Complaint Review: Paula Pyland (Steele) - Charlotte North Carolina

Dbean Stanfield, North Carolina U.S.A. Obviously you too are MISINFORMED! First off I was NOT calling Paula and Karl dysfunctional. I say this about Her side of the family. And YES THEY ARE VERY DYSFUCNTIONAL! You do not hear anything but the lies that come from Paula and Karl. Yes you are right. KARL is a loud mouth. EVERYTHING I have posted here is the truth and can BACK IT UP! SO BEFORE YOU RUN YOUR MOUTH BEST GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT! Funny after 2 years this gets responses from people. Hmmm.....

Dear Joe, You do not know facts in our divorce. Our divorce was handled thru teh State of Paula's residence of North Carolina. See it appears that you can get a divorce WITH children with NO disposition of the child. This apparently can be handled another time. I handled MY OWN divorce without counsel or representation. SHE hired some attorneey to do it for her. I am VERY, VERY happy we are no longer tied by the bonds of matrimony. I wish her well in her endeavors. BUT when it comes to our son I WILL do what is needed to see he continues to live a normal life. EVERYTHING that is posted by me on here is TRUE, 100%! I am not vindictive like you say. So before you slander a person on the internet be prepared to present facts. Your posting calling me vindictive is BY LAW "SLANDER". UPDATE: To date, $225.00 has been recieved by Paula.

There should have been some medication and counseling before this divorce took place because the residual fall out spills venomously onto the pages here ... Women make a lot less than men and that is documented. She obviously felt her son would be better off with his father. I can only hope the son understands that she left him with his father because the father could provide a much higher standard of living for him and sometimes the greatest sacrifice is to leave the child that you love where he or she can have a secure, more stable and a higher standard of living... Sort of like adoption. I hope the son doesn't grow up to be the vindictive sort who will smear his ex-wife all over the internet like this. This divorce was definitely NOT handled very well! My heart goes out to the mother who had to leave her son, the son who is deprived of two loving parents and to the father who is still angry about some divorce and should go on with his life...

Sorry Trent but I beg to differ. I have known Paula and Karl for years now. I knew both of them before they were together. Paula gave all she had to take care of her and Colby for many years. She worked hard and tried her best to make sure he had what he needed. He was doing pretty well here. Yes Karl may be a loud mouth but what would you expect? He is from up North. One thing I can tell everyone though is that theya re BOTH good people. I could call either of them for help and they would be right there. Together or separate. You have no right to call them a disfunctional family when you are living with a man and then a woman and so forth..... How is that functional? We all have our flaws and you dont have a right to go on the internet posting things about good people when it isnt true. Paula had reasons for letting Colby come there. She didnt just throw him away and it eats her up inside every day. If you dot believe that then Im sorry but I am here and I know it is true. She doesnt even know I am filing this rebuttal. I know what it is liek to suffer as a single parent. That is exactly what she did for a long time. Dont knock her. She tries the best she can and she loves Colby and he needs to know that. Maybe he doesnt feel it because of the distance but she does..with all of her heart. You dont know Karl. Ofcourse you think he is a loudmouth because he has told you off planty of times Im sure; because thats what he does. He stands up and fights for the people he loves. He will always fight for Paula and I feel that he would do the same for me or any of his other friends. Dont put false things about people on the internet.

Well Paula has succeeded in alienating herself from Colby... She got her money , $1,000.00 USD and has not sent her son anything. I have tried to have him call her but he refuses because when she was served orders for child support from the state of Missouri, she told Colby "You f**ked up my life. I have to get a second job now" How pathetic is that??? All from a mother who over and over professes her love? I, Trent, heard her profess her love to me while she was cheating on me for 5 years plus! Tim would be proud. Mathew would be proud and a guy we had a threesome with, Tom, would be proud. Paula, you have done an exceptional JOB of making your son hate you and your family. I tried. I can no longer encourage him to involve himself with such a disfunctional family. Good Luck!

Well Paula Pyland said she would send half of the money she has taken from my return to compensate for the non-payment of support for year 2006. Now if she does what she actually says then I would commend her for keeping her word and for showing our son that she does care about him and that it isn't all about partying anymore. Her actions show character and we will see what kind of character she has.

Paula Pyland called her son's Dad on 01/31/2007 to say that he will be receiving a certified letter from her attorney for the divorce. Funny how Paula can afford an attorney for herself but cannot send any child support for our son! She thinks that buying him christmas presents is her form of child support. Her boyfriend Karl Alexander Stein is a loud mouth child who feels the same way Paula does. Two pea's in a pod! The saga continues...