Complaint Review: American Association for Nude Recreation - Kissimmee Florida

This complaint with AANR has been remedied and resolved. I no longer have an issue or complaint with AANR. They've been helpful in resolving my issue.

In June of 2009, I purchased an Associate membership with AANR while visiting a nudist resort. Basically I purchased it through the resort itself. When a customer visits a resort they ask if they would like to purchase an AANR membership. The receptionist then asks which package the customer would like and they generally handle this on the phone with an AANR representative. I was asked my age, and I let the representative know that I am a young adult single male.She informed me that my package and membership cardwould arrive in the mail withinalong with a nude newsletter within 7 business days. Now this story is about to take a turn, but what happened has to do with AANR. While I was visiting this resort, I noticed many members were in their 50's 60's 70's, and a few women in their late 40's. There were no young adults there. So I asked a man in his 50's if there were many young adult females that visit often. He responded "some, but why do you ask?" I replied "well I'd like to meet one and get to know her." He then said " This isn't the place to come to look for women. You need to bring a girl with you, if you wanna have some fun." Ithought to myself.. "Okay I thought this wasn't a swingers club, and what did he mean by fun? The older adults were playing outdoor games(horseshoes) and I asked if I could play a few games with them. A man in his 60's yelled to the older adult players, "okay we got us a kid who wants to play so y'all mind your p's and q's and no sex talk." Well apparently the older men and women didn't want a kid there so they drove off on their golf carts. Later there was a dance in one of the buildings. I sat there through about two hours of boredom and listening to music from the 50's and 60's when finally a couple of women in their late 40's but still very pretty, began dancing. They asked the DJ there to play a song and it just happened to be a dance song from the early 2000's. The women began dancing, like bump and grind, dip, and gettin lowkind of dancing. Now keep in mind these women were naked, and so was I. After a few songs, they came over to where I was sitting and took my hand and made a motion for me to dance with them. So I did. As we began dancing one of the women got in front of me and the other got behind me andwhispered to each other"let's get him!" They then began rubbing up and down on me with their bodies and I became excited. I didn't think there was anything wrong with it. After all we were all naked, I was so wrong. I was about be so humiliated and I didn't even see it coming. After dancing, I was told by an older woman in her 60's"If that happens again young man, you're going to the office!" I asked what do you mean?" Then an older man whispered "erection". I was so humiliated and embarrassed at the same time! Now I know what those women were trying to do, otherwise they wouldn't have said "Let's get him." Well the excitement did happen again and again, but I was less obvious about it. I took a walk over to the pool area and another older man was there and we began talking. He asked me if I were still in high school. I told him that I was a student in college. He replied "Oh that's great!" He then asked me if I would like to take a walk with him. I said sure. We began walking and he invited to his tent for a drink. He then did somthing that would bring nightmares to me along with feelings of remorse and depression. He reached down and touched me in my private area, and asked if I like it. I replied "Uhhhh...I have to go check something. He then said "Look uhh, you do know what happens here at this resort stays here right?" I said "yeah sure" and walked quickly back to my cabin. Once inside I closed the door and began crying. I couldn't believe how I had been treated there so far and humiliated and sexually harassed all in the same night. I would have left but I had a few drinks so I stayed the night. The next morning as I walked to breakfast, I noticed a newwoman showedthere who was nice looking, about early to mid forties so I began talking to her. We began walking and talking, and I invited her to my cabin. As we were walking back to my cabin, and older man about 60 or so followed us. As we were walking the woman touched my butt and I became excited again. The older man continued to follow us and took a pic with his cell phone.We went back to my cabin and talked and had a good time. Sheleft back to her cabin after about two hours.The next morning I got up expecting to see her againbut instead I was met by two men in their 60's and 70's who told me to pack up and leave. I asked why?One of the older men replied "too many complaints about your behavior andwomen have noticed you get aroused too easily." I said"what?"One of the other men said "We alsogot a report that you made a sexualoffer to another man. " Ireplied angrily"I did not!" I'm not even gay!" They then told me that If I didn't leave within ten minutes that I would be escorted off the grounds by the local police. I angrily but quickly walked into my cabin and packed up. Just before I left, I was told to sign a document stating that I was told to leave and that I would be added to the "Do not admit list". As I was leaving some of the women and older male members laughed. I was so upset, angry, humiliatedand confused all at the same time! After I left, I filed a police report to the local police department about the sexual harassment by the older man. The police department wasn't even aware that there was a nudist resort in their county. I also sent AANR a detailed email stating what I experienced and witnessed at the resort. I called them and asked them if they received the email, from which they replied "yes we did and we will investigate this and get back to you." About a month or so later, I received a letter from AANR saying that my membership had been cancelled due to inappropriate behavior and refusal to cover my erections. I was like "what?" I then called AANR and explained to them what happened once again and was told "Well some of those resorts and clubs are owned by private individuals and they have the right to refuse or grant access to anyone they wish." I then asked what about the membership I purchased? They told me that they would send me a refund.. Of course weeks and months went by without anything arriving in the mail from AANR. I was lied to, scammed, humiliated, sexually harassed, assaulted, threatened, and emotionallywounded by these people who call themselves "nudists"! AANR is basically comprised of members who are stakeholders for there clubs, resorts and other affiliates. It seems mostmembers who are young adult males are discriminated against. They advertise that nudism is for all ages, but in truth and from my experience it's just not true. From my experience it seemed that the resort only catered to oldermen and women who are mostly retired.They had no regards to how they treated me. They didn'tseem to care that I was humiliated,and embarrassed by the erection comments.AANR didn't take me seriously when I emailed them my complaint, so I letting everyone know about it.What they did to me and how they treated me, was malicious,and cruel and ifthe only way to get revenge is tomake it public, that's enough for me. At least I will be saving someone else from the pain, suffering and trauma that I've experienced within thepastyear and half.