Complaint Review: (((NAME(S) REDACTED DUE TO PERCEIVED HARASSMENT / CYBERSTALKING / CYBERBULLYING / REVENGE POST))) - Internet

As an American it seems to me that women in the UK who aren't slimsize 6-8, but large size  12, 14, face  an unfortunate reality:

FEW guys prefer large women.
MANY guys won't date a woman unless she is slim size 6-8, not even UK10.
MOST guys will tolerate (They may tolerate it, but they sure don't like it. I know, because I've heard what thousands of men have said when women aren't around.) some extra fat on their partner if:
1. They're not so hot themselves.
2. The woman gave birth to his child (or children).
3. He's married to the woman, and deeply loves her or isn't in the mood for shopping for another wife.
4. The woman is elderly, and for medical reasons cannot exercise (however, from a medical standpoint just about everyone would be better off slim).
As a general rule, guys with more to offer are more selective in choosing a partner, and guys with less to offer are less selective. Therefore, women who aren't slim, would never admit that they are fat. Size 6-8 is slim, more than this is FAT.

Look, I know the pain of being fat and I understand that your angriness in the letters above is only your insecurity. It's nuts to think that women will ever stop salivating over rich guys, and it's also nuts to expect men to stop chasing after slim beauties. Evidently you believe that there is an inverse correlation between slimness and sanity. I know of no such association. In fact, judging from my years of ER experience, I know that fat women are more likely to be nuts than slim women. Hence, I'm not tempted by the prospect of dating a fat  or insecure woman.

If a man who bedded you called you fat and ugly, you are fat and ugly for him. Some men are too polite to upset, but trust me, they dont like fat, cellulite, stretch marks, and saggy parts of womens body even if you would call it curves. They see  size 6-8 beauties in magazines, Playboy, TV and wish to be someone small, pretty and sexy. They dont want to be with a women who looks like a transvestite, who is  tall, fat, with big hands and large feet, and who calls herself a beauty only because she is insecure, deluded or desperate.  

Sir,

You are quite right but the abusive rep[ort was written by my ex-boyfriend Stephen Freak and he is BRITISH. The link he posted is about a decade old and has never been removed from when I was a callgirl and I didn't even post it or do the write up - that was done by an escort agency. I won't apologise for what I had to do to bring up a child - there were circumstances that gave me little choice that I do not wish to bring up on here. Unfortunately, I met hiim in April 2006 and had approx 3yr relationship with him which was incredibly abusive and I left him with the clothes on my back and he had NOTHING taken from him and was never scammed - I went into the relationship with the money I had from selling my house and invested it into OUR relationship, non of which he gave back to me when I said I was going to leave. This was fine, I just had to get away BUT since leaving him and for an ENTIRE year, he has posted things ALL over the internet including pictures, claiming that I am an escort and warning everyone to stay away from me. I doubt he will stop, he wasn't and still isn't well... The other postings are almost identical to this...he isn't letting go.

Before I left him in Novemebr 2008 (I had to stay with him when we broke up until I found a way to leave without finances), I did do a profile on suggardaddie.com in the hope of finding someone for a 'mutual arrangement' until I could get away and get back on my own two feet which I did not hide from him when he asked about what I was doing when he saw it on my PC screen. Four VERY good friends put money together and got kid and me out of there. They put up rent and deposit for a place for three months and then I met someone (Mr L.W. and NON sexual friendship), who I will be grateful to for the rest of my life, on the site who helped me for 2 months to get back on my feet until I found a job. After which, all help and counselling came from Sutton Christian Centre (Sutton. Surrey, UK) from the Pastor and his wife who I am still extremely close to.

I met and was pursued by an extremely special and wonderful man for a while but told him that I was rather damaged by the previous relationship and needed time despite the feelings I had for him BUT he stayed fast and stood by me for a long time, we dated and finally married on May 9th 2010... This latest posting which I understand is permenant, came around the time that Steve would have found out that we were engaged that is another story) but I have only just seen the posting when a friend alerted me to it 2 days ago.

By the way, I am DEFINATELY NOT fat (something that he insists on posting everywhere due to an operation I had - which he paid for in Shirley Oaks hospital - to remove something which was causing me to miscarry our babies), I put on a little weight as a result of the major operation but not as he described but soon lost any excss, I am very slim, NO HOOKED NOSE WHICH COINCIDENDENTALLY, HE GENUINELY DOES HAVE and if I do look like a transvestite, I have never been told this before but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the man I married is extremely fussy, gorgeous, successful and a real ball buster - he suffers no fools and would not have married me if he believed anything that this guy wrote, HE HAD ME CHECKED OUT AFTER READING SOME OF THE THINGS Steve had written on the internet - this hurt when he told me that he had me checked out but it is understandable given the circumstances... Steve knew I suffered from severe depression and became Agoraphobic as a result of my experiences as an callgirl and what had happened with Peter Lee - which I most certainly did not report as I knew nothing about it until Durham Fraud Squad came to tell me what he had done and I earned NO money from giving any stories as I wouldn't speak to anyone, although I was pressured to make a statement to a well known newspaper or they would write whatever they wanted to about me anyway, as they said...and they did - which of course, he knows too. He used everything that I had told him in the confidence of who I thought was a trustworthy person and plastered twisted and pretty messed up distortions of what I had told him to keep me from ever meeting anyone else.

I have done NOTHING at all bad or wrong to him EXCEPT leave!!

Sorry for wasting your time guys, I really am not as he has stated here nor have I done anything that he has said here - sorry to disappoint and you may believe as you wish, I am just so tired of it and wasted far too many tears.

Best wishes....

I THINK YOU GUYS ARE FROM ENGLAND OR CANADA OR SOMEPLACE WHERE YOU PEOPLE NOT ONLY GET RIPPED OFF BUT YOU ALSO GET SPINDLED, FOLDED, SPECTACULARLY ROBBED AND MESS UP TO BOOT.

BASED ON WHAT I HAVE SEEN IN THE RIP OFF REPORT, IF I EVER WANTED TO BE A CON MAN AND MAKE A TON OF CASH, I WOULD SET UP SHOP IN THE UK. YOU PEOPLE FALL FOR ANYTHING ---FAKE FORTUNE TELLERS, FAKE CHECK LAUNDERING SCHEMES AND NOW..."ROMANCE" ON THE INTERNET.

I AM LAUGHING TOO AT THE CRAZINESS THAT PEOPLE THINK THEY ARE GOING TO FIND LOVE ON THE INTERNET. THIS IS JUST A TV SET WITH A KEYBOARD ATTACHED OR MAYBE IT IS BECAUSE I HAVE SUCH A DIFFICULT TIME TYPING THAT I DON'T THINK MUCH ABOUT WHAT IS GOING TO BE ON  THE OTHER END.

HERE IN THE GOOD OLD US OF A, A SUGAR DADDY IS A MAN, USUALLY A MUCH OLDER MAN WHO MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE "SPECIAL NEEDS"--IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THAT EXPLAINED, YOU REALLY ARE TOO DUMB TO USE THE SITE---AND IS WILLING TO SPEND BIG BUCKS TO SOME YOUNG LADY, USUALLY A HOOKER, A w***e OR A MISTRESS, TO MEET THOSE NEEDS.

ALSO, IN EXCHANGE, HE CAN PAY HER APARTMENT RENT, BUY HER CLOTHES AND JEWELRY AND EXPENSIVE LUXURY CARS...UNTIL HE DIES AND WHEN HIS FAMILY FIND OUT ABOUT HER --SHE CAN BE KILLED. FOR SURE, UNLESS HE LEFT AN AIRTIGHT WILL AND FEATURED HER IN IT, SHE LOSES IT ALL AND HAS TO START OVER WITH ANOTHER SUGAR DADDY IF SHE IS NOT TOO OLD.

A SUGAR DADDY HERE IS CONSIDERED SOMEWHAT OF A MORON WHO KNOWS HE IS BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BUT SHELLS OUT THE BIG BUCKS ANYWAY.

AND HERE, WE KNOW THAT WOMAN WHO ARE LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DADDY ARE WHORES, CALL GIRLS,STRIPPERS, EXOTIC DANCERS...

NOW WHAT WERE YOU EXPECTING TO FIND ON THE INTERNET --LOVE ETERNAL, MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN AND ALL OF THE FAMILY STUFF.

ON THE SUGARDADDY SITE?????????

YOU GOT TO BE KIDDING!

I MEAN, YOU PEOPLE FROM THE UK OR WHEREVER HAVE TO BE KIDDING, RIGHT?

STAY OFF THE INTERNET UNTIL YOU ALL GET " COUNTRY CLEVER AND STREET SMART."

NO KIDDING.

YOU CAN'T EVER TELL WHO IS REALLY ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THAT COMPUTER.

JUST BECAUSE SOMETHING IS ON THE COMPUTER DOES NOT MAKE IT SO.

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I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW YOU PEOPLE FALL FOR THE MOST RIDICLIOUS NONSENSE.

... I have a good idea who wrote this but I did not meet him on sugardaddy website, the ex-boyfriend  -  (the site, which by the way, I had left at the end of 2008). I don't know why you would write something like this as I know that I haven't dated spoken to anyone for a 3 week period and then met - especially any Americans or Canadian. I have been married for quite some time now and don't know why anyone would feel the need to spend a good period of time of their valuable time writing such a thing on the internet about me.

I have not, best to my knowledge done any wrong to you or anyone else for that matter although, I did fall in with the wrong individuals from time to time. I have NEVER EVER stolen from anyone at all...ever....nor have I ripped you or anyone else off for that matter.

I am a size 12 in size (far from fat in any way)and fed up of you - and I do know who you are - taking every opportunity to write obscenities about me online. Most sensible normal and balanced people walk away and get on with their lives after a break up but unfortunately, noone knows what type of person they are getting involved with until it is too late. If you persist, I will name you FULLY on here - I would not and will not disclose anything personal about you, as you now, I am NOT that kind of a person. Just grow up and sort out your issues whatever they may be.

I stopped being an escort almost 10yrs ago and NEVER went back to it and I HAVE NEVER EVER ASKED ANYONE TO PAY ME FOR SEX at all this year, last year or at any time at all over the past decade. I would NEVER and I most certainly don't need to. Please give this up and live a happy and better life than one that drives you to do such things as what you have done here. What is wrong with you?

Free plate of food and accomodation??? I do work hard and have a great and loving husband who has helped me through the real damage that you had caused through your other postings on the internet. YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN RIPPED OFF BY ME NOR HAVE I EVER TAKEN ANY MONEY FROM YOU but you are seemingly very bitter about my finding peace or happiness with someone and won't move on..

I sincerely wish only wonderful things for you. Be happy. God bless.