WARNING !! This is a RIP-OFF REPORT ON A PHONY PREACHER, PHONY MINISTER, Sean Richard O'Hay. Sean Richard O'Hay was a phony friend to me, and has stolen a good and valuable 2000 Lincoln Town Car from me. SEAN RICHARD O'HAY lived in Tulsa, OK with his beautiful wife, whom he absolutely has crapped on, big time, has been unfaithful to his beautiful wife; has been a liar, a swindler, a cheat and a thief. For years SEAN RICHARD O'HAY had been talking with me about helping him form a ministry. I had told this man that I would be glad to bring my
considerable life experience, professional experience to bear on the problem, but, I also told him that I wanted him to some things to get the process started. I told him that to getr this process started, he would have to correct his educational defects, which were many, and he would have to STOP ABUSING ALCOHOL. I told him many, many times, that there would be nothing I could do for him, if he did not stop boozing. I told him that BOOZE and SUCCESS just do not mix. He ALWAYS told me: " I know I have to stop." I told him over and over again: " FACE UP TO IT, SEAN !!
You'll never amount to anything, if you don't stop !!!!
He and his magnificent wife moved from Tulsa, to Stuart, FL. He had some stupid fool story that he wanted to be closer to his folks ( Excuse me ? He had no use for his "folks" !!), and he told me that he "knew" he would "make it" in Stuart. Like hell
I knew that his incredible wife did not want to go, but I also knew that she was still playing the co-dependant game with Sean.
So, they moved. But, I warned Sean. I said, " I'll you exactly what is gonna happen. You'll get out there, and you'll get some dippy little job that pays ten or twelve bucks an hour, and you'll become a wage slave, and you will forget about any ministry."
His reply: He said: No!! That's not true. I'll go to work immediately on what I have to do."
So...what do you think happened? EXACTLY what I told him would happen: He got some dippy, worthless little job, and totally forgot about this ministry thing.
But, once, about every six months or so, he wopuld call me up, and say: " Buz, I want you to move out here with us, and help me put together a ministry."
It doesn't take a ROCKET SCIENTIST to see where all this is going. I told him: " Sean. It would take $10,000 dollars, if not more, to move out there. So, who is gonna put up the money to move me ? Cause it sure as heck isn't gonna be you, buddy."
Besides, which, he never did ANYTHING he pledged himself to do, in terms of self-improvement. NOTHING !!
They moved in 2002. So, in 2010, he calls me up, one day in late fall, and says, "Hey, Buzzy, I'm ready to get serious about this."
So, Sports Fans....we talk about this. And, talk. And, talk. And, I don't let this guy off the hook - and he STILL tells me he is TOTALLY serious about this Ministry.
So, one fine day he calls me, and he'e got tears in his eyes; the guy is shedding tears. He tells me he's got problems, and his life with R is over, she's done with him, and that he has lied his A** off to me continually for years about his "relation-ship with his wife."
Well- no kidding ? What's new ? He says that she has given him an ultimatum: shape up, or ship out. PERIOD. And, he's got another problem: He f'ing around with another woman.
WHAAAAT !?! Yeah ! He's ( our little minister-boy ) is playing hide - the - kielbasa with another empoyee where he works!
HOW STUPID !!!! I told him to stop, immediately, I don't care what. Stop the bulls***t. Now. And, oy yeh!! He's got another problem. His car is going away on him.
So, I have yet another talk with Sean. I told him I would lend him a car, IF:
one: He promises to stop boozing.
two: He promises to enroll on-line at a FLORIDA UNIVERSITY.
three: He gets SERIOUS about life, and the business of this Ministry.
I really didn't care what he did about having this STUPID little affair. If he wanted to handle his situation in that manner, what's it to me ? Nothing.
He told me that he was QUOTE: In the Ministry business.
YEP. OF COURSE.
So, he flew to Tulsa International, I picked him up, and we drove to my place in Grove, OK. We spent two solid days and nights talking. He looked me in the eye, Sports Fans, and MADE ME BELIEVE, that he was going to take me $ 9,000.00 (NINE THOUSAND DOLLARS), perfect, beautiful, luxurious, Lincoln Town Car, and do business !!!! He would re-invent himself !!
HE NEVER DID ANYTHING. I mean, nothing !!! He stayed on the booze, stayed in his stupid little affair, and did NOTHING to improve his condition; and did nothing to begin the process of beginning any kind of MINISTRY.
I lettered this con-man, and told him: Buddy, this jig is up. I am done with this bullsh**t, you can have it. And make arrange- ments to send my car back to me. He ignored me. ME!!!! IGNORED ME like I had the PLAGUE !!!
So, now, this punk is not only a rounder, and a liar, he is a THIEF. A GRIFTER. AND WORSE, A FRAUD WHO USED ALMIGHTY GOD TO CON AND STEAL.
Will I ever got paid back? Get my vehicle back ? Not likely. WARNING: STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM SEAN O'HAY as you possibly can. That's fair warning.