Private
North Carolina,#2Author of original report
Thu, December 09, 2010
With all honesty ,although things have been distant and difficult for sometime, Working on Mending and Repairing Relationship and God has brought in light and healing to not harbor negative thoughts and feelings for anything that can not be undone, but can only move forward with love, understanding and forgiveness and breaking cycles to be better examples and to be better parents and set examples to children of love, understanding, and forgiveness, and that once children are grown, they might not forget, but they become stonger and to love the next generation no matter how long it takes them to grow into beautiful mature adults and it takes parent(s) to see and reap the fruits of labor as parent(s) one day. Always be there to love them, have open arms for them anytime needed, rather to talk, cry, laugh, spend time together or just to listen, encourage, help however and whereever can, and always leave the door open to them so they will always have a place to call home and feel comfortable and be told and shown everyday you love them no matter how old. In the end, Its all about Family and closeness, beacuse in the end, thats all that matters and the legacy of how we loved our children throughout life to continue to the next generation long after we parish. Always have faith in God and he will heal old wounds to make us wiser and stronger human beings for his own plans for each of us and who we are or become, I was taught as a child NOT the above values, but those of Gods plans and life experiences that lead me to the above family and parenting values I have today, but growing up, I was taught not to take crap from anyone, not even myself, not to back down from anything I believe in, and to plow through difficult times, keep my chin up and to respect and love myself. She is still my mother and the only mother I have ever known, although she is not perfect, no one is, not even myself, nobody comes with instruction manuals attached for life, God made it that way for a reason, Unique Individuals God created for his own reasons and plans. Something to think about.......
GOD BLESS