Complaint Review: Cheryl Cowdrey - Fenton Michigan

And as for the comments from people who do not identify themselves- you are cowards.

"I clicked on your post, since I am a fellow Michigander. Boy, was I disappointed"
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  BUT YET YOU FELT IT WAS WORTH YOUR TIME TO READ THROUGH IT AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO RESPOND TO IT. I THINK IT'S HILARIOUS THAT YOU RIDICULE IT AS BEING JERRY SPRINGERISH AND THEN DECIDE TO JOIN IN ON THE JERRY SPRINGER THEME BY YOUR YOUR "DISGRACE" COMMENT.
  YOU'RE JUST ANOTHER "BETTER THEN EVERYONE ELSE" CHRISTIAN I'M SURE. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU MIGHT EVEN GO TO THE SAME CHURCH AS CHERYL AND HER ARMY.
  IT DOESN'T MEAN MUCH YOU CALLING ME A DISGRACE TO MICHIGAN AS I'M SURE YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY TOWARDS JEWS,BLACKS,HISPANICS,HOMO-SEXUALS AND WHO EVER ELSE YOU CHURCH PEOPLE LOVE TO HATE.
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"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."


  --  Mahatma Gandhi

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I clicked on your post, since I am a fellow Michigander. Boy, was I disappointed. You have used this CONSUMER-oriented advocacy site to air your own personal vendettas. This site should be used to warn others of businesses or entrepreneurs that have scammed or otherwise misled you in a business transaction.

By listing a long diatribe on your personal life you have: (a) given out way too much info, (b) created a Jerry Springer-esque tone, (c) presented yourself as a great libel candidate, should Cheryl Cowdrey want to sue you over your accusations.

I have no idea who you or Cheryl Cowdrey are, but I would advise you to settle your differences like grown adults and not 14 year-olds on Facebook and Myspace.

You give Michigan a bad name.

 If you shift through superwanks childish name calling and dribble you will see that she,unlike Cheryl's other friends,actually commented on one of my points.
 You would think by the vicious nature of Cheryl's so called "Christian" army that they would be trying to find faults in my report but they actually CONFIRMED one of my points. Please read superwanks comment that includes the quote "That was something that was likely very difficult for her to confide in anyone, and you abuse this confidence"
  superwank (stacy) acts concerned that someone will be hurt by what someone else said but then confirms it as truth.
  Wow Christians are just weird weird people.

  Once again Cheryl's army further proves my point. These people cannot disclaim me so they must resort to name calling and insults and once again I will provide the facts.
  Cheryl calls herself a Christian but as you have read tells people that she regrets having her children because they held her back in life. Doesn't the Bible say to love your children?
  As you have read,Cheryl thinks of herself as "better then me" but doesn't the Bible say that we are all the same?
 Doesn't the Bible say to turn your cheek and love your enemies? Why does Cheryl have her friends responding to my factual post with name calling and insults?
  so is Cheryl really a Christian or does she go to church to use it like she uses everyone else in her life? Would Cheryl go to church if they didn't provide her with money? I doubt it.
  Why are Cheryl's friends more concerned about my job situation then the points I made in my post. It's because the more they can focus on me then the less they'll have to focus on the truth.
  Dave,Cheryl's other ex happens to be a well respected medical professional. The best in his field in fact. He had the guts to publicly say who he was on here, why don't you w**k? 

First of all it seems to me that Cheryl must be pretty special if these two goons can't possibly find a way to let go of her.

Listen up you two, the best cure for loneliness is to go out and find another woman. Clearly your time could be better spent trolling for skanks in your local watering hole instead of badgering Cheryl and her family. Of course, what else could be expected from an ex-husband with self-esteem so low that he calls his former wife incessantly, screaming and making idle threats in order to puff himself up and make himself feel better about the poor hand he's been dealt in life? Dave-O, you should have been the bigger man and left this site alone. You've no business here, you are just an angry, balding little man piggy-backing off of somebody else's bad idea. You may be a turd, but Cheryl gave you years of her life instead of mere months with Steve-O. As you mentioned before, you made two beautiful children with her. Why drag their mother through the slime of internet infamousy? What respect does that show them? You need to keep this stuff between you and Cheryl for their sake, but you care as little for them as you do for her. This is evident in how you handled something told to you in confidence by Cheryl about how she may or may not have felt about Cassandra's birth. That was something that was likely very difficult for her to confide in anyone, and you abuse this confidence and disrespect her and Cassandra by airing it out here, in the least appropriate of places. What kind of man are you? Can you imagine the heartbreak this will cause Cassandra when she Googles her mother's name for the first time? Does a sleazeball like you even care? Cheryl is a big girl and can handle whatever (threats) you send her way, but you had better leave her children out of it.

Again, you should have left this stupidity to Steve-O but as everyone knows, you are an angry, scorned little boy with low self-esteem and therefore need a friend, a "Brother-In-Arms" if you will to help give you courage. There is something to be said about strength in numbers after all, and one has now become two. You two retards deserve each other.

Speaking of retards, spell checkers are free and come with all word-processors coded in the 21st century. Use them, for the sake of we humble English-speakers. Please.

And Steve-O, as for you, let it go. Please, for your own sake let it go. You didn't measure up for whatever reason and Cheryl dumped you. It happens to all of us (just ask Dave-O), the difference between you and most every other man is that we handle it with dignity and maintain a shred of self-respect. We don't air our embarrassment over the nets for everyone, including our former girlfriend's 12 year old daughter, to see. It's pathetic, but then again, so are you. You gave Cheryl money and gifts, nobody made you do so, and what happens between Cheryl and her church is between Cheryl and her church. It's none of your business, or anyone else's for that matter. Cheryl owes you nothing.

As far as Cheryl changing her mind about dating you is concerned: Have you ever had a girlfriend before in your life before her? All women are like this, ask them yourself and they'll tell you the same. Most can't make up their minds and immediately regret decisions of love. Or in the case of you and her, temporary insanity. Thankfully for Cheryl and her children, she got wise when she got rid of you. You are unstable and obsessed, once you find a job, you should seek therapy.

It seems to me that Cheryl's only real mistake was getting involved with a couple of dopes that weren't good enough for her in the first place.

Nobody's perfect, I suppose. Live and learn.

A couple of points of fact I can clear up.

TIFFANY - DURAND 

A couple of points of fact I can clear up.

TIFFANY - DURAND 

 Not surprisingly the only person in Cheryl's army that cannot find anything to say is Cheryl herself. I can think of no bigger proof to validate my report.

So you were used by a woman, big deal, it happens,

This website is not for broken hearts, no one could use you unless you let them use you.

Get over it and move on

shes not even cute... you ripped yourself off... 

also, I went to school at Hill Valley High and there were lots Cheryl there. they love the attention and are willing to take whatever measures to get it. I love Batman and his awesomely positive nature. 

that should solve your problem Steve-O!!

 Once again Tiffany,you haven't a clue of what you're talking about. You say I have a short temper but the only time I've lost my temper around Cheryl was at the Apache round-up. I apologized profusely and all was forgiven. The facts were very much exaggerated too as the person in question is as much of a story teller as Cheryl is.  In fact the relationship went on for months after this without it ever being mentioned. In fact Cheryl herself lost her temper for the same reason regarding the same issue.
  These "police reports" you are talking about was nothing more then an officer calling me to see what the problem was. He told me that Cheryl has severe issues and it would be best to stay away from her. It was nothing more then that as much as you'd like it to be.
 You say that I had no right yelling at her child and you are right. I lost my temper and apologized. I have heard Cheryl herself threaten violence against her same child. Cheryl Threatening to smack a child is wrong but I've noticed how you left that part out. Cheryl also told me that for many years she resented this child even being born because it held her back in life.
  I think if Cheryl really cared about her children the way you say she does then she would quit school and get a job to support them then return to school when she has enough money saved up for tuition. What she is doing right now is foolish. She is living off student loans and will be paying them back most of her life. She'll be no further ahead then she is now.
  You say I am a loser because I have no job. well, my response to that is that I'm not in any kind of danger. I saved an emergency fund while I was working (and I've been working since I was 16 years old) for emergencies just like this bad economy.
  I'm sure you don't have anything intelligent to say about any of this and will just be responding with more name calling and threats. It's ok though. You are just helping me strengthen my point that the whole church thing is more about freebies then worship to you people. 
 

If everyone around you is crazy, maybe it's time to check the mirror. No matter what a child says or does, it does not justify screaming obscenities at that child. I think everyone's family is probably somewhat dysfunctional, but you are off the charts. Leave things alone, mmmkay? Stop calling her, and stop contacting her family.

You got it Steve and keep that in mind:  "Cheryls Army".  You started this.  You obviously did not respond to the fact that you have called friends and family of hers and the police reports that have had to be filed on you. 

#2 Let me tell you that asking for help while she is trying to better herself is not shameful.  She does recieve help because she is not too proud to ask for it to be able to care for her family.  She is a single mother going to school and works very hard to better herself and her families life.  What are you doing?  Point made.  There is no point in this, she broke it off with you because you are a disturbed individual who adds nothing to her life.  Get over it.

#3, And yes-the flowers were from me, if it were the case I was the one she was seeing:  thats pretty sad for you.

 The responses to my report is only proof on how crazy these people really are. Although Cheryl claims to be a loving and forgiving Christian, her army of friends and family just go to prove my point on their true colors.
  Unable to disprove the points in my report,they resort to name calling and attacking my character. It is all they have.
  Yes I am laid off from work but so is 3/4 of the rest of Michigan. Cheryl also doesn't have a job. I have given much to Cheryl and her children even though I could barely afford it. The difference is that Cheryl needs to rely on handouts from the church and friends. I on the other hand am doing just fine fending for myself. so who is the real loser?

This website is here to provide people with a place to warn other poeple about being ripped off.  In my opinion, you were not ripped off.  What you are is angry that Cheryl treated you the way she did.  I agree with you in the fact that she treated you unfairly but it certainly wasn't a rip off.  You may have given her gifts and money (which would also be considered gifts) but still there is no rip off here.  I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find someone you can trust.

Can I ask why it is that you are contacting members of her family and her friends then?  I'm also wondering how you supported her when you don't even have a job.  You need psychological help if you think that if someone writes a blog about you that it is asking for your attention.  Why is it that you won't leave her alone?  I am glad that you wrote this report though, if anything happens for the bad for Cheryl-we have proof of a stalker, slanderer and harassment all right here on one page.  Thanks for that.

 You bought her flowers when she dumped me? So you were the one she was seeing besides me?

 Cowardice seems a big word for someone who posts anonymously. I have only been camping with her kids once and besides a bullying incident with my own child that had to be cleared up, everything went good. We all had fun actually.

You will be very lucky if she does not press slander and harassment charges #1.  And #2, YOU were the problem.  Nobody in her family even liked you and I bought her flowers when she dumped you the first time.  Doesn't that tell you something?  Take your loser life and go worsen someone elses who deserves you,,not Cheryl-she is and was always way above you.

 Cowardice is a big word for someone who posts anonymously.
  You don't know what you talk about anyway.You say "some" of our camping trips but I was only on one camping trip with her children in which my own child was bullied and intimidated. I will protect my child even if it does mean using "foul" language.

I happen to know, Steve, that Cheryl was, in fact, threatened with death. I received her phone call shortly after she was threatened. She was bawling. I also know how you conducted yourself around her children on some of the camping trips the two of you took together. If I had been there, the situation would have been diffused, and you would not have been a happy person. Your continued contacts with certain members of Cheryl's family just shows your cowardice. You seem to pick on the young, and female members of her family. Your use of foul language and shows of force via your short temper speaks volumes about the person you are. If you truly want to be done with the relationship, stop contacting her and her family.

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