John Emefcee
Internet,#2Consumer Comment
Wed, July 20, 2011
I was a member of Cherry Blossoms a long time ago. I found the love of my life there and I swear by their services. I was successful as many have been. I have spoken to the owner, Mike Krosky on the phone before. I find him to be a very honest, helpful and decent man.
You have to use some common sense when you join any service to look for the love of your life. Just like when you meet someone in person. This website is open to the public. People are not always honest. That goes for both men AND women. There ARE some women that make profiles with false pictures and information and there are men that do that as well. There are women on there that are looking for someone just to ask for money. BUT, there are also men on there that are looking to find a girl just to go to their country and have sex with them and then abandon them. So what should you have done to avoid being ripped off? I will tell you where you messed up and it is all your fault, Sir. (Sorry)
When you meet someone online anywhere including Cherry Blossoms, you must insist upon seeing them on a webcam. This way you will be able to see who you are talking to and verify that they are the same person as in the picture(s) on the profile. You can also see their background and see what kind of place they are chatting to you from. You should have conversations with them for days on end without them bringing up the subject of money. Whenever you ask a girl how she is and she says that she is not good, this is when you should expect the next statement she makes to be about money. Which brings up to the next lesson.
Don't EVER send money to someone that you have not met in person. NEVER! Even if a girl pressures you, you must explain that it is simply against your personal policy. If the girl leaves you because you would not send her money then you are better off without her and you will not be ripped off. Most girls, in the Philippines for example, know that it is very bad to ask a man for money. Most of them will just not do it. The decent girls would be ashamed. Some girls will not ask you for money directly, but will just start giving you a sob story to see if you offer money. DON'T FALL FOR IT! Just say that you are sorry to hear about their problem. Some girls will even use the excuse of they need money in order to prepare for you to arrive OR they want it to process things for marriage to you OR process paperwork to get a passport etc. DON'T FALL FOR IT. Meet a girl in person before you give them money for any reason, unless you want to risk losing that money.
Don't join Cherry Blossoms if you are not ready to travel to go see the girl at least in the next year. If you start up a relationship with someone online, you must be able to go and see them to meet their family and gain their approval. That is important to these girls when they are legitimate. If you take forever to go and see them then you should expect to be dumped or cheated on. These girls don't want to spend their lifetime waiting for you when you never show up. Remember that they are joining this site because they want someone for real. Not just as a past time for conversation.
When you do go and see the girl that you found on Cherry Blossoms, make sure that she is willing to give you her all. You know what I mean. If it is a girl in the Philippines, and especially if she is a virgin, there is very little chance that she will give you sex if she is not totally and completely committed to you. If she refuses that, or if she refuses to stay with you in your hotel, then this is a red flag. There is a chance that you still have a decent great girl if she refuses these things, but you will not know for sure.
If you follow these simple steps, then I can guarantee you success. It is literally impossible for any able bodied normal man of any reasonable age to find someone in Cherry Blossoms. If you are in your 50's or 60's then you should not be talking to a girl that is in her teens or 20's. You have nothing in common with these girls. Also you will never be able to bring them to your country because it is VERY unlikely that your country would approve you to bring them in on a fiancee or marriage visa based on age difference.
If you are looking for a girl just to have sex with, then don't use online dating sites such as Cherry Blossoms. Just take a trip to the Philippines, go to Angeles City and hire a w***e. It's very inexpensive and you can get anything you want there. There is no reason to trick a civilian girl and ruin her life.
I hope this helps.
Lakidesilva
Okayama,#3Author of original report
Wed, February 10, 2010
Addendum; Cherry Blossoms had included many female profiles with photos of Phillipino Celebrities such as RR Enriques a TV personality Wowwowee in the Phillipines, Francine Peitro a model and a TV personality among many and so many photos used from magazine photos!, especially Chinese and Phillipino ladies and to mislead and defruad members including me.