Complaint Review: Steven Keith Blackmon - Spring Hill Florida

Steve, In order to be a "changed man" you have to learn from your mistakes and not repeat them. As a father it is you job to be a respectable role model. How hard is it to just pay your child support? I can't say I didn't see it coming. I have always hoped for the best but expected the worst from you. You stopped paying child support for Kimberly on 7/20 and **** on 7/27. Why must you continue putting us in this situation? It may take forever but Florida and Alabama will catch up with you. You are going to run out of tricks to pull or either they will tire of your antics. Justice Will Prevail,

I'm glad to report that Steve did send a $100 money order to my daughter. This was not court ordered and out of the kindness of his heart he sent something extra. We sincerely appreciate this kind gesture and hope this didn't put you in a bind. We will be sure to apply this to the total cost of her senior portrait package. Kimberly will select a picture to send to you in return for your contribution. Thank you,

Payments have been coming in on a regular basis. I have been receiving $75.00 a week. I'm praying his checks will continue to be garnished. Mr. Blackmon and his family should be aware that I will utilize all necessary actions to ensure I receive child support for Kimberly. It is not a "game" and it's a shame you view it as such. Steve, Thank you for paying child support. You deserve a pat on the back. Please keep up the good work. Have A Great Day,

Payments have been coming in on a regular basis. I have been receiving $75.00 a week. I'm praying his checks will continue to be garnished. Mr. Blackmon and his family should be aware that I will utilize all necessary actions to ensure I receive child support for Kimberly. It is not a "game" and it's a shame you view it as such. Steve, Thank you for paying child support. You deserve a pat on the back. Please keep up the good work. Have A Great Day,

Your husband is the one that needs to grow up. Save your opinions for someone that cares. I would never publish information on my website(s) that is not accurate. If Steve dictated the 6/9 rebuttal, why did he claim to Kimberly he did not write the letter and was unaware if you did? Sounds like you need to collaborate on your stories. The $100 that has allegedly been sent will be applied toward the senior portraits. The sitting fee alone was $40.00. I never said the money was for me. I don't need money from Steve for my personal use. The money that is sent to Kimberly is used solely on her. It's a shame that you implied that things were kept from Kimberly. The fact is neither Steve nor his family acknowledge Kimberly during any celebrations. They do not send birthday or Christmas cards. I have never kept anything from her. The rebuttals you send are pure nonsense and do not address the point at hand. Thanks for not sending anymore. It wastes time and effort when you choose to discuss other issues. THIS IS ABOUT PROVIDING FOR KIMBERLY. My point is Steve is a deadbeat. Prove me wrong make sure he pays his support. He has only recently just begun paying child support again on both cases. I should not have to spend my time making sure that he does pay his support. It should be something he does gladly and willingly. It should be CONSISTANT. It's for Kimberly. I'm glad that he loves Kimberly. Unfortunately you can't live off love alone. Love doesn't pay the bills. Do not convey that you and Steve have provided cell phone #'s and a current address to me. Cellular phone #'s are not published. The landline phone # listed for your husband has been disconnected. Skip Tracers come in handy when the NCP moves and doesn't provide the new information. I will send you the addresses that you will need to investigate the sexual abuse allegations. I have nothing to prove to you or Steve and will not do the footwork for you. Steve's brother is a CONVICTED felon. I don't claim to be perfect but I strive to do the best I can. I provide for Kimberly and only ask that Steve do the same. My children are my world and I take care of them. My requests are not complicated. Pay child support and assist with medical/dental costs as they arise. How could Steve refuse that? I do not need to call and chat with either one of you. The court order explains what actions should be taken in reference to Kimberly. I shouldn't have to talk to Steve via you. By you choosing to fight Steve's battle you are placing yourself in the middle. If Steve were half the changed man you say he is then I wouldn't have had to go to the lengths I have to collect child support. He wanted to be a part of her life but he didn't want to provide for her financially. Take Care Natalie, and please make sure you husband keeps paying support for his children. We wouldn't have to discuss this if he had paid his support as ordered in the first place. I understand he has made mistakes but he has had ample time to learn from the experiences and correct them. Have A Blessed Day,

Your husband is the one that needs to grow up. Save your opinions for someone that cares. I would never publish information on my website(s) that is not accurate. If Steve dictated the 6/9 rebuttal, why did he claim to Kimberly he did not write the letter and was unaware if you did? Sounds like you need to collaborate on your stories. The $100 that has allegedly been sent will be applied toward the senior portraits. The sitting fee alone was $40.00. I never said the money was for me. I don't need money from Steve for my personal use. The money that is sent to Kimberly is used solely on her. It's a shame that you implied that things were kept from Kimberly. The fact is neither Steve nor his family acknowledge Kimberly during any celebrations. They do not send birthday or Christmas cards. I have never kept anything from her. The rebuttals you send are pure nonsense and do not address the point at hand. Thanks for not sending anymore. It wastes time and effort when you choose to discuss other issues. THIS IS ABOUT PROVIDING FOR KIMBERLY. My point is Steve is a deadbeat. Prove me wrong make sure he pays his support. He has only recently just begun paying child support again on both cases. I should not have to spend my time making sure that he does pay his support. It should be something he does gladly and willingly. It should be CONSISTANT. It's for Kimberly. I'm glad that he loves Kimberly. Unfortunately you can't live off love alone. Love doesn't pay the bills. Do not convey that you and Steve have provided cell phone #'s and a current address to me. Cellular phone #'s are not published. The landline phone # listed for your husband has been disconnected. Skip Tracers come in handy when the NCP moves and doesn't provide the new information. I will send you the addresses that you will need to investigate the sexual abuse allegations. I have nothing to prove to you or Steve and will not do the footwork for you. Steve's brother is a CONVICTED felon. I don't claim to be perfect but I strive to do the best I can. I provide for Kimberly and only ask that Steve do the same. My children are my world and I take care of them. My requests are not complicated. Pay child support and assist with medical/dental costs as they arise. How could Steve refuse that? I do not need to call and chat with either one of you. The court order explains what actions should be taken in reference to Kimberly. I shouldn't have to talk to Steve via you. By you choosing to fight Steve's battle you are placing yourself in the middle. If Steve were half the changed man you say he is then I wouldn't have had to go to the lengths I have to collect child support. He wanted to be a part of her life but he didn't want to provide for her financially. Take Care Natalie, and please make sure you husband keeps paying support for his children. We wouldn't have to discuss this if he had paid his support as ordered in the first place. I understand he has made mistakes but he has had ample time to learn from the experiences and correct them. Have A Blessed Day,

Your husband is the one that needs to grow up. Save your opinions for someone that cares. I would never publish information on my website(s) that is not accurate. If Steve dictated the 6/9 rebuttal, why did he claim to Kimberly he did not write the letter and was unaware if you did? Sounds like you need to collaborate on your stories. The $100 that has allegedly been sent will be applied toward the senior portraits. The sitting fee alone was $40.00. I never said the money was for me. I don't need money from Steve for my personal use. The money that is sent to Kimberly is used solely on her. It's a shame that you implied that things were kept from Kimberly. The fact is neither Steve nor his family acknowledge Kimberly during any celebrations. They do not send birthday or Christmas cards. I have never kept anything from her. The rebuttals you send are pure nonsense and do not address the point at hand. Thanks for not sending anymore. It wastes time and effort when you choose to discuss other issues. THIS IS ABOUT PROVIDING FOR KIMBERLY. My point is Steve is a deadbeat. Prove me wrong make sure he pays his support. He has only recently just begun paying child support again on both cases. I should not have to spend my time making sure that he does pay his support. It should be something he does gladly and willingly. It should be CONSISTANT. It's for Kimberly. I'm glad that he loves Kimberly. Unfortunately you can't live off love alone. Love doesn't pay the bills. Do not convey that you and Steve have provided cell phone #'s and a current address to me. Cellular phone #'s are not published. The landline phone # listed for your husband has been disconnected. Skip Tracers come in handy when the NCP moves and doesn't provide the new information. I will send you the addresses that you will need to investigate the sexual abuse allegations. I have nothing to prove to you or Steve and will not do the footwork for you. Steve's brother is a CONVICTED felon. I don't claim to be perfect but I strive to do the best I can. I provide for Kimberly and only ask that Steve do the same. My children are my world and I take care of them. My requests are not complicated. Pay child support and assist with medical/dental costs as they arise. How could Steve refuse that? I do not need to call and chat with either one of you. The court order explains what actions should be taken in reference to Kimberly. I shouldn't have to talk to Steve via you. By you choosing to fight Steve's battle you are placing yourself in the middle. If Steve were half the changed man you say he is then I wouldn't have had to go to the lengths I have to collect child support. He wanted to be a part of her life but he didn't want to provide for her financially. Take Care Natalie, and please make sure you husband keeps paying support for his children. We wouldn't have to discuss this if he had paid his support as ordered in the first place. I understand he has made mistakes but he has had ample time to learn from the experiences and correct them. Have A Blessed Day,

Your husband is the one that needs to grow up. Save your opinions for someone that cares. I would never publish information on my website(s) that is not accurate. If Steve dictated the 6/9 rebuttal, why did he claim to Kimberly he did not write the letter and was unaware if you did? Sounds like you need to collaborate on your stories. The $100 that has allegedly been sent will be applied toward the senior portraits. The sitting fee alone was $40.00. I never said the money was for me. I don't need money from Steve for my personal use. The money that is sent to Kimberly is used solely on her. It's a shame that you implied that things were kept from Kimberly. The fact is neither Steve nor his family acknowledge Kimberly during any celebrations. They do not send birthday or Christmas cards. I have never kept anything from her. The rebuttals you send are pure nonsense and do not address the point at hand. Thanks for not sending anymore. It wastes time and effort when you choose to discuss other issues. THIS IS ABOUT PROVIDING FOR KIMBERLY. My point is Steve is a deadbeat. Prove me wrong make sure he pays his support. He has only recently just begun paying child support again on both cases. I should not have to spend my time making sure that he does pay his support. It should be something he does gladly and willingly. It should be CONSISTANT. It's for Kimberly. I'm glad that he loves Kimberly. Unfortunately you can't live off love alone. Love doesn't pay the bills. Do not convey that you and Steve have provided cell phone #'s and a current address to me. Cellular phone #'s are not published. The landline phone # listed for your husband has been disconnected. Skip Tracers come in handy when the NCP moves and doesn't provide the new information. I will send you the addresses that you will need to investigate the sexual abuse allegations. I have nothing to prove to you or Steve and will not do the footwork for you. Steve's brother is a CONVICTED felon. I don't claim to be perfect but I strive to do the best I can. I provide for Kimberly and only ask that Steve do the same. My children are my world and I take care of them. My requests are not complicated. Pay child support and assist with medical/dental costs as they arise. How could Steve refuse that? I do not need to call and chat with either one of you. The court order explains what actions should be taken in reference to Kimberly. I shouldn't have to talk to Steve via you. By you choosing to fight Steve's battle you are placing yourself in the middle. If Steve were half the changed man you say he is then I wouldn't have had to go to the lengths I have to collect child support. He wanted to be a part of her life but he didn't want to provide for her financially. Take Care Natalie, and please make sure you husband keeps paying support for his children. We wouldn't have to discuss this if he had paid his support as ordered in the first place. I understand he has made mistakes but he has had ample time to learn from the experiences and correct them. Have A Blessed Day,

I'm over the games. If Kimberly chooses to contact her dad, that is between the two of them. You might also advise her then, that she too is in contempt. I haven't emailed you personally at all. Don't make accusations that I have done so. As far as you receiving the $100 no, you won't. It isn't for you. Maybe she didn't receive things in the past because they were kept from her. I don't have time for these long worthless emails. They accomplish nothing and they surely don't get anyone anywhere. We , by the way, aren't the ones getting in contact with Kimberly. She calls us. The previous letter was typed by me, but dictated by Steve. Therefore, no-one impersonated anyone. This is the last rebuttal you will receive from either one of us. So, feel free to post whatever you choose. If you have so much to say, you know our phone numbers as well. They aren't unpublished either. You have had Steve's cell phone number for quite some time. We have only moved one time, so that can't be an excuse. One more thing, about the drug rehab. At least he had enough brains to know he had a problem, and he went and fixed it. Most people don't care. You really should update the payment received notice. Since you do have quite a few payments to post. If you would like to chat, feel free to call, you know our numbers. You also have our address, so feel free to send us the information needed for the proof on the child molestation charges. No-one seems to have this proof but you. About the brother, it never happened, so believe what you choose Mrs. PERFECT. God didn't make everyone as perfect as him, EXCEPT YOU, it seems. Take Care Amy, and please continue to do such a good job raising your children.

I had to grab a tissue while reading your post. I'm so tired of hearing your poor pitiful me story. Get over yourself. This is not about you. It's about Kimberly. I refuse to discuss you being accused of sexually molesting your daughter. Once again you have shown your IQ. How dare you bring this up. This is not the place to discuss this issue. Please contact me privately to get the information you will need to investigate the accusation for yourself. By the way, you forgot to mention that your brother is a convicted child molester. He is a registered sex offender with the Lee County Sheriffs Office. Do you need the website address? Moving right along, please elaborate on your continuous attempts to get visitation for eight years and the thousands of dollars you spent. Was this before or after drug rehab? You were in no shape to take care of my child during your drug crazed days. Admit it. We still live in the same area you grew up in. How is it you continued to nurture your relationship with your parents and siblings but did not try to establish a relationship with your child. Neither you nor your parents contacted me to arrange visits. You have always been able to contact any member of my family. None of us have unlisted phone # s. What money did you spend while trying to get visitation of Kimberly? I have only taken you to court to enforce the existing child support order. You represented yourself each time. No money spent there. You don't have to pay for a hotel while you are here because you stay with family. You have had 17 years to get your life together and reconcile with your daughter. Your visitation was ended due to your own negligence. I can not and will not hide the fact that you are and have been in contempt of the court order. Is it too much to ask of you to follow the court order? What kind of message are you sending to your daughter by not abiding by court orders? I do not bad mouth you. I don't have to. She is well aware of your shortcomings by your own actions. 2001 Oh yes, lets discuss this fiasco. I might add this was your first and last overnight visitation. You knew what you were up against before you were allowed the overnight visitation. As part of the court order, you were ordered to participate in family sessions with Kimberly and her psychologist. We discussed in and out of those meetings there would be no corporal punishment. You took it upon yourself to spank a 15-year-old emotionally disturbed child. At this time you had not been alone with Kimberly in 8 years!! Yes she retaliated. She should not have hit you back and cursed at you but what did you expect? I must add your behavior was not much better. You attempted to refrain her from calling me to come get her. Why? She had clearly told you she was ready to come home. Once I did arrive to pick her up you ran to my vehicle and immediately attempted to explain yourself. The only problem was I heard you screaming and yelling at my child when she phoned me to come rescue her. You were clearly not acting as a responsible adult. I sent her with a cell phone so that your mother would not incur long distance charges when Kimberly phoned home but that phone also came in handy to remove her from an out of control situation. 2002 The psychologist advised no further visitation should be scheduled and phone and/or email communications should be monitored by because.. Kimberly successfully used you and Natalie to keep secrets from me. Instead of you and Natalie trying to be her best friend you should have been acting as responsible parents. You only pay child support when you have a job. Lets analyze this statement. Did you not have a job for the entire 8 years you were absent from Kimberly's life? To this day neither you nor your family send her birthday cards or Christmas cards to her. How do you justify this? If we do check the record of your payment history this is what you will find. As of 2/13/2004 you owed $20,794.06. If you pay your support as ordered why as of 6/2004 do you owe $21,531.96? Ok that fact proved lets move on. You pay on more than one child. Since you brought it up lets discuss this. Again you are demonstrating your intelligence. You have 2 separate cases of court ordered child support. We have already proven with my case, case one, you do not pay as ordered. On case 2 you recently went to court on contempt charges for failure to pay child support. Imagine that!! I do agree with your statement that one child is not better than the other. Why did you continue having children if you couldn't provide for and take care of your first two? Once again more irresponsible behavior on your part. It bothers me that you are admitting you are aware that you are not supposed to be communicating with my daughter without my knowledge and you continue to do so. Have you not learned your lesson? As I have told you before in previous letters, I am following the court order and I don't expect any less from you. It appears Kimberly did call you and request money to help pay for her senior portraits. Have you ever paid for any of her pictures during her entire life? No. What is wrong with her asking? All children ask for money at one time or another. How far do you think $300.00 a month goes? That is not nearly enough to raise a child. You do not provide any medical insurance or reimburse me for any medical deductibles or co pays. In fact, you were court ordered to reimburse me for your of the psychologist. Did you pay? No. You stuck me with the entire bill. Do you remember that? I know it just slipped your mind. I sent notices and copies of the invoices to the home address you provided me. I have not seen the extra $100 and do not anticipate receiving it. Many times you have told my daughter you were sending things and they never got here. Imagine that. I guess they got lost in the mail. My daughter will be the first to tell you that I do not hinder you from having a relationship with her. Since you can't be trusted to act as a responsible adult I'm here to protect my child and her best interests. If you would speak for yourself and not allow your wife to fight your battles you might get somewhere with Kimberly. Who is your wife going to impersonate this week? Nice talking to you again Natalie.

Justice will prevail in the end, for all. I am Steven Blackmon and do I ever have a long story. I will make this as brief as possible. I have continually been accused of sexually molesting my daughter. Never in my life would I do such a thing. Then, my brother was accused. Never was their any proof, and never was anyone charged or found guilty. All lies, and total deceit. Even, the child knows now the truth. It never ever happened. After continuos attempts to get visitation with my daughter for eight years and thousands of dollars later, I lost my rights and visitation and contact with my daughter. She was born in 1987 and all contact ended when she was 8 yrs old. She has alot of anger due to no father, and incorrect information from other maternal family members. Due to no contact from me, my child , Kimberly only knows what she has been told. In 2001 Kimberly contacted me , and we slowly began talking and trying to start some sort of relationship. That all ended , due to major disagreements between Kimberly and I. Once again , court orders no contact. She then wanted no contact with me or my family. I started paying child support then, and continued until I lost my job. When I had a job, I always paid. When I didn't have a job, I couldn't pay. I called child support, and gave them my new employer information and notified my new employer of the case number(s), because i do pay on more than one child. One child is not better than the other. I love all of my children with all of my heart. I recently received a phone call from my daughter asking me for money for her senior photos. This was the first phone call since 2002 when I was ordered not to contact her. Not by phone, email, or any other way. Only by way of her mother, who I can't talk to because she always wants to argue. I am now sending her $100 over the $300 monthly support I currently pay. She advised me she was only calling me for money. I love my daughter, and if her mother would leave us alone and let us try to have a relationship on our own, we might be okay. I do pay for my child, just check the records. Thank you,

My daughter was in a similiar situation just a few years ago. If you have COURT ORDERED child support you can contact a company such as CLICK here to see why Rip-off Report, as a matter of policy, deleted either a phone number, link or e-mail address from this Report. You cannot advertise another company for profit (there are others) who for 35% of what you are owed, will find the ex and slap a court order on him. These are debt collection agencies, and they can play by a different set of rules. They DO get results I finally convinced my daughter after 16 years of no child support and absolutely no help from the prosecutors office to do this. 65% of $65,000 (which was what was owed her at the time) is much better than 100% of nothing. To her suprise she filled out their paperwork and within a month had $3,000 and is still receiving 105.00 every 2 weeks. She was in Indiana and he was in Texas. He quits his job and they find him and make him catch up on payments if any were missed. He is so mad that he finally had to pay. Also, in the state of Indiana they charged him interest on the 16 years of missed payments. Child is now 25 and he is STILL paying.

I am happy to report that I have received 2 payments since my post. 5/3/2004 - payment received $17.31 5/7/2004 - payment received $75.00 I am extremely disgusted by the fact Steve Blackmon only paid to keep his driver license from being suspended. He should not have to be forced to take care of his child. Many thanks go to Rip Off Report, Lee County Department of Human Resources, and the Florida Department of Revenue.

I am happy to report that I have received 2 payments since my post. 5/3/2004 - payment received $17.31 5/7/2004 - payment received $75.00 I am extremely disgusted by the fact Steve Blackmon only paid to keep his driver license from being suspended. He should not have to be forced to take care of his child. Many thanks go to Rip Off Report, Lee County Department of Human Resources, and the Florida Department of Revenue.

I am happy to report that I have received 2 payments since my post. 5/3/2004 - payment received $17.31 5/7/2004 - payment received $75.00 I am extremely disgusted by the fact Steve Blackmon only paid to keep his driver license from being suspended. He should not have to be forced to take care of his child. Many thanks go to Rip Off Report, Lee County Department of Human Resources, and the Florida Department of Revenue.

I am happy to report that I have received 2 payments since my post. 5/3/2004 - payment received $17.31 5/7/2004 - payment received $75.00 I am extremely disgusted by the fact Steve Blackmon only paid to keep his driver license from being suspended. He should not have to be forced to take care of his child. Many thanks go to Rip Off Report, Lee County Department of Human Resources, and the Florida Department of Revenue.