Complaint Review: Dena Hart - Prescott Arizona

Dear "Special Man",

BELIEVE ME, I wish you could have met her sooner too. No threats, just thanks if they are due. I have since moved on myself and couldn't be happier as well. Don't know what you are talking about regarding most of the accusations though & I would sure love to meet your "sources" and my "friends in low places", since I have no real friends or contacts up there anyway. That has me amused. I would love for you to hear about my real credibility but I guess I'm not here to discuss my resume, nor do I have the time & would hope you don't either.

Anyhow, I hope your lives are going as well as mine & my wife (who I should have been with in the first place) says thanks too. Good luck, God bless & Merry Christmas, I know it will be for me.

Later.

I know the above named woman, and have been in a relationship with her for the past 2 years or better. I guess you can call me all the names you want, it seems that Foghorn Randy can. I have been in the same room as Dena while he called her and harassed her, even got to hear him on speaker phone at one point if my mind serves me correctly.  At the time this first complaint was made on this site, she was already many miles away from him and living with me.This man uses his "friends in low places" to try to intimidate her and scare her. He is trying to sue her (which really is none of my business legally I guess) but thought a couple things should be known about this most "honorable citizen".

   FIRST... Randy told her that "if she would come back to him and stay with him, the lawsuit would be dropped". Sounds like a terrible woman if he is willing to take her back AND drop a lawsuit. *Deny it all you want or whatever, I KNOW what was said during that conversation.* A person can only take someone crying while on the phone scared to death right in front of them so long before he needs to know whats going on.

  SECOND... This man contacted me via email through Myspace telling me all these terrible things (basically saying she is not a good person and quite a bit of personal stuff that he really had no right to relay to someone) I could have been any random person!!

I have heard the same horror stories about this man from more than one source. It seems to me that this guy is the one with the credibility issues.. just my opinion.
Apparently, this man likes to call names as well. Well Randy.... Remember me??  Its me, "Steroid Boy" ... Atleast thats what you called me in a email that you sent to Dena. Anyways, I am Mr."special man" and very happy and lucky to have this beautiful woman that is also a wonderful HUMAN BEING in my life. As far as you telling me that I will regret this, So far no regrets.... except I wish I would have met her before you did. Or was it supposed to be made as a threat? Either way, we are happy together, trust each other fully, and will live happily ever after.

It's all nonsense. I don't know what else I can say. Blatant lies. I don't think this is what our founding fathers had in mind for free speech.

I wish I never would have had to written these comments in the first place but felt it was necessary because I to was warned by an ex of hers but I didn't listen. I wanted to leave this alone from the original I wrote in 11/07, but yet more has come about that I must address. First of all, what about all of this "mean" behavior I'm accused of. I admit there was conflict and at times I got pretty angry but she makes it sound like I'm some thug that enjoys hurting people. So what of the rest of this abuse? Was it puting my own money into her dental care ? Or was it supporting her while she was not working for six months and ran up my bills. She made the decision to go to some shelter to be brainwashed by a bunch of man haters and not try to work things out. And, I never "found" her there, she called (from the cell phone I was paying for) & told me where she was. More than one person has come forward both here and my former home town and including my ex wife and would be happy to testify about my character. Please, if you fell I should be in prison or am so dangerous, call the police. I have never been served with an "order of protection" and I could care less about "finding her". I have not spoke to her or her family in almost eight months. My "friend" was an officer of the court who was trying to locate her to serve legal paperwork. No one is downing Dena for being married more than once. My issue is falling off the planet for a while to marry some one and then coming back like nothing has happened, resuming a relationship and not saying anything. Sitting outside of the condo where her daughter was staying? If I recall, she had borrowed my vehicle while her daughter had her car to "run some errands" when she didn't return I called looking for her. No answer. Her daughter would not answer her phone. At midnight I became more worried. I went to the condo where her (15 year old daughter was allowed to live with her 18 year old boyfriend) looking for her.No one answered the door. By the time she did answer her phone, she said she was "too tired" to drive home. But yet she was no where to be found. Where could she be? She wasnt with her daughter and would not tell me where she was or allow me to come get her. You figure out the rest, I did. We WERE together at the time. Maybe I should have filed a stolen vehicle report. This was one of several "suspicious" incidents. Personal Belongings? Her belongings wound up with some of my stuff after I moved away. I told her I would send it to any location she asked. The items are still safe and I hope to return them safely but do not know how If I have no where to return them. She was not afraid of me when we met twice after (and one time was when she called for gas money) but yet she refused to meet to discuss our financial situation or get her stuff back? I think it is great she has found someone. My silver lining? I have found someone special myself and some day hope it will lead to a life time relationship, I live in a great house and a cool town. I hope Mr "special man" has better luck than I & sevreal others and has done his home work that I unfortunately did not do or ignored. But what will happen when her & Mr. "special man" get into a dis agreement? Singles sites? His phone bill through the roof while she chats with all her new "friends"? Accusations of abuse? Or, borrowed vehicles and no return for 16 hours with no explination of who she was with. ALL WRITINGS THAT I HAVE MADE ON THIS SITE OR ANY OTHER REGARDING THIS PERSON OR THIS ISSUE ARE OF MY PERSONAL OPINION ONLY.

This man can take a tiny bit of truth and stretch it into one big lie. He is a dangerous man. I have the order of protection to prove it. I loved him at one time, but when he got physically violent and just plain mean I left. That part is true. Yes, I did it while he was gone...it's the safest time to leave. I went straight to a domestic violence shelter and he found me there, too. This will never be over with him. He should be in prison for what he did to me, and instead he is suing me over money we spend building a life together. We would have stayed together had he not gotten so physically violent and drinking. I stayed as long as I could. He begged me not to call the police, I fell for it. He has some way of thanking me, lol. He has humiliated me in front of all my family, my friends, all ofmy past employers, etc...and now the general public, as well. I cannot wait to stand in front of a judge and have him have to be accountable for all the things he did. Have I been married more times that I would like to have been? yes, of course. But did I do it any sneaky way? No, I did not. I did cheat on him...sneak around on him, etc...nothing at all like that. He is out of touch with reality, and it's sad. I had the order of protection long before he sued me, and long before he posted this hateful message. He is mad because I left...and because I wouldn't meet with him. He took my daughter's birth certificate, family heirloom silver platter, my tax information I Needed to file last year...and all so that I would have to meet with him. Which I was afraid to do...so I didn't. When we weren't even together he went and sat outside a condo for four hours in the middle of the night on his motorcycle where he knew my daugther was staying....just to see if I was there. This man can be very frightening. PLease take what he says with a grain of salt. Thank You, Dena PS: I don't "troll" for men...I have a very special man who is very good to me and a genuinely caring man. I need not look for any others.

I just wanted to say that this man is awful...he takes a little bit of truth (yes, I have been married several times- mistakes, yes...but the sin of the century, no) and stretches it into something it's not. So much of what he says has no merit. I had an awful relationship with this man, and it turned physically violent. I ended up leaving when he went to see his father (the safest time to leave that situation) and ended up at a domestic violence shelter. I am not proud of that, but it most likely saved my life. He continued to follow me and still to this day, despite the ORDER OF PROTECTION I filed long before he made these public and humiliating accusations, he still continues to try and find me. He is suing me over money we spent as a couple. It is his only way of controling what I do now that I am not with him, and haven't been for a very long time. It's disturbing. He has harassed me, my family, and a friend of his went to all of my past employers and family/friends' houses and disparaged my character to them, telling them I was "in trouble" and they needed to tell him where I was. I won't go into all the awful, hurtful things he has done/said...because unlike him I think it's wrong to publically humiliate someone- but I will say this...take what he says with a grain of salt because he is a liar and a bully. I am sad that he has such a wide arena in which to spew his hatred. I can't wait to see him in court and have him answer to the judge for the rotten things he has done! He should be in prison for the things he did.