Are You Kidding Me?
Honolulu,#2Consumer Comment
Sun, May 11, 2008
Lately we're getting a lot of online harassment, fake posts etc. with completely false information. My cousin Sylvia gets to town, befriend's my ex wife and suddenly all these posts appear. I have no idea of whether the info on the child's bio father is true, but I can report that at no such time in Hawaii did I meet this person. I met one person in El Paso many years ago who worked with my ex, however I'm not divulging info. I have noted several people stalking our My Space profiles though, sometimes 9-10 times per DAY. We didn't pay attention to this until my exs eldest daughter did something and cops visited their home. After that my profile was hit hundreds of times by people in El Paso, Dallas, Irving, San Antonio, Boynton Beach. All places my ex has affiliations. Since last year it has not stopped and got to the point where I've had to make my profile private and my wife/her friends who are also stalked are getting off of My Space entirely. My cousin Sylvia who should have no business or opinion in any of my private life took it upon herself to send me rude emails with hearsay from my ex, name calling, verbal assault which in itself is a crime. She was asked to cease contact and then the stalking moved to My Space where she had the nerve to post that even though she was stalking, she didn't like what my wife and her friends talked about. She conciously logged in and located my wife, Sylvia and my ex's IP addresses were logged there on a regular basis, not the other way around. Our profiles were public, my cousin Sylvia's mysteriously is private. It's kind of obvious who the troublemaker here is - or one at least. All stalking comes from IP's in the above mentioned areas and traces to homes using Road Runner and SW Bell. Sylvia recently took it upon herself to post untrue and defamatory things about my wife, (whom she's never met) that she's bipolar which is beyond sickening. Sylvia also mentions hearsay about my alleged past sex life which no one has any info on other than b.s. my ex is obsessed with. An ex who ran off 10 years ago for another man, an ex I was glad to get rid of. I've had my credit ruined by the ex, she stole checks from my Father, there's a police report on her in El Paso. She and Sylvia attack people who've done them NO wrong, like my father who financed a car for Kim that she later totaled in a hit and run. Like attacking my wife, when neither of these women even know her. We're SICK OF IT. This post is just more evidence that I have to babysit these women, their co-horts whomever. I've had several jealous obsessive nutjob ex girlfriends which was the result of me being too nice and overlooking people's flaws. My wife and I are happily married, we have zero contact with these people and cannot believe the far-fetched sh*t being posted, from my wife being bipolar, to my sexcapades, to the worst of all, my cousin posting names and address of totally innocent people in California just because they have similar names. Granted the court record for my wife in Texas is the wrong SSN and wrong info, however that's the court's mistake and not our problem. The people in CA are now going to report to Ft. Bliss military because Sylvia is a bored military wife who posted untruths about others. For what? a cheap thrill? My life past and present is none of Sylvia's business and again, ironic all these things happen when she gets back into town on her high horse, spewing hate at everyone. We are in contact with NO one but close friends in El Paso. I've been accused of sending mail to people when I don't even have their addresses. Junkmail and spam get blamed on us, everything is "read into" which is the paranoid crap my ex did. It's neurotic, obsessive and these women seriously need to get help. If people get junkmail, do what we do and toss it out. We got my ex's mail and bills for years because she refused to pay bankruptcy, we simply threw things out. I'm beginning to believe everyone involved here is jobless, bored and just plain jealous that I left the town. The majority of people back there are drug users, drinkers and it's understandable they think I'm a snob now because I moved away and got on with my life. The women are doing anything they can think of to turn my wife against me, which shows exactly what their mentality is. These posts don't bother me much, my real friends know who I am. If family wants to believe crap, then that's their choice. Now people realize why we HAD to move away from that place and cut all contact. As a computer tech I can easily find out where the post came from but they often originate in Texas but go through proxies in the Southwest. This rebuttal serves to render this post as FALSE and if Savannah wants to talk to me later on in life, she can do it on her own. She's denied phone numbers, lied to etc. which is par for the course with what's being done to us. When Kim/Sylvia/whatever nutcases are out there are done playing, I have a real website where you can contact me. I'd rather you not reach me at my Yahoo address because that's when I get a ton of attachments from my ex, get her aol viruses and end up getting mailed forged crap. My wife and I are GONE, stop stalking us, stop posting things or I'll file criminal charges. From all the stalking, I can tell someone's doing their homework on a few details and probably getting info from our profiles, from my one worksheet request (posted here) which is the only legit post by Shannon Gilmore on my behalf. Anything else is sheer garbage.
Robert
Buffalo,#3Consumer Suggestion
Tue, October 16, 2007
You wrote: ""I am a friend of Ray's from a long time ago too."" This entire matter is between the mother, father and child. You should mind your own business! This child is very likely going to have emotional issues because of this situation (as many children of divorce do) and you posting this on the internet is not going to help in any way. Also, don't you know that most children have an "unconditional love" for their parents? Bad mouthing the mother as you have done most likely is NOT going to endear the child to you or the father. Rather, the child may well come to resent you're meddling - especially by posting private family matters all over the internet. You're meddling is likely to cause the child MORE problems rather than help things. You need to back off and let these folks handle their own affairs. You may not like what they are doing or how they are handling it, but you have NO RIGHT to butt in and make this child's situation public on the internet. In all likelihood you have made a difficult situation worse! What do you think the mother's reaction to this will be, eh? Whom do you think she might take her anger out on? What a bout the child's reaction? What about friends of the child who might read this? I went thru a nasty divorce back in 1978 and I can say from experience that what you have done here is appalling to me. I took the high rode and never bad mouthed my ex. It seems clear to me that you really haven't thought about the child's welfare or you wouldn't have posted this stuff. If you have a valid concern, call CPS and leave it at that! You obviously have no respect for the child's privacy or concern for the child's emotional well being or you wouldn't have posted this. Go back to what ever life you have and mind your own business. Shame on you!
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El Paso,#4Author of original report
Mon, October 15, 2007
Important note: CPS of Texas did call Ray the alleged father but there's little he can do to help the poor kid. Pics surfaced on the internet of Ashley the older sister's partying, beer in hand, just like Mom. Guests at the house were underage. Still a mystery who contacted CPS but obviously other people see what's going on. If Kim reads this she will may come up with a fantastic great sounding response as do all con-artists and addicts. Ah, the usual deadbeat Dad story, some old DUI story, let's see. The overly mature tired older woman banter of how her ex is a "nut-job" and he needs to "get a life" or her best one since she cannot have kids anymore is "go procreate and leave us alone" Ray has been busy and would never have time to post, so his friends are. None of us could stand Kim as it was, and the child of hers deserves to know what's going on. Meanwhile Kim is home drinking her 12-pack of beer and Hater-Ade chasers, full ashtray on the desk, joint in left hand, mouse in right. It's so predictable and sad. The woman will never apologize or admit wrong, she'll deny things to your face, to a cop, a judge etc. She will never admit a mistake and simply apologize to her own child for messing up the kid's life. Her only topic when contacting Ray is literally "money, where's my money, you owe me money, get your wife to send me money" Which leads many to believe Savannah should spell her name $avannah with a dollar sign. As it is the police Sgt in Keller Texas had to track Kim down and question is, why are you running and hiding if you're telling the truth? Actions speak louder than lies. com has had visitation worksheets up that Kim has had since 2004 and refuses to fill out. She also won't share an insurance declaration of benefits yet she wants her ex to pay her daughter's insurance too, because Savannah's a burden. Kim wants cash, not a policy and quoted several different amounts that she wanted her ex to send. She refused his insurance, yet lies to the court and says he never offered. She got a check for $4500 she never cashed which makes no sense. Does Kim want money for this kid, is she using the kid just to harass her ex or what? God the things people do when they're angry at THEMSELVES! Poor Savannah. Any money sent will be spent. Savannah was told Ray sent her money and the child was surprised and almost in tears. She was told by Mommie Dearest that Ray sends her nothing, that he's poor and selfish. Unreal. Kim might have done better chasing the real father, maybe he had money and no back problem disability to deal with. Child Protective Services will probably end up there again, but Savannah will have to search for Ray on her own because her sister is useless as well as everyone else Kim has trained "not to talk" and never to give Savannah a way to reach Ray. Big drama over nothing. Kim needs to get a life really, before she ruins her daughter's.