Complaint Review: Bryce E. Hubbard - Moreno Valley California

The first thing I would like to do is to put my response on the things she actually put in her report. After that I would like to add my own info in.

Dessa put that I left her and my son. That was not true I left her and her mother that she couldnt live without not my son.  Unfortunately there was times when I didnt see my son or pay my child support and for that Im will always be sorry to my son for it, I did try and do my part at times even when my wages werent being garnished. I have made my mistakes and have had to learn hard lessons from them and in doing so I wasnt the best father at times but she isnt the best mother either. I cant change the past that is why its the past. The rest is not worth responding to because its was either a lie or uneducated guesses. Before she tries to make someone look bad she needs to make sure  all of her facts are correct and not just what she guessed to be true, she also needs to look at her-self in the mirror and see that she is being a hypocrite.    

Now the tables have been turned and I have custody of our son, because she gave him up because of her new family (her new husbands (Jeremy) family) and I have had him for a year now. She pretty much has nothing to do with her actually family now. They had always been there for her and our son; her mother was the one that pretty much raised our son.  She has never lived on her own a day in her life. She has always had her mother with her whether she was living with her mother or her mother was living with us. Now she lives with her husbands family because her mother wouldnt continue supporting her and her husband, now the burden of support falls on her husbands mother, father, and sister because they all live together along with his niece, his two children (they are there every weekend) and their new daughter. She will only work a part time job (its been that way forever, she has never had a fulltime job) and her husband is not working, due to being fired from his job 6 month ago for allegedly stealing from his employer (Pechanga Casino).

During our sons life Dessa has not been the prefect mother for our son. Now its even worse she seems to be more about her husbands family, her new daughter and his kids and not her own son.

Dessa refuses to financially support her own son since hes been with me and her support is less than I was ordered to pay but thats supposed to be ok because its her. In Dessas own report she said I was having a hard time trying to support my son and I especially with the little amount that was ordered for me.  Which again is less than she is supposed to pay me, I let her decide what she felt was the right amount and that she could afford, the courts didnt have anything to do with it yet. Still I have gotten nothing from her, but they make sure her husbands kids support is being paid every month. 

By the way Dessa and Jeremy met online and married only after 1 month and that was just 3 months after Jeremys second wife passed away. Dessa is wife #3, I would love to continue but it would take me a writing a book to tell you everything about Dessa and the things that I have gone through with her. Oh yeah that friend / girlfriend that Dessa brought up we have been together for 6 years and have known each other for over 20 years. We have two wonderful children together and we live in our own place not with or being supported by family. That friend / girlfriend is a Pediatric Nurse, once again Dessa needs to get her facts correct before posting things.

The funniest part of this whole thing is how much crap she use to/and still says about me and now she is doing the same thing.  If thats not a hypocrite then they need to rewrite the meaning of the word.

You say you get support (clothes & food) and he takes your son on fancy vacations. He may not be winning father of the year, but that's not a deadbeat in my mind. Even when he paid what was court-ordered you say it wasn't enough. I think there's another side to this story. If you are making it difficult for him to have a relationship with hisson, you will be the one sorry in the end.