Freda
Carson,#2Consumer Comment
Tue, September 27, 2005
iam 19 years i have been abused by my mother which is a longshoremen employed with ILWU WILMINGTON/SAN PEDRO. she aslo tried to have me falsely arrested. she clamied to be a ederly woman with cancer. and she's really 45 years old with scar tissue. i been through foster care. home to home. she has jepordized my jobs and places to stay and she tried to jepordize my realtionship with my fiance by telling my that he sreaded lies about me and he was sleeping around, note he's 26 years i was 17. we was separted for two years, he was assualted and almost killed because of the lies she told. i was pregnant with his child, stress caused me to lose the baby.now we are back together and trying to move out of california. and my mother contuines to lie. i gave her 1000 dollars in rent/food/etc and she threw me out into the streets in downtown los angeles last year. i know what you mean i wish you the best of luck because i know how hard it is when someones lie ruins your life
Corinna
Ickesburg,#3Consumer Comment
Mon, March 03, 2003
I can relate to your abusive story. I was also a child who has been abused both mentally and physically. Even though you are in a really terrible situation...please try to remember that this is what she wants. For whatever reason, your mother is very unhappy about herself, and who she has become (as she should be),being unhappy, she is not handling this in the correct manner. She should be giving you the love and support that you deserve, however, she isn't, she's instead turning on you, and trying to lower your self esteme to make herself feel better. She obviously isn't mature and she shouldn't have the pleasure of being your parent. You are too good for that, and no matter what she may tell you, just know that you're beautiful inside and always display respect and manners and you can go very far in your life. Good ridens to mom, your better off without her. Make your life better and move on, that is what you need to do for yourself. It's the only chance you've got.