Complaint Review: Bec's Bunnies - Internet Internet

To those of you who know Julia, what story did she tell you on how she moved from Springville Alabama to Louisville Kentucky? I can only imagine she concocted an elaborate story on how she moved to Louisville on a job interview or met her husband Jeff elsewhere and moved to Louisville to be with him. Now you are going to know the truth about this woman and how she used me to get out of Springville because she was tired of living with her mother in a run down trailer, sleeping in a bedroom the size of a jail cell and having to flush the toilet by pouring a bucket of water into it!

She was tired of having to live on what can be described as a soup cracker budget when she really had a taste for a caviar lifestyle! She was going to do what ever it took to get out of Springville no matter the cost and when I walked into my brothers home on December 2nd of 1990 I became her way out!

The following Monday she showed up at the brothers house at eight thirty in the morning. She wasn't there to see him. She said she wanted to see me. She used sex to get her foot into the door. A couple of days after I returned to Clarksville Indiana where I was living at the time she called me from a pay phone in Springville crying saying that she missed me. This woman was so intoxicated I told her to go home and I would call her later in the week. The next week she called me again from a pay phone, but this time she wasn't calling me from Springville. She was in Clarksville about a mile from my apartment!

Now you have to ask yourself? What kind of person quits their job and packs their car and drives 450 miles to be with a man they hardly knew? She knew what she was doing and if I wasn't going to ask her to come she was going to invite herself!

Now, to gain my sympathy she was going to have to come up with a pretty amazing story and boy did she ever. She told me a man by the name of Bobby Slaughter was beating and stalking her and she had to do something to get away from him. She seemed sincere enough so I decided to let her into my apartment. I was taking a huge risk by doing this because I was in the U.S. Coast Guard at the time and the government was paying for my apartment. It is against the uniform code of military justice to live with a woman you are not married to and you certainly can not allow someone you are not married to, to reside with you in military housing!

Things went well and we had what I could describe as a normal relationship. I decided to leave the Coast Guard and return to civilian life. Then she started ranting about when we are going to get married. She went on and on about it and I finally gave in and married her on February 28th of 1993. That was the biggest mistake of my life.

Soon after that's when the accusations of infidelity started. Any woman that I came into contact with she would get this dirty look on her face and on most occasions she would tell me, you want to f**k her don't you? If you can look at women then I can look at men. When we were in Springville at my brothers house he showed me a playboy magazine and she went crazy and ran out of the house and sped out of the driveway! She put string or tape over a box I had of playboy magazines and when she discovered I had opened the box she said to me, why don't you just masterbate to them because that is the only way you are ever going to get it! She would get mad constantly asking me where I was going and who was I going to see. On one occasion I remember it so clearly because it shocked the hell out of me was when I went to the front door and when I started to open it she slammed it shut and said, you are not going anywhere!

I do not remember when the woman named Melanie came into our lives, but just like Julia once Julia let her into our apartment I could not get her to leave. What kind of woman allows another woman to lay in her bed? What kind of woman allows another woman to go with us everywhere we went? She goes into a rage when her husband speaks or looks at another woman, but allows this woman to come into our home as if she lived there.

The attention started to switch from me to this woman. The accusations slowly began to stop. She stopped asking me where I was going. She was always going in and out of the apartment with this

woman. Then something strange happened. When Meliane was sleeping in our living room I wanted to make love to Julia and she pulls the top mattress off of the bed! Then when her mother visited us we were in a cracker barrel and she looked at me and said, when we move back to Alabama what is Meliane going to do?

That was the final straw. A co worker at Jewish Hospital listened to my story and he told me about a crisis hotline in the phone book. He said there you can get an unbiased opinion. I saw in the phone book there was a gay and l*****n hotline. I called the number and explained to a counselor what I was going through. When I asked what kind of woman am I married to the reply was, not a straight one!

That's when I decided I wanted her out of my life. I knew if I filed for a divorce with nothing but my word I would get screwed in the long run. I fell in love with another woman and in front of Julia I called her on the phone and told her how I felt and when I get out of this marriage we can be together. That had no effect on Julia at all!

Soon after that she started to makes attempts to provoke me into a physical confrontation. I knew what she was trying to do! If she could get evidence that I was getting physical with her that would be enough to land me in jail. She would run up to me on many occasions with some type of foreign object in her hand. I wound turn around and start to walk away and she would grab me from behind. Not knowing if she had something in her other hand I would extend my arms out towards her in an attempt to get away.

On December the 28th 1995 we were in a local sports bar in Louisville. When she went outside to smoke I overheard her bad mouthing me to some people so I decided to leave. I went down the alley and she ran up behind me and grabbed me. I pushed her to get away and I began to run. As she was chasing me I managed to get inside the car and I tried to drive away. She forced herself into the car and I used my arm to push her away from me. Once she got into the car I jumped out while the car was still moving just to get away from her!

While I was in Alabama in May of 1996 I was visiting her mother. Now, we didn't really see eye to eye on a lot of issues, but I found it rather odd when she asked me if I was beating Julia? Now, If I had a daughter and she said her husband was beating her I would have went off of the deep end! Her mother didn't. In fact she was very calm about it. When I asked her why she would ask me a question like that all she said was Julia says that you are.

When I returned to Clarksville Julia had left and took half of the funds out of the bank and half of the items out of the apartment. I was so happy! I called all of my friends and we had a bowling party the following weekend! I confronted Julia at a apartment complex in Louisville because she took some family

items that have been passed down in my family for generations. When I told my father what she had done he wept! That is an indicator on how cold this woman really is!

On June 2nd of 1996 we both went before a judge in Louisville and he issued an restraining order, but he said he was only doing it on the side of caution, not because I was guilty. I informed the judge that

I was leaving the state and moving to Alabama because Julia keeps harassing me at my home and my job. I told him it got so bad that I was sleeping in different friends homes just to get a decent nights rest!

Then Julia jumped up and said to the judge, my lawyer says he can not quit his job because I have diabetes and my employer doesn't provide insurance! The judge said he could not prevent me from leaving and when I told him I would be gone on June the 13th he said, have a pleasant trip! That brought a big smile to my face. She said to me that I was not going to get away with it!

On the day I was to leave I called my attorney to tell her my intentions. That is when she dropped a huge bomb on me. She said, your wife Julia took the Toyota and wrecked it and told the Louisville police that I tried to kill her. With my attorneys consent I left for Alabama that morning.

You would think being close to five hundred miles away from this woman I would be safe, but that was not the case. One morning when I returned home from work I found the name of her employer on my caller I.D. My new girlfriend called the number and in front of me told Julia to stop harassing me and to leave us alone. She told me Julia said she will stop at nothing to get me. That was in July of 1996.

For ten years it was uneventful. Then one morning when I decided to google my name I was shocked on what I had seen. Nine years after the fact she is still trying to convince everyone that I was abusive and she even claimed that I was a homosexual! It is sad and pathetic that after nine years she is still mad that I wasn't arrested or convicted of something that she couldn't prove.

I do know if I had remained in Clarksville Indiana something serious would have happened to me. I feared for my safety. Now it's not just my word, her own actions on the internet have proven what I have said all along.

If she wanted to be left alone, telling my wife those very words after she confronted her on Facebook about what she posted about me then I would have left her alone. It's obvious her obsession wouldn't stop an that is why I am posting this.

Even after all of the hell she has put me through the thought of doing what she did to me never crossed my mind. I decided to let it go and move on.  It's obvious that is a lesson she never learned. She is he most evil, the most decifitful woman that I have ever known.