Complaint Review: Mary Lynn Kohlenburg-Miller - Internet

 When writing something as descriptive as I am about to, its hard not to let my emotions get involved, so if I ramble, please forgive me. Mary Lynn Kohlenburg. This is my topic. She was married when she involved herself with Jason(my husband). Shortly after dating, they got pregnant with his only daughter, her 5th child by this time, and he was estatic. 5 months into that pregnacy she began having an affair with Ken Miller. It wasnt until a year after his daughter was born that she got caught. Terminating their relationship. Throughtout that time Jason paid child support thru the government, and gave her additional monies when she asked because as he said, it was easier to do what she wanted because she would threaten to not let me see my daughter. You see, even after she moved in with Ken, she took it upon herself to enter Jasons property whether he was home or not, and treat his life as if she were still in it. Enter me. My name is April. I met Jason in 2003, and I was very inspired by him. I never knew my biological father, and to see him with his daughter was just...lovely. The way his daughter looked at him, it was obvious she was totally a daddy's girl. She was 4 when I met her. I fell in love with them. Jason is the kindest of all types. He taught me more about life. Until I met him, I never knew there were real families out there. I became part of it. After I entered the picture, I saw and heard things that disturbed me. When we came home one day, and Mary was in our bedroom going through our dirty laundry, while her youngest was eating at OUR table with OUR food from OUR kitchen. I knew then, things needed to change. Jason confronted her and got the key back. From that moment, things got bad. She lived 45 minutes from us. She had no reason to talk to me, as her custody issues were between Jason and herself, yet, even though she knew he would be at work, if I didnt answer the phone, she would leae nasty messages for me, and then drive to my house, just to see if I was home. Things progressively got worse. She started going to church, and would put on thie "I love Jesus" front, while texting or calling my personal number leaving horrible messages. She even stood in the parking lot of her church with the children behind her screaming at him to take his daughter and keep her because she didnt want her! This was ongoing for 5 years. The worst it got was her breaking into our home to attack me, while I was hold the crying child who DIDNT want to go with her. The police were called and pictures were taken of the bruises on my back from her hitting me trying to get me to drop his daughter. At the point she just began refusing to let us see his child, and began stealing his money he would send home to pay for school lunches or medicine. We consulted an attorney, and got a custody agreement worked out. For a year it seemed to be ok, until we decided to relocate to Arizona, where we had full intention of filing for full custody. I left first, and established a job and home. 6 months later he was to follow. I warned him that when I left, she would start her s**t again. I was correct. She would send him texts that were borderline sexual, and tell him she was there for him. Then she would just send his daughter away without telling him. We were just biding our time until he got to AZ. ...Ok, so 3/30/2009. I flew out to PA to help him with the final goodbye until summer. That was the same day as his birthday. He, his child and I had dinner and we took her home. We were gonna see her one more day before we left. So the next day we went to the school to say goodbye, and Jason was hit with "child molestation" charges. Filed that day. Accusation made, that day. Over the next 2 years, we fought and won hands down innocent. The stories made up had Mary written all over them, and whats worse, is they changed from night to day on all details. Jury never hesitated. Innocent. When we read the police reports and statements, it was so ridiculous that even the investigating officer stated, in front of the DA and the judge, that he knew how Mary was, and too stay as far away from her as we could get. During the course of the 2 years, she made several attempts to get us to talk to her and the child, and though he was not able to see his daughter, he still had to pay child support to Mary, who in 15 years hasnt worked a day. We lost everything. It cost more then 30 thousand in legal fees, and our marriage fell apart. We have been picking up the pieces since, and are mending our life together. It has been 3 years since we have seen or even heard from our child. Mary still has the "I love the lord" manipulation down pat, and Im sure she has people convinced. It makes me wonder though, how many people would have faith in her if they could only see the things she has written, and messages she has left. None, in which are christ like at all. She has taken complete advantage of the system, all because she knew we had every intention of filing for full custody. She has filed false reports from CYS to the state police, and NO ONE will do one d**n thing about it, even though the truth is out! Instead the innocent have to suffer because of what people like her do out of hatred and jealousy! There are enough children out there that are being abused, and dont have anyone to help. You should be ashamed of yourself Mary Kohlenburg, for instilling this type of behavior onto your children. You are simply stating that its ok to lie on people if it gets you what you want. I hope someone reads this and has the power to do something about it. Jason never deserved this from you. He was too good to you and took care of them when you never bothered  trying! Shame on you! Even if my voice doesnt get heard, I pray that the Lord you claim to love so much, has mercy, because honestly, I would not wanna be in the same zip code as you when he bestows his wrath for what you have done.