I have been a paying customer of lifeout for 5 years. I recently was accused of being a fake. The company requested a proof or salute. I promptly provided the proof and was approached with an even more condescending tone. This company has gone from 80k hits to 20k hits in the last year. As a social site it provides a valuable service and they appear to be having problems. I find numerous reports of similar corporate misconduct. This is a small Ohio company, catering to a homosexual clientele, it would be great for them to return to more responsible customer service. T. Alex Montery, CA