Complaint Review: Brian Kresefsky - Hillsborough New Jersey

they are superficial, immature, mamma's boy usually who have a screw loose and they like to manipulate women because it makes them feel powerful. Many of them are psychopaths. I am a guy and I hear them talk about women. I feel sorry for women. They are much more honorable than men. Players are a goal to be aspired to in Hispanic,African American, many Native American cultures and some Anglo MALE groups. They all get married early, have as many kids as they can with that one, then when they have worn her out, they get the girl friend on the side and then as many other women as they can conquer. And until the child support enforcement beacme stricter, they liked to see how many kids they could have with each woman. That was a badge of distinction and honor too. The fact that he was only seeing you on the weekend should have been a clue. Somewhere on the internet, there is a list of how to tell if a man or a spouse or husband is unfaithful. It is right on. Read it and take it to heart because it is all true.

As I read this article about Brian, I could swear that I wrote this!! I was sick to my stomach to think he's done exactly the same thing with me that he did with other women. He makes a woman feel special. Like it's just him and her. We "dated" or whatever you call it, for over 2 years. I talked to him on February 14th 2005, yes Valentines Day, and I just knew something was not right. I asked him if he still wanted to see me and he said, "I wasn't sure how to tell you. I don't think so. I think we're looking for 2 different things!" I asked him what he thought I was looking for and you know what? He couldn't answer me. We had never really discussed long term what we wanted. I thought we just had a good time hanging out, talking on the phone, etc. He would invite me over to his house and yes, we'd look at his record collection, photographs he took and have a nice time. No pressure. He'd even come over here and met my kids. We even went to Atlantic City a few times. So yes, I thought there might be something more than that but obviously I was wrong. Anyway after he said that to me on the phone, I blew up! I called him every name in the book (yes women can be psycho..lol). I told him he was immature and if he couldn't be honest with me than that was something I didn't need. After hanging up, I of course, cried for days. 2 years is a long time to put into a relationship, whatever it may be. I didn't hear from him for 2 years, yet lo and behold New Years Day of 2007 my phone rang and guess whose number came up??? Yep, Brians!!! Of course, my heart skipped a beat. We talked for quite a while and he said he missed me (for 2 years, whatever!). Then he asked why "I" was so mean to him when I yelled at him on the phone. I asked him if he was kidding? He said, no I never heard you like that. I told him because he broke my heart and wasn't honest with me. We talked for a while longer and he asked if he could come over. Just to visit and talk. Stupid me didn't see a problem with it. SOMEONE SMACK ME PLEASE!! Anyway about an hour later he came over. We just hung out. Nothing special until he walked into my kitchen to get a drink and on his way back, he stops and kisses me. What the hell!! I didn't respond like I would have liked to. Believe me. We watched TV then he left a few hours later. That was it. I did email him about a week later and he actually responded saying that he just got a job in Ewing (yeah right) and would be in contact. That was it!!!! NOTHING ELSE. I have a few choice words I would like to say but won't. I'm too mature for that. I wish I could get in touch with the woman who wrote the initial Ripoff Report. If you're out there (pussnboots) contact me!! I see we have alot in common!! SO WOMEN BEWARE!!! DO NOT DATE A GUY NAMED BRIAN KRESEFSKY IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP....YOU'LL NEVER HAVE ONE WITH HIM!

Buddy, Yes there was one night that I called him repeatedly and this was the evening when I told him I didn't want to or could be with him any more. I was calling him back on that night only to see if he was sincere because he is the one who kept saying that evening that this is not what he wants. He wanted to be fiends and to still be able to talk as well. Yeah imagine that?.lol Then that is when had the nerve to try and make me feel bad by calling me selfish. It wasn't nothing more then me trying to see if he was truly sincere and wanted us to remain or if he was just a true jer* that up and leaves or moves and ditches his so called friends because 30 or 40 miles is to far away and he obviously hasn't learned or figured out how to plan his schedule to include those that are supposed to be important to him.lol I agree with you about everything including him calling at a decent hour. There were a few times during the afternoon or morning where he would call for maybe ten minutes and he said he stopped home for lunch and wanted to say hi which I found considerate and thoughful of him or he was on his way out to work again. This happened maybe every two or three days for the whole month. It was these little five or ten minute calls during normal hours that I actually thought he was being sincere and just busy. This is when he would tell me that he will call me in the evening and when he did it was always after eleven or after midnight. The one night we talked for over six hours yes my longest telephone call indeed.lol I didn't mind at the time because I just fell for it and thought okay since he is a business owner maybe he is that busy and of course I couldn't really ask without sounding like I was prying into his personal affairs. He also is aware now that he may be a father and I may be pregnant. So this will be something very interesting in the next few days to come. What's done here is what's done and all I an doing is moving on and dealing with another lesson I learned. Regards

Several paragraphs refer to you calling him, one time "repeatedly" until he finally picked up the phone. Please, never do that to a guy. It is the most irritating thing on earth. If a guy wants to call you back, he will. He will also call you at a decent hour. He will also ask you out in advance. He will also take you out. If he's not doing any of these things, he is just not interested, and you should move on and find someone else who is interested. It's all a numbers game. Meet enough guys and you will find the one who is right for you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want you because all you do is grow older, and the one man who does want you and will give you what you want could be the "next" one. If you sense the slightest bit of rejection, just move on and find someone else.

Several paragraphs refer to you calling him, one time "repeatedly" until he finally picked up the phone. Please, never do that to a guy. It is the most irritating thing on earth. If a guy wants to call you back, he will. He will also call you at a decent hour. He will also ask you out in advance. He will also take you out. If he's not doing any of these things, he is just not interested, and you should move on and find someone else who is interested. It's all a numbers game. Meet enough guys and you will find the one who is right for you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want you because all you do is grow older, and the one man who does want you and will give you what you want could be the "next" one. If you sense the slightest bit of rejection, just move on and find someone else.

Several paragraphs refer to you calling him, one time "repeatedly" until he finally picked up the phone. Please, never do that to a guy. It is the most irritating thing on earth. If a guy wants to call you back, he will. He will also call you at a decent hour. He will also ask you out in advance. He will also take you out. If he's not doing any of these things, he is just not interested, and you should move on and find someone else who is interested. It's all a numbers game. Meet enough guys and you will find the one who is right for you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want you because all you do is grow older, and the one man who does want you and will give you what you want could be the "next" one. If you sense the slightest bit of rejection, just move on and find someone else.

Several paragraphs refer to you calling him, one time "repeatedly" until he finally picked up the phone. Please, never do that to a guy. It is the most irritating thing on earth. If a guy wants to call you back, he will. He will also call you at a decent hour. He will also ask you out in advance. He will also take you out. If he's not doing any of these things, he is just not interested, and you should move on and find someone else who is interested. It's all a numbers game. Meet enough guys and you will find the one who is right for you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want you because all you do is grow older, and the one man who does want you and will give you what you want could be the "next" one. If you sense the slightest bit of rejection, just move on and find someone else.

Several paragraphs refer to you calling him, one time "repeatedly" until he finally picked up the phone. Please, never do that to a guy. It is the most irritating thing on earth. If a guy wants to call you back, he will. He will also call you at a decent hour. He will also ask you out in advance. He will also take you out. If he's not doing any of these things, he is just not interested, and you should move on and find someone else who is interested. It's all a numbers game. Meet enough guys and you will find the one who is right for you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want you because all you do is grow older, and the one man who does want you and will give you what you want could be the "next" one. If you sense the slightest bit of rejection, just move on and find someone else.

Buddy, Your correct that I did meet him over the Internet and we did hang out a few times before our make out session. However no I never chased him or called him at all. He is the one who has a very busy schedule and he always called me and at his leisure is when he did and it just happened to be late each and every single night. If you read no he didn't dump me the next day in fact he poliety called the same day to ensure I got home okay. We did have plans to connect again after our make out session but thanks to this Jessie chick she is why these other plans never happened. I love to read have read my favorite book men are from mars and women are from venus and I will pick up a copy of that book you mentioned. Regards

Let's see if I have this right -- you met a man over the internet, talked to him a few times, agreed to meet him, went to his apartment for a make-out session, chased him mercilessly for weeks when it was OBVIOUS he didn't want to see you or talk to you; finally he spent the night with you once, dumped you politely the next day, still you called and called. 30 or 40 miles is nothing to a man in love, believe me. Plus, no man "has to get into the shower" when he's talking to someone he is interested in. I suggest that you put this behind you, and before you ever talk to another man, get a copy of the book "Maybe He's Just Not That Into You". It will save you days, months, weeks and maybe years of heartache. Men are flattered when they are "chased", but they do not fall in love with women who call them all the time and beg to see them.