I dated Dewayne for about a year. Seemed well enough at first however he never did have a decent job, and was always needing money.
I was going to help him get a job where I work as it is a decent job that pays well, however he never even tried to apply, I suppose that would have been too much responsibility to have a well paying job to go to everyday. Didn't want him to move in with me right away so was going to help him get into his own apartment, the job paid more than enough for a comfortable apartment, I suppose it is easier for him to live with his mother for free and have none of the responsibilities of a responsible adult.
Thank God I didn't move him to KY. Little did I know he was spending what little money he had on meth. He is 42 years old and lives with his mother, or should I say lives off his mother. Tells everyone he moved back to Jasper from Key West to help his mother. That is a lie he stays with his mother because he blew all his money on drugs in Florida and had no where else to go.
He has 2 grown children that he hasn't bothered to contact since they were toddlers and he divorced , has paid no child support at all and has not been a father to his children. Suppose that would have been too much responsibility! Has a dog that he just keeps caged up for the most part and the only time he interacts with his dog is to yell at him or be otherwise abusive, if you mistreat animals you are not a nice person.
What really did it for me is when he had a car wreck and he needed some money to buy another car. I loaned him $2500 with the agreement he gave me back what he didn't need for the car right away and pay me payments. He did not give me a penny back, suppose he spent the other $1500 on drugs! I should have ended it then and there but instead gave him a couple months to pay the money back. Like he had any intention of paying any of it back to begin with!!!
He is so arrogant that he was bragging to some of my friends that he will never pay me back, told them it was because I got back with my ex that does pay his bills and help with the house. That is just another one of his lies, the truth is he never intended to pay me back to begin with, he never pays any of his debts! He puts on a nice front but the fact is he is a deadbeat, arrogant, has the temper of a spoiled 10 year old especially on days after he injects meth!
I regret ever meeting his sorry a** and want to warn everyone else about him, he is bad news and to be avoided. I have met some pieces of work in my time but he really takes the cake, he is a sociopath and a con artist! I suppose of all his lies I liked "I Love You" the best however he loves no one, he is incapable of anything but putting on a front and using people.