Complaint Review: TIMOTHY WAYNE WINGFIELD

Tim, This is your daughter I am now 17 yrs old and it has been 7 yrs since you have had any contact with. I wrote you a poem the other day and I didn't know how to get it to you so I thought well his parents know we have posted him on here maybe they will tell him and he'll read it so this is what I wrote:

Why, Daddy, Why


You were my dad that I once knew But little do you know tha pain you've put me through. I've grown up and realized your life is nothing but lies. You say...you love me more than I know but if that were true, why don't you show? I know you have her and you love her, I'm sure but don't forget, I'm your blood, too but obviously that doesn't mean anything to you. I remember when I was the twinkle in my daddy's eye. Then one day you left with no good-bye. Why? You say Mom's standing in the way and all she wants is for you to pay. Maybe that's true but what can I do? I'm you DAUGHTER and you're suppose to be my FATHER. Does that mean anything to you?...cause it does to me. But that you'll never see and a father you'll never be. Well, if you could see the tears running down my face still the years that have passed you CAN'T replace. So, Dad I've given up on you, cause you're so phoney From this day forward, I'll call you...Tim!!!!

Dedicated to my biological father, Timothy Wayne Wingfield, who cares not for me. Well, I have a dad now who loves me, no matter what!!!!!!!!!!

Tim I hope oneday you will read this and maybe you will stop and think you aren't just hurtting my mom YOU have also hurt me and your 2 sons that you have forgotten about here in North Carolina. You have taken my heart and your 2 sons heart ripped it out of our hearts and stomped on it and didn't even shead a tear while doing it....You know E.W.W. you son is now 15 K.R.W you other son is 12 I am 17 it isn't to late to start doing what a father should do and pay your child support and get in touch with us..Your family knows our phone # and address why not try writing or calling??????

Thanks Dawn for your suggestions..

Dawn, I have not yet put any posters up yet and the reason is I am in North Carolina and he is in Georgia but I think maybe your right I need to go to Georgia and at the post office where he gets his mail put up several posters of him and tell all about the type of person he is.......I have contacted everyone I know to contact I have bugged the crap out of our City Manager, the D.A, the person over the child support here I have even written to Mike Easley our gov. I even went so far as to take my children down to my case worker at the Davidson County child support agency and told her I wanted her to meet the kids I was planning on leaving with her to take care of she said you can't do that I said why not he did and has never looked back...She said Lori you will go to jail I asked her and how is that he has never even been to court for non-support and is over 35,000.00 behind and b/c I am going to leave them with you. And really I am doing nothing different then he did he left them with me to take care of by myself...But I will go to jail I said maybe that wouldn't be to bad maybe then the television stations will hear about this and I will get somewhere in locating him b/c the child support agency can't seem to find him. The D.A. here in our county is a friend of mine and she called him and he called me to talk about what i had told her I would never had left my kids with her but I wanted her to understand where I was coming from.....

Well Dave I want to thank you for you in put....I was married to this man for 12 yrs so I had no idea he would do this...... I have really thought about what you wrote and i see you are either just like him or your him b/c you have no education if you did you would know when you spell witch that is the type of witch that flys on a broom the "which" you needed is spelled like this WHICH!!!!!! and it is men like you and him who needs to think before you guys have these children it isn't all the womans fault at some point the man needs to take some responsibility for there actions. It seems to me that when a man or a woman has children and they choose to leave then they need to stop and think these children can't take care of themselves and it should not be just the person who stays with the children responsibility it is still BOTH the parents responsibility....and I am not ever going to give up on locating Tim b/c I know I will find him I have his PO box address.........so you see Dave I am getting somewhere with my investigation..I am not the type of person who gives up!!!!!!!!!!!!

I read your report on Tim. I am in the same boat as you are. I actually call the Prosecuting Attorney where I live every month. I know it bugs the daylights out of her, but there's too many cases and not enough government workers.

Anyway, that's just one idea. My other idea was to post flyers of him all over. Get a picture of him and write that's he's a DEADBEAT DAD and put how much he owes, his usual occupation and so on. I wouldn't include any information about the little wifey as that may get you in trouble. That just might attract some attention and who knows? He just might try to find you.

I don't know what else to say except try a new tactic. It would also help if you had any police friends. I had some at an old job that I used to work at and they would tell me anything about my ex that I wanted to know and they couldn't go arrest him because it was out of thier jurisdiction but they had friends who were in the right jurisdiction.

if you can not catch him now you will not be able to in the future!!

Good luck on getting your child support.......

maybe after the first kid and seen how this guy was you should not have any more with him!!

now your stuck with 3 kids and a singal mom. witch sucks for you..

best thing u can do is find him your self then call the police and report him as a deadbeat father.