TER has an internal PM system for its users. PM stands for Private Messages. At least, that's what it's supposed to stand for. On TER, it stands for STAFF WILL READ YOUR MESSAGES.
If you use TER, a site founded by a career criminal who is currently sitting in prison for hiring a hitman to kill an escort, be aware that the admin staff and mods will read your private messages.
Also, be aware that if you are an escort and use the "private" "ladies only" forum board, male mods can read your posts in there and they will.
The site is poison. I can't believe it is still so widely used. The owner hired a hitman to kill an escort, for crying out loud! Any classy escort will take down her profile. Many already have.
Men who use TER should be aware that their credit card and personal information is accessible to the TER staff. Are they trustworthy?