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  • Report:  #209560

Complaint Review: J-Netics JNetics House Of Fitness Jay Williams - Tarzana California

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- Los Angeles, California,
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J-Netics JNetics House Of Fitness Jay Williams
jnetics.net Tarzana, 91356 California, U.S.A.
Phone:
818-4102627
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Jay Williams of J-Netics House of Fitness had an inappropriate affair with my wife while we were married which caused our marriage to end. Going to the gym should be about getting in shape. However, Jay allowed his relationship with my ex wife to become much more then simply working out.

At first, Jay and my ex wife would communicate with each other on my ex wife's cellular telephone almost daily, and numerous times during the day. My ex wife was not honest about the extent of their relationship, and ultimately it took a private investigator to reveal the truth.

It was discovered that the two of them would often meet outside the gym while I was at work. My ex wife operated her own business, and I also learned that Jay Williams would charge several of his clients for services by running the payments through her credit card machine.

After the private investigator found them spending a quiet Friday night at Jay's condo together, when I was told she was going out with girlfriends, I spoke with Jay on the telephone and his assured me that he would no longer meet with my ex wife outside of the gym. However, after he made such representations, I came home from out of town unannounced one night only to find Jay running out my fron door when I entered through the back door.

In hindsight, my ex wife now admits that her relationship with Jay was inappropriate. It is truly unfortunate as our young child is the one who has suffered from the divorce. I am in in favor of working out and staying in shape and I was told that my ex wife was simply getting in shape. However, in reality, my ex wife's relationship with Jay Williams and J-Netics was more than just exercise.

Michael

Los Angeles, California
U.S.A.


3 Updates & Rebuttals

Matt

Internet,
Australia
The wife AND the other guy are the problem

#2General Comment

Wed, March 03, 2010

This does not seem to be about blame. It is about the 'players' in this 'game'.

And yes, that includes The adulterous (ex)wife and the slimy gym instructor. He is still responsible for his choices to knowingly accept something that he had no right to have. Even if she offered herself, he can still walk away.

Jay Williams has shown a complete lack of respect for other people and is not deserving of your defense. All your post has said is -life is crap, blame your wife NOT the other guy, get over it... oh, and be silent about the issue too. Not really understanding of the situation.

It is nieve to think that the Jay Williams didn't affect this marriage in a bad way or that he is also responsible for this situation. His influences have made a bad situation so much worse.


Ann

Newport News,
Virginia,
U.S.A.
Your WIFE was the problem, not the "other" guy. Blame her!

#3Consumer Comment

Sat, September 30, 2006

Look guy, I hate to break it to you, but your WIFE is the person to blame. The guy obviously didn't have the same morals and or ethics as you have.. and you can't realistically expect every person you meet to have the same morals as yourself. Wake up. I feel for you. No one wants to go through what you had to, but at the same time, the "other" man wasn't in a marriage with you, and had no obligation(s) to you what-so-ever. Usually women have trouble with this concept.. 1. Another person doesn't HAVE to abide by your morals and or ethics (right or wrong). 2. The person who is at fault is your x-SPOUSE.. SHE (not him) had the obligation to your marriage. The "other" man was just a squirrel getting some booty. You know that, I know that. 3. The "other" man couldn't have affected your marriage IF your wife hadn't stepped out of the marriage and had a relationship with him. Plain and simple. 4. Hate the player (in this case your x-wife)... don't hate the game, because the game isn't going anywhere. I do hope you're happier now that you've divorced. I wish you the best. Ann


Damon

Tarzana,
California,
U.S.A.
J-Netics Sports Club, Jay Williams, Inappropriate Marital Affair, Tarzana California

#4Author of original report

Fri, September 29, 2006

J-Netics is also now know as J-Netics Sports Club.

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