This woman and my husband planned together to conceive a child, a son especially and that is exactly what I'm dealing with. I was devastated when I first found out that I became almost crazy I could'nt sleep I couldn't eat I lost a total of 47 pounds which I needed to lose but thats' besides the point. The fact still remains that my husband has a relationship with this individual that did not care about the people involved and who would get hurt in the process. I have three daughters and besides the youngest one they were deeply hurt by this action these 2 people tokk upon themselves. Is there anyway to hold both responsible?The mental anguish pain this has caused not just on me but the entire family.The cycle continues it's so dysfuntional It is very sad for someone like myself. What do I do? How to I handle this? Where can I run to?