Complaint Review: CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES - Colville Washington

Gretchen, How odd that only the people who defend Child Protective Services, are the ones who get a pay check from them. It seems that Child Protective Services, in every State is corrupted and abusive. All studies, Surveys, and Audits have proven that fact time and again. It's a fact that children are killed, abused and neglected more in foster care than in the general population. Its a fact that more and more State's are investigating Child Protective Services and their actions, and more often than not are finding them, CORRUPT, ABUSIVE and COMMITTING FRAUD. Its also a fact the circuit courts and the supreme court are ruling against the actions taken by Child Protective Services and Social Workers. But let me guess all these facts are bullshit too right.

Hello, I have a few suggestions- dont go right out and pick up a boyfriend after breaking up with your husband (are you divorced yet?)- get some education on sexual abuse. You sound very naive regarding what are red flags for sexual abuse of children. Did you know that there are men who search out single ( or divorced) mothers of small children so that they have access to these children? Do you really think that any man wants to deal with three kids that belong to someone else? Maybe you should do some soul searching or therapy before getting involved with another man. You chose to have three children with someone who you are now accusing of being an abusive loser. What were you thinking about when you decided to have three children with this guy? Your case sounds like a classic CPS sex abuse case. The vast majority of sex abuse takes place when a mother has a boyfriend around her children. Please dont make another claim that this guy was never alone with your children. Sex perps have an uncanny way of getting away with harming children while they are B--- S------- the mothers. Please go back to school. Your letter reads like English is a second language for you or you lack a high school education. Being uneducated leaves you vulnerable to men who may promise to take care of you and the children because you are not capable of supporting yourself. Basically, all women who write ROR complaining about their childrens father getting custody need to face reality! The fathers of these children have just as much right to them as you do. If you do not think that someone is a trustworthy, good person then dont have any children with them. This is the year 2007 and birth control is cheap and easily accessible.

In April 2006 my husband smashed every thing in our home. His own mother thought he was a danger and called the cops on him. We separated then a few weeks later he through his niece to the ground and left marks on her. His mom again called the cops. He again got arrested. I said it's over. That when it all started! I went on with my life he and his family started reporting me to CPS (DUMBASSES OF AMERICA = DOA). They came to my house investigated everything was unfounded. Then it just got worse finally the judge said that no one could make any more reports to DOA. WILL FINISH LATER. Finishing Report After the Judge made the order that no one could make any more CPS (DOA) reports. He also ordered that I have custody of the children and that he have visitations. So he got the 3 weekends a month and every Wednesday. He had very liberal visitations witch I was trying to change. Then he starts calling me being nice telling me he loves he's sorry. BLAH BLAH. I then having a big mouth said I not going to sleep with you or go back so quite trying. Also DOA turned around and said that I had to do a voluntary contact with them. So I go into the Devils house( CPS offices) and look at this voluntary contract. It said your basic stuff. I wont do drugs that are not prescribed ( I have never done drugs) I'll go to a parenting class. Nothing to serious so I sign it no big deal right HA! Everything goes ok for a while I start dating a really nice man. He tell me right up front he has a recorded which is no big deal. So I do a background check on him I find out that he has a record for B&E when he was like 17 did community service paid a fine. NOTHING else. Him and my big brother are best friends. Which says a lot for him my brother doesn't trust anyone. He was appositely wonderful. Then my ex starts throwing a fit you my wife you can't date. I don't like him. One day when my kids come home my oldest daughter is upset because daddy yelled at her about my boyfriend. So I sit down with me girls and tell them not to talk about or ask daddy about Ungar. (My Boyfriend). Because daddy gets really mad. My girls ask a few questions and I answer them. Then a couple of months later my boyfriend has to leave town for family matters. That's when it all goes to HELL. I suppose to pick up the kids @ 430 pm. I get a call from my ex saying he is going to be late. I think ok no big deal I know how it is. He says he's going to call me when he is done. I say ok. Then about 45 minutes later I get a call from a police officer stateing I can't have my kids. So what I do I fly off the handle curse this detective up one side and down the other. I'm pissed so I then have to wait until Monday to get a hold of my lawyer. I tell her what's up she no happy. She gets s a hold of the detectives. I find out my boyfriend has been charged with Inappropriately touching my girls. The girls were interviewed with out my knowledge. They also said that I told them not to tell any body about my boyfriend. The girls I guess told me about my boyfriend touching them. I would have killed him then fed him to my dog. I also NEVER left him with the kids NEVER. He also has nieces and nephews that his whole family and friends trust him with. So then my children get placed with their abusive father. Because I'm a danger to them. Mind you my boyfriend and me never lived together but I'm a danger because we live together. I also had to but a restraining order on him. Which the judge denied a couple of days a go because there was insufficient evidence. So we have a shelter care hearing the kids get placed with their father. I can have only have two visit a week with them at the DEVILS office. So I set up visits but DOA will only let me have one visit a week with them. Even though the judge ordered that I could have two visits a week with them. I go to have my visits with the kids. My oldest that is 5 doesn't have her glasses because her father still has not picked them up at the eye doctor. I'm really glade to see them but they look unhappy. I notice my 3 year old is wherein shoes that are 31/2 sizes to small. I just bought her brand new shoes. She also has a little black spot under her eye. So I look at it and it's a piece of lead under her skin. She says that one of the older kids stabbed her with a pencil. I am playing with the kids and they say that there hungry I brought dried fruit and juice. They at it like they were starved they don't get fruit at there dads. I then was changing my 1-year-old son and he had a diaper rash from h**l he also had like little gouge marks on his butt. He also had bruises I mean handprint bruises on his legs. I got the DOA to take pictures and reported it to them. Soon my visit was over and I was helping load them in to my ex's car I was bent over buckling up my girls and he slapped my on the but. I turned around and said why did u do that! He said, I wanted to. What am I suppose to do. I am losing my kids and I don't know what to do if any one has any suggestion please help.