Complaint Review: Santa Clara Department of Child Support Services - San Jose California

You have no clue about me and what I went through with this woman, Lori. Oh, and to correct one fact about your ignorance, Ashley was almost seven when move away from all you scums. I see you are a victim of her poison. She leads people to believe she is the victim here. If I had it my way Ashley would be with me today. I wouldn't jump to judging others so fast you ignorant fool. You must be one of those Christians that think you have been saved. Or, are you the heroin addict she married getting high in the garage for two year with three kids in the house. Her boy's even ran away from home when they were old enough you idiot. I dare you to show your Identity.

I was very close to Lori and her family through her years of dealing with Mark and his drug and alcohol addiction.  She even had to have it written in her original court documents that the father Mark could not have the child while he was smoking pot or drinking because Lori had picked up the child when she was less than a year in a pot smoke filled house.  Mark left his daughter when she was 5 and moved to another state to be with a woman that also was an alcoholic and actually passed away from her alcoholism, this man can't blame Lori for his move out of the state, he left his daughter.  Look at this man's angry reply, he can't spell very well and presents himself in a very immature manner.  From what I understand he owes back child support that amounts to almost 200,000 and that was part of the reason he moved out of the state, to escape his financial responsibilities and the physical responsibility of raising a special needs child.  Only an immature angry man on drugs would stoop to the level of the lies he writes here, this is very high school and immature and frankly I'm embarrassed for him.  Considering that this man is over 50 and makes less $24.00 an hour I can understand him staying out of the state to keep his head above water but honestly if he would have paid his child support from the beginning it would not have rose to the amount it is at now.  The facts remain the same, this man left his daughter on his own will and never came back to visit her.  He let the mother, my friend, carry all the responsibility of raising their special needs child without any help from him, you can't argue those facts.  Anger does not become you Mark, you should be thankful your daughter has a mother that does not do drugs or drink and has given your daughter a life of morals and has put her entire world into this child.  We have our church praying for you, your addictions and your anger.  You are obvioiusly angry because Lori won in court for child support for this child and because your debt was not able to escape you even though you left the state... who is paying for their bad behavior??  Time to take responsibility so you can rid yourself of all that anger you carry.  Also, we are aware that your wife Robin lost your first child because of the abuse you put her through, we are praying you will forgive yourself for that also so you can experience freedom from the past.  Time to stop blaming everyone around you and being the victim and preying on innocent woman.

LaPlante/Bardo

 Only one person could have wrote this rebuttle, Lori. First of all I didn't abandon my child. She was taken away from me by You. No Man should ever have to go through what I have with you to see his own child. I supported you and your Two other sons from other men before Ashley was born. I pulled your second son, Kyle, from his Adopted parents you gave to at birth. You have put me in Jail for seeing my daughter on a visitation day.

I bought you a new car, gave you credit cards to build up credit and off of welfare. You are nothing but a blood sucking ego tistic b**** that uses the system so others will support you. Your oldest boys didn't even want to live with you. Kevin ran away from home to be with his dad. Kyle hated it at home and got out as fast as he could. I moved from California to start a better life with a good women and start my own family. Oh, and be as far away from you as I can.

I tried many of times to have Ashley move to Texas with me or just visit the summer. You home schooled Ashley for religoius reasons and she needed specail needs classes. Shame on You Lori. Four Children from Four different men. You're currently devorsed from the last husband and the forth child and getting support. You use the system to support you. You used it on me and you won. You lie to the courts and you won.......Carma will step all over you life.....Good luck with that.

This is coming from a man who left his special needs child at age 5 to be raised solely by the mom who endured the physical and emotional task of raising a child with special needs.  There were many years of zero support at zero time share since this father left the state because a girl friend.  No amount of child support can fix the damage done by abandoning a child.  An upright citizen/father would feel bad about his actions and be glad to support his child.  The facts are the facts, no support paid and interest on top of that and wala, you have a large bill.  Paying support is the easy part, raising the special needs child is the hard part, shame on you....