Complaint Review: Ralph Dalesando

Ralph Dalesandro  aka"Rapist-Ralph" is well known in the bottom feeding drug culture of Playa Del Rey and on the Westside of Los Angeles Ca. He has spent most of his adult life in and out of prison for violent acts against women. The mother of his 5 children has permanent brain damage due to being struck  in the head so many times.

As a result of his perverse, violent and evil parenting style only 1 of the 5 children he boasts about raising even speak to him. When asked why 1 still does,  after everything he has done to her, she says; "It's part of the cycle.Im the classic text book abused child. I will always keep his secrets, protect him and love him even though I hate him and he still uses me to this day."

Ralph has not had gainful employment in 20 years . He has never supported himself. He supports his current daily and expensive meth habit by assisting in the distribution of the drug with the a*s financial support of his current live-with girlfriend who resides in Gardena for the past year. Ralph does not have a car or a drivers license he rides a bike.
However frequently drives her truck most of the time without her consent. 

The previous girlfriend of 3 years supported him and she was victim of his physical abused and constantly terrorized,stolen from, intimidated and forced to have sexual relations with him when she wanted out of the relationship. She finally got a restraining order and a gun and informed him that she retained both and would use them.
He continues to harass her, threaten and steal from her.

It was said that he stole her brothers motorcycle. When his current girlfriend with whom he lives with,  in Gardena becomes full, phat and just plain boring to him, he will stir up a fight, then steal her products. (large quantizes of meth, prescription pills, PCP and heroin) and heads towards South Central where he trades the drugs to the pathetic and addicted. The girlfriend;  being an adult victim of abuse always takes him back- depite the beating and total disregard of her human rights-  as the daughter has stated its "part of the abusive cycle"

He spends his time with known organized crime gangs members in south central and is well known for obtaining stolen firearms and selling them to convicted criminals and gangs who have been arrested by the ATF and LAPD in the past. He himself however, has never been convicted of these same crimes but seems to have insider information. The ironic part of that is; most everyone he sells guns to winds up in prison with in a years time  (as did the owner of the home he
resides with in Alhambra and his daughters then boyfriend  and now husband ) He stores the rest of his stolen property( jewelry , collectors coins )  in Gardena with his current girlfriend and sells them thru her (her family is affiliated with the lower lever gangmenbers in Compton)  Ralph with his girlfriend are pros and are absolutely victimizing and strong arming an individual they call a friend of theirs who resides in Playa Del Rey.

The very sad part is the person their friend is a long standing resident of playa del Rey who lives off a quickly-dwindleling,  trust-fund. He is the son of the founder (practically) of Playa del Rey who Ralph and his girlfriend keep sedated and wasted on drugs so that they can eventually take over his estate and drain his bank accounts.

Unfortunately, nothing can really be done about it. If you know the trust-fund individual and can do something to help him break free of the drug -hold Ralph and his girlfriend have ...PLEASE DO SO before its too late.

Ralph enjoys manipulating women . Especially other peoples women - whose men have been arrested and become incarcerated. He plays the rescuer by showing up at the distraught friends home where a girlfriend is present , brings her a handful of the current girlfriends drugs , gains trust and while they are sleeping  forces himself on them and they wake up in the middle or the end of the unwanted sex act -violated and humiliated. However they seldom tell the boyfriend  "Hey while you were locked up your buddy Ralph came by to get me high and help me and then raped me in my sleep" What ever he cant trick you into he will bully and intimidate you out of instead.

The bottom line and warning to the public is;  Do not trust those bigbluepools of Ralphs with his cunning manipulative personality around your home. Do not let him into your life. Do not let him know any personal information about you.
Above all - NEVER fall asleep with him in the area and NEVER trust your child alone with this man.

Ralph Dalesandro is pure evil and a master manipulator, a complete and absolute parasite and cold stone abuser