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  • Report:  #413192

Complaint Review: Victor Brian Close - Lakewood Colorado

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- Lakewood, Colorado,
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Victor Brian Close
[email protected] Lakewood, 80227 Colorado, U.S.A.
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This man is absolutely amazing.... 4 years and 3 months and has yet to have even so much as paid for cough medicine for his two girls that he claims to love so much. What's even more disgusting is that in order to avoid answering the question as to why he's never stepped up to the plate to help support his children, he tells them that I'm emotionally unsupportive and manipulates a 12 & 15 year old into thinking that I am an unfit mother who doesn't deserve help or support to the point that I'm now facing the possibility of losing my two children from a beautiful home that I worked my whole life... alone... to provide them.

This man has never held a job for more than a year in his entire life... is currently unemployed with two teenage girls living with him because after a week long visit as opposed to their usual 4 days a month, he's managed to manipulate them into thinking I'm the worst mother ever.... all because he knew I was coming after him for some support for our children.

Now, my beautiful girls are torn and confused, completely disrupted and living in an apartment complex affectionatly known locally as the "crack shacks". At this moment, I sit here trying to figure out how to scrape up enough money to hire a lawyer to help me get my girls back.

I've struggled my whole life for them, I got an education after the first two years of marriage to this jerk because he could never hold a job and we could never pay our rent or utilitiy bills. What's even more disturbing is that he's now seeing a younger woman, a widow with two children and I think she's the one who has been paying his rent for the last 8 months he's been unemployed. The last two jobs he had, he quit because he didn't feel like he was being treated fairly. When you have two children to support, you don't quit your job! If your unhappy, you find a new job to replace the old one then you quit. His own pride is worth more to him than his children but he's too gifted a con-artisit for them to ever see....

Struggling mom

Lakewood, Colorado

U.S.A.


7 Updates & Rebuttals

Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
AN EXPERIENCED, LICENSED ATTORNEY WHO KNOWS COLORADO FAMILY LAW WOULD KNOW BEST

#2Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

She is STILL going to need to talk with the judge who signed off on the original divorce decree because he is the one who issued the visitation order and it is obvious to me that the ex violated the terms of his visitation by taking the children and NOT returning them as specified in the divorce decree. It is up to the judge who issued the original ruling to demand the return of the children to their rightful guardian.... and I believe you will find that is true in ANY state. If the original Judge is deceased or otherwise unavailable, his/her successor would probably need to know the facts in the case in order to make a ruling. I know what I would do in her situation but I do not live in Colorado. WHAT IS APPLICABLE IN MY STATE OR EVEN YOUR STATE MIGHT NOT APPLY IN There. THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, FAMILY LAW IS STILL WRITTEN BY THE INDIVIDUAL STATE LEGISLATURES. WHICH IS WHY I URGED HER TO CONSULT WITH AN ATTORNEY WHO IS LICENSED TO PRACTICE LAW IN HER STATE, ESPECIALLY FAMILY LAW. WHERE I LIVE, INITIAL CONSULTATION IS FREE AND A LICENSED, EXPERIENCED-IN-COLORADO ATTORNEY WOULD BE BEST QUALIFIED TO ADVISE HER AS TO HER OPTIONS AND PROBABLY THINK OF SOME NOBODY WHO IS AN "OUTSIDER" COULD DO. (Most attorneys I know have payment plans and that should be discussed at the outset.) AS FAR AS I KNOW, THE MODEL FAMILY CODE HAS NOT BEEN ADOPTED BY THE ENTIRE USA YET! Which means that there are STILL differences in the states regarding the practice of family law. And an experienced attorney who is licensed to practice law in general and family law in specific in Colorado would know his/her rules of court a lot better than anyone else. I invite ANY and ALL COLORADO ATTORNEYS to give their feedback!


Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
AN EXPERIENCED, LICENSED ATTORNEY WHO KNOWS COLORADO FAMILY LAW WOULD KNOW BEST

#3Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

She is STILL going to need to talk with the judge who signed off on the original divorce decree because he is the one who issued the visitation order and it is obvious to me that the ex violated the terms of his visitation by taking the children and NOT returning them as specified in the divorce decree. It is up to the judge who issued the original ruling to demand the return of the children to their rightful guardian.... and I believe you will find that is true in ANY state. If the original Judge is deceased or otherwise unavailable, his/her successor would probably need to know the facts in the case in order to make a ruling. I know what I would do in her situation but I do not live in Colorado. WHAT IS APPLICABLE IN MY STATE OR EVEN YOUR STATE MIGHT NOT APPLY IN There. THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, FAMILY LAW IS STILL WRITTEN BY THE INDIVIDUAL STATE LEGISLATURES. WHICH IS WHY I URGED HER TO CONSULT WITH AN ATTORNEY WHO IS LICENSED TO PRACTICE LAW IN HER STATE, ESPECIALLY FAMILY LAW. WHERE I LIVE, INITIAL CONSULTATION IS FREE AND A LICENSED, EXPERIENCED-IN-COLORADO ATTORNEY WOULD BE BEST QUALIFIED TO ADVISE HER AS TO HER OPTIONS AND PROBABLY THINK OF SOME NOBODY WHO IS AN "OUTSIDER" COULD DO. (Most attorneys I know have payment plans and that should be discussed at the outset.) AS FAR AS I KNOW, THE MODEL FAMILY CODE HAS NOT BEEN ADOPTED BY THE ENTIRE USA YET! Which means that there are STILL differences in the states regarding the practice of family law. And an experienced attorney who is licensed to practice law in general and family law in specific in Colorado would know his/her rules of court a lot better than anyone else. I invite ANY and ALL COLORADO ATTORNEYS to give their feedback!


Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
AN EXPERIENCED, LICENSED ATTORNEY WHO KNOWS COLORADO FAMILY LAW WOULD KNOW BEST

#4Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

She is STILL going to need to talk with the judge who signed off on the original divorce decree because he is the one who issued the visitation order and it is obvious to me that the ex violated the terms of his visitation by taking the children and NOT returning them as specified in the divorce decree. It is up to the judge who issued the original ruling to demand the return of the children to their rightful guardian.... and I believe you will find that is true in ANY state. If the original Judge is deceased or otherwise unavailable, his/her successor would probably need to know the facts in the case in order to make a ruling. I know what I would do in her situation but I do not live in Colorado. WHAT IS APPLICABLE IN MY STATE OR EVEN YOUR STATE MIGHT NOT APPLY IN There. THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, FAMILY LAW IS STILL WRITTEN BY THE INDIVIDUAL STATE LEGISLATURES. WHICH IS WHY I URGED HER TO CONSULT WITH AN ATTORNEY WHO IS LICENSED TO PRACTICE LAW IN HER STATE, ESPECIALLY FAMILY LAW. WHERE I LIVE, INITIAL CONSULTATION IS FREE AND A LICENSED, EXPERIENCED-IN-COLORADO ATTORNEY WOULD BE BEST QUALIFIED TO ADVISE HER AS TO HER OPTIONS AND PROBABLY THINK OF SOME NOBODY WHO IS AN "OUTSIDER" COULD DO. (Most attorneys I know have payment plans and that should be discussed at the outset.) AS FAR AS I KNOW, THE MODEL FAMILY CODE HAS NOT BEEN ADOPTED BY THE ENTIRE USA YET! Which means that there are STILL differences in the states regarding the practice of family law. And an experienced attorney who is licensed to practice law in general and family law in specific in Colorado would know his/her rules of court a lot better than anyone else. I invite ANY and ALL COLORADO ATTORNEYS to give their feedback!


Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
AN EXPERIENCED, LICENSED ATTORNEY WHO KNOWS COLORADO FAMILY LAW WOULD KNOW BEST

#5Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

She is STILL going to need to talk with the judge who signed off on the original divorce decree because he is the one who issued the visitation order and it is obvious to me that the ex violated the terms of his visitation by taking the children and NOT returning them as specified in the divorce decree. It is up to the judge who issued the original ruling to demand the return of the children to their rightful guardian.... and I believe you will find that is true in ANY state. If the original Judge is deceased or otherwise unavailable, his/her successor would probably need to know the facts in the case in order to make a ruling. I know what I would do in her situation but I do not live in Colorado. WHAT IS APPLICABLE IN MY STATE OR EVEN YOUR STATE MIGHT NOT APPLY IN There. THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, FAMILY LAW IS STILL WRITTEN BY THE INDIVIDUAL STATE LEGISLATURES. WHICH IS WHY I URGED HER TO CONSULT WITH AN ATTORNEY WHO IS LICENSED TO PRACTICE LAW IN HER STATE, ESPECIALLY FAMILY LAW. WHERE I LIVE, INITIAL CONSULTATION IS FREE AND A LICENSED, EXPERIENCED-IN-COLORADO ATTORNEY WOULD BE BEST QUALIFIED TO ADVISE HER AS TO HER OPTIONS AND PROBABLY THINK OF SOME NOBODY WHO IS AN "OUTSIDER" COULD DO. (Most attorneys I know have payment plans and that should be discussed at the outset.) AS FAR AS I KNOW, THE MODEL FAMILY CODE HAS NOT BEEN ADOPTED BY THE ENTIRE USA YET! Which means that there are STILL differences in the states regarding the practice of family law. And an experienced attorney who is licensed to practice law in general and family law in specific in Colorado would know his/her rules of court a lot better than anyone else. I invite ANY and ALL COLORADO ATTORNEYS to give their feedback!


Robert

Buffalo,
New York,
U.S.A.
Family court.

#6Consumer Suggestion

Mon, January 19, 2009

1. Go to family court. You don't NEED an attorney to petition the court for child support and/or visitation. An attorney is helpful but not required. Further the court will appoint a law guardian to represent the children in this matter. Be aware that in most jurisdictions, when the children hit about 14 years, the court will weigh HEAVILY on the desires of the children as regards where they will live. 2. Ignore the "I'm not a lawyer" Joe.


Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
BY THE WAY... I FORGOT TO ADD MY USUAL DISCLAIMER

#7Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

I AM NOT AN ATTORNEY AT LAW WHO IS LICENSED TO PRACTICE LAW IN COLORADO OR ANYPLACE ELSE IN THE USA. I AM NOT GIVING YOU LEGAL ADVICE OR EVEN MARGINALLY LEGAL ADVICE. I AM NOT AN ATTORNEY. A FRIEND OF MINE HERE SUGGESTED THAT YOU MIGHT SEE IF YOU CAN FIND A DEPROGRAMMER TO ATTEMPT TO RECOVER YOUR DAUGHTERS FOR YOU. THESE ARE THE SAME PEOPLE WHO REMOVE YOUNG PEOPLE FROM CULTS. AND THE REMARKS I MADE EARLIER SHOULD ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY NOT BE PUT INTO ACTION WITHOUT CONSULTING WITH AN ATTORNEY AT LAW EXCEPT FOR THE SUGGESTION ABOUT THE VALIDITY OF THE VISITATION ORDER -- AND I WOULD RUN THAT ONE BY AN ATTORNEY TOO.


Joe

Austin,
Texas,
U.S.A.
HE IS SUBJECTING HIS CHILDREN TO EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND I HAVE TWO WAYS YOU CAN STOP IT

#8Consumer Comment

Mon, January 19, 2009

FIRST OF ALL, HAS THE DIVORCE DECREE CONCERNING VISITATION RIGHTS BEEN MODIFIED? IF NOT, HE IS PLAINLY IN VIOLATION OF THE VISITATION ORDERS AND I WOULD CONTACT THE JUDGE WHO SIGNED OFF ON THE ORDERS AND ADVISE HIM THAT YOUR EX DID NOT RETURN YOUR CHILDREN FROM THEIR VISITATION AND THEY ARE IN AN UNSAFE ENVIRONMENT AND HE IS NOT PROVIDING THEM WITH A STABLE HOME ENVIRONMENT EITHER... YOU CAN ALSO CALL THE NATIONAL CHILD ABUSE HOTLINE AND TELL THEM WHAT HE IS DOING WITH HIS TWO DAUGHTERS -- HOW CAN A MAN RAISE TWO DAUGHTERS ANYWAY WHEN THEY NEED THEIR MOTHER? HE MIGHT BE USING THEM FOR CHILD PORN PURPOSES OR RENTING THEM OUT FOR MONEY OR EVEN ENCOURAGING THEM TO TURN TRICKS AND HE IS PREVENTING THEIR MOTHER FROM SEEING THEM WHICH IS ILLEGAL SINCE SHE IS THE MAIN CUSTODIAL PARENT. I DON'T THINK YOU HAVE TO GIVE YOUR NAME WHEN YOU REPORT THIS. I ALSO RECOMMEND THAT YOU NOT DO THIS FROM YOUR HOME PHONE OR A CELL PHONE YOU INTEND TO KEEP. THERE ARE PHONE CALLS AVAILABLE WHICH WORK IN PAYPHONES -- ASSUMING YOU CAN STILL FIND ONE, THAT IS. A THIRD OPTION IS TO FILE A FALSE IMPRISONMENT CHARGE AGAINST HIM FOR KEEPING YOUR DAUGHTERS AWAY FROM YOU WHEN HE HAS NO RIGHT TO DO SO OR A MISSING PERSONS REPORT WITH THE POLICE FOR THE RETURN OF YOUR CHILDREN. THINK VERY CAREFULLY ABOUT THIS OPTION. YOU MIGHT ALSO WANT TO CONSIDER CHARGES OF CHILD ENDANGERMENT AS WELL. MORE THAN LIKELY, THE POLICE WILL JUST REFER YOU BACK TO THE COURT BUT IT IS AN OPTION .YOU MIGHT WANT TO CONSIDER FILINGVB A POLICE REPORT, TELLING THEM WHAT HAPPENED IN CASE THERE MIGHT BE SOMETHING THEY COULD SO SINCE I DO NOT KNOW THE LAWS IN YOUR STATE. IF YOU ARE THE PRIMARY CUSTODIAL PARENT YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILDREN, NOT HIM SO YOU BETTER GET STARTED ON TRYING TO GET YOUR DAUGHTERS BACK BEFORE HIS EMOTIONAL ABUSE BECOMES PHYSICAL !

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