Matt
Internet,#2General Comment
Wed, March 03, 2010
This does not seem to be about blame. It is about the 'players' in this 'game'.
And yes, that includes The adulterous (ex)wife and the slimy gym instructor. He is still responsible for his choices to knowingly accept something that he had no right to have. Even if she offered herself, he can still walk away.
Jay Williams has shown a complete lack of respect for other people and is not deserving of your defense. All your post has said is -life is crap, blame your wife NOT the other guy, get over it... oh, and be silent about the issue too. Not really understanding of the situation.
It is nieve to think that the Jay Williams didn't affect this marriage in a bad way or that he is also responsible for this situation. His influences have made a bad situation so much worse.
Ann
Newport News,#3Consumer Comment
Sat, September 30, 2006
Look guy, I hate to break it to you, but your WIFE is the person to blame. The guy obviously didn't have the same morals and or ethics as you have.. and you can't realistically expect every person you meet to have the same morals as yourself. Wake up. I feel for you. No one wants to go through what you had to, but at the same time, the "other" man wasn't in a marriage with you, and had no obligation(s) to you what-so-ever. Usually women have trouble with this concept.. 1. Another person doesn't HAVE to abide by your morals and or ethics (right or wrong). 2. The person who is at fault is your x-SPOUSE.. SHE (not him) had the obligation to your marriage. The "other" man was just a squirrel getting some booty. You know that, I know that. 3. The "other" man couldn't have affected your marriage IF your wife hadn't stepped out of the marriage and had a relationship with him. Plain and simple. 4. Hate the player (in this case your x-wife)... don't hate the game, because the game isn't going anywhere. I do hope you're happier now that you've divorced. I wish you the best. Ann
Damon
Tarzana,#4Author of original report
Fri, September 29, 2006
J-Netics is also now know as J-Netics Sports Club.