Complaint Review: Patrick Cruse

Im sorry but if you dont want to hear someones opinion then dont post things for other people to see. If you are happy with out the money then drop it. As for recording phone calls and stuff all the court needs is an ok from one of the parties speaking and then it can be used. If he should do this say on the phone that you dont agree to having this call recorded and that will make it to where he cant use it in court.

I am also dealing with dead beat dads. One cant keep out of jail and the other has a girlfriend that he just cant say no to.

I feel sorry for these men. Sons dad sees him on a regular basis because Im not going to take out on my son how i feel for his dad.

I have no choice with my daughters dad. He has never seen her or attempted to see her. She went into surgery for her heart 5 weeks after birth. He was notified but never showed. Now she is 21 months old and is facing open heart surgery. He will be notified of when the surgery will take place as soon as i know. But i know for sure that he will not show.

If you are doing a good job of taking care of that kid then you need to stop worrying about what the dad is saying and focus on your kid. The number one thing to worry about is bad talking the other parrent. You are doing more mental damage to that child than you know. It is also considered child abuse in some states.

Like i said in the beginning. As far as i know from my own divorce and what i am going through now you only need the ok of one party to use the tapes in court. So if you dont want them recorded when you talk to him on the phone say "I do not agree to this phone call being taped" and then either one hang up or two continue the call. He cant use it.

Good luck and best wishes for both of you.

First of all like I don't know Katie is from Minnesota.

I think you should mind your own business. You don't know the whole story. Mr. Cruse has kids with three different women. As god is my witness he called me before my son was born and asked if he could sign his rights away because he new girl was having a baby katie and he didn't have enough money for Matthew. My son has a father and his happy. And for your information I am not in Texas but in Las Vegas NV.

My son will be adopted when we can do it. And as far as recording me its against the law I have a lawyer and I DON'T EVEN SPEAK TO MR CRUSE BECAUSE ALL HE DOES IS CALL ME NAMES. I WOULD RATHER LIVE HAPPY. BESIDES HIS FAMILY DOES NOT LIKE US LATINOS. SO MAYBE YOU SHOULD THINK BEFORE YOU WRITE. I AM A STRONG WOMEN AND SUPPORT MY CHILD ALONE AND WE WILL NOT BE SEPARTATED FROM HIS BROTHER SO HE COULD GO SEE HIS OTHER FAMILY. NO WAY I CAN LIVE WHERE EVER I WANT.

First of all this is none of your buiness and as far as Patrick Cruse he has kids with everyone and was the one that asked me if he could give up rights because he had a baby on the way with the third mother of his child katie and could not afford payment and he has a father that takes care of him and as far as me living in texas b***h i am not i live in las vegas so why don't you come here so i can kick your a*s. Me Patrick and My son are happier without him in his life. So if Mr. Cruse wants to record me I think thats against the law. I have a lawyer. I support my child on my own because I am a strong women and you don't know all the story b***h.

Cryselda Almodovar

I dont know the whole story but your son was made by two consenting adults, although he may have a loving family with his mother, that does not change the fact that he has a father, you may not like this man very much and he may not support your child like you think he should, but your son is the only one getting hurt in this mess.

Regardless if he doesnt see his dad,some part of him will want to no matter how much he is bad mouthed by you or people around you,and if you are truely doing all the things he said you are,then you arnt makeing things easy for him,do you honestly think he will call and ask how his son is doing if you are constantly talking smack which im sure you do by reading what you wrote aboult his girlfriend you dont wish him happines thats for sure,Cryselda your best bet is to accept it for what it is for now and try to be a little less vendictive,

Patric im not sure what your income is,but get a lawyer to get court ordered visitations if you have them already make sure to make all your visitations on time even if your buissy,dont give her things to use on you,with my husbands ex we went to Wal-Mart and got a $20 tape recorder taped any kind of contact with her,she did alot of the same things,we kicked her butt in court when she tried to lie because it was all on tape,

im not sure but arnt you suppose to get permission from the father if you move so far as to Texas it would be easy to find out,come on Patrick get on the ball if your not already you will feel alot better knowing your doing all you can to see your son it took us 3 yrs but it worth it in the end
good luck

I am responding on Patrick Cruse trying to make hisself look good. First of all I could care less about his girlfriend that supports him or his other children. I have sent him emails of pictures of Matthew and of his growing up. Matthew is going to be a year old now and hasn't recieved anything from his blood father except a broken crib and a set of covers for his crib one ugly outfit that was 8 dollars and some diapers and one can of milk and only after the fact that his loving on crazy mother paid $500 dollars of a DNA test that she was promised half of and never got. Now his frineds email address was sent to me by Mr. Cruse and it said to do what they had to. I wrote these people telling them my lawyer was informed and that the police was to incase they tried to do something to me, Matthew or his brother. I don't know these people. The only reason I told Mr.Cruse to keep his $68 dollars a week of child support is because his mother and his sweet girl-friend thought that was alot of money to give to Matthew. Plus Mr. Cruse said his other children with two other women would suffer because of Matthew. I am a proud latina women I figured I could do it by myself which I have. Matthew is in a loving home a $200,000 home has a new father that gets him what he needs He has a bother that loves him and my family that loves him. He doesn't need his father. If $68 dollars was to much for him to give then we really don't need. I care so much for his other children that I weren't want them to suffer because of Matthew. Matthew is my son and my son only. I hope god forgives Mr. Cruse and I hope him nothing but happiness. I can say that I am gald that Matthew came into my life. Matthew loves me and gives me love and happiness everyday and to me that is worth more than fighting for $68 dollars of week or making my child leave me and his brother to another family that he doesn't want to be with.

This is in respose to to my self being a "dead beat dad". I do agree that i did get this woman pregnant, but thats about where it ends. I hired an attorney and was willing to pay support as long as i was allowed my due visitation. Ms Almodover has repeatedly made derogatory comments about myself, my other children, my family and basically anyone i know. She has made so many phone calls, and emails to my place of business and to my friends that they have looked into filing suit for harassment. Ms Almodover dropped the paternaty case and begged me to leave her alone so she could move away to texas, which to the best of my knowledge she has done. My friends and former coworkers continue to receive emails(unwanted) from this woman. She has made threats toward me and my other children and my current girlfriend. I believe that she is mentally unstable and a potential harm to herself, myself, my family, and my children. She is bitter woman who has only one drive which is to bad mouth myself and use our son Matthew to hurt me in anyway possible. She uses him for leverage with any given opportunity and is willing to use him to get to me. I feel sorry for this woman. She is truely a lunatic.