Auntie Birda
Patterson,#2UPDATE EX-employee responds
Sun, December 07, 2008
I am so angry that a woman who was only dating a man for a very short period with no commitments and becomes pregnant does not take any of the responsability in destroying a relationship with a father and daughter. The reason he was not in Meridith's life for 8 years was due to the Mother not allowing Meridiths father to see her with out Meridiths mother with her. He did not want a relationship with the mother only the daughter. The money stopped because of the loss of the mans contractors licence due to the demands of the mother of Meridith. Owning a business does not mean you are rich. He started his business not long before he met the mother of Meridith. Her demands prevented him from keeping his business because of the loss of his contractors licence. He is now homeless. Thanks to the revoking of his drivers licence because of the mother filing more reports of him not paying money he does not have. The loss of his vehicals and the repossession threats to a vehicle he was using to work with and not being able to drive because of the loss of his drivers licence hiring someone to drive him to and from the little work he was doing to keep on top of his responsibilitys. It is not his falt he is depressed, from his not being able to have a relationship with his only child at all because of the mental abuse he gets every time he contacts her mother. The loss of his business, aility to drive, non relationship with his daughter, loss of all his possesions, and friends. Thanks to Daryls mother and I we were able to help him keep his work vehical but is now in danger of being taken again because of a illness he recentaly went through. We are not able to help him at this time. If the motherof Meridith would have been less demanding and more compassionate things would have turned out alot diffrent. If she believes I have not been as good of a Aunt as I should have been then she can take the blame for that too, because of her trying to get information she wanted out of me and not believing the truth. He does need to take some blame I am not putting the hole deal off on Meridiths mother. He should have taken care of the issue along time ago. It did get out of hand and he should have been more responsable but he didn't. He is now trying to get things taken care of. He is still homeless because of the need of Laywers. I hope Meridiths mother is happy she helped him destroy his life. I understand Meridith is going to college and has always had a good life. I thank Her Mother for doing that for her. But I can not forgive her for taking a loving relationship away from Meridiths father and the closeness we could have had as a Aunt and niece.