATEST RESPECT AND AM GRATEFUL FOR HIS HELP AND THE TIME HE SPENT WITH ME. AND WILL LOVE HIM FOR HIM ALWAYS.
Tracy
RAYMORE,Missouri,
U.S.A.
AND THE YEARS GO ON...
#10Author of original report
Tue, June 28, 2005
SO IT'S BEEN AWHILE SINCE I FIRST SUBMITTED THIS REPORT AND WANTED TO UPDATE BUT COULDN'T REMEMBER MY EMAIL ADRESS FROM BACK THEN. WELL I DID END UP TALKING TO MICHAEL AFTER I FILED THIS REPORT ON HERE, BUT THAT'S NEITHER HERE NOR THERE AS I NO LONGER BLAME MICHAEL FOR WHAT HAPPENED.
I JUST WANTED TO CLARIFY TO "SHELBY" FROM OLATHE THAT SHE SHOULD GET HER FACTS STRAIGHT AS I DID NOT SEND NOR HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH MIKE RECIEVING A BLACKMAIL LETTER.
I DID HEAR ABOUT THAT LETTER YOU SPOKE OF, BUT I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH IT OR THOSE INVOLVED WITH SENDING IT, AND NOR WOULD I HAVE EVER TRIED TO BLACKMAIL HIM FOR MONEY.
I HAD PLENTY OF OPPROTUNITIES TO HAVE STOLEN FROM HIM SHOULD I HAVE CHOSEN TO, BUT HE WAS MORE TO ME THAN JUST CASH AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE DONE THAT TO HIM. AND AS FAR AS CONTACTING THE AUTHORITIES ABOUT THE INFO THAT I KNOW IMPLICATING HIM TO MY EXES DEATH, I CARE FOR MIKE TO MUCH TO BE TO DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD CAUSE HIM THAT KIND OF TROUBLE AND NO MATTER WHAT I THINK I KNOW I WILL NEVER KNOW THE REAL TRUTH.
I ADMIT NOW THAT AT THE TIME THAT I WROTE MY ORIGINAL RIPOFF REPORT I WAS VERY UPSET THAT HE HAD LEFT ME TO FEND FOR MYSELF, BUT IT HAD ALWAYS GONE WAY DEEPER THAT MONEY, AND MORE THAN ANYTHING I WAS VERY HURT BY THE BROKEN PROMISES AND LOSING HIS FRIENDSHIP, WHICH I GUESS, IN MY NAIVETY, I BELIEVED WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE! I REALIZE NOW THAT MY POSTING THE RIPOFF WAS DONE COMPLETELY WITHOUT THOUGHT AND OUT OF ANGER, AND THAT HE REALLY DIDN'T "OWE" ME ANYTHING. I JUST BELIEVED HIM AND WAS BLIND.
I PROBABLY SHOULDN'T HAVE POSTED WHAT I DID, AND I KNOW I'VE NOONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT MYSELF. AND IF I KNEW MY OLD EMAIL ADDRESS I WOULD RETRACT WHAT I'D WROTE THEN. AS, DESPITE WHAT HAPPENED THEN, AS WELL AS WHAT MY LIFE HAS BECOME, I ONLY HAVE THE GREATEST RESPECT AND AM GRATEFUL FOR HIS HELP AND THE TIME HE SPENT WITH ME. AND WILL LOVE HIM FOR HIM ALWAYS.
Shelby
Olathe,Kansas,
U.S.A.
Been There Done That
#10UPDATE EX-employee responds
Wed, December 15, 2004
I was also a "friend" of Michael's for many years. He has supported many people. He always paid me well and made sure my family was taken care of. The last time I saw Michael will be 3 years ago January 1. He is still a very dear friend to me and always will be. I feel that Michael has his own life to live and I am grateful for the time we were together. He had a girl-friend the whole time and Tracy knew that. I was also with Michael when Tracy was with him. Actually there were 3 or 4 of us that Micheal had around. If Tracy was blind enough to think that she was the only woman that Michael wanted to be with that is her own fault. Michael had nothing to do with Clint death. I was at the office the day a letter was delivered from Tracy to Michael trying to blackmail him by saying she had evidence that he had Clint killed. If that was true she should have gone to the police. In my opinion, she's just sour that she no longer has a free ride! I, on the other hand, have gone on with my life and am doing just fine. Wherever you are Michael, I still love you as a friend and will never forget how wonderful you were to me and my family.
sara, AmeriTech
livonia,Michigan,
U.S.A.
h*o h*o h*o! He should be the one filing a Ripoff Report!
#10Consumer Comment
Thu, December 26, 2002
Oh my god! I really hope that this is some sort of joke! You and your family have been sponging off of this guy for years, and now that he shows some common sense by cutting you off you cry ripoff? He should be suing you for using him. If there is nothing going on, why did you send the pics? Get new b***s twice on his tab? It sounds like you've be leading him on bigtime. Is the kid his? I would GET A JOB if I were you, but then again I don't use people. If there is any so called evidence that this guy did cause your boyfriends death, you should report it to the police. I say so called because after reading you report, I have a hard time believing that you wouldn't take an opportunity like that to make up "evidence" to try and blackmail this guy.
It's time for men(and women) to wake up and realize that giving someone money,cars, or in this case b***s, doesn't make that person love you! At least this guy seems to grasp the point. Good luck Michael J. Tutera!