Phil b
Plymouth,#2Author of original report
Mon, March 07, 2011
On February 25, 2011, I receive a certified letter from Aaron saying that my posting here had recently been brought to his attention. He stated that when we worked together he was under the impression that we had a good client-contractor relationship. How he arrived at this impression based on the number of times we contacted him to complain, and that our final contact was my telling him we never wanted to see or hear from him again is beyond me.
He also stated that he felt his reputation had been damaged by the posting for various reasons, most notably was that he now claims none of his employees were illegal aliens. He states now that he has documentation to prove all his employees were legally on his payroll. This is in direct conflict with what we were told at the time. On several occasions he told both my wife and I that most of the guys working on the site were not legal, and that it was really the only way he could operate and still make a profit based on the economy. On his one return visit the spring after he installed the pond, he told us both that he was getting a late start because not all of his crew was "able to make it back across the border yet." Yet now, he claims this is not the case. Whether or not they were legal, I have no way to confirm, all I can tell you is what we were told at the time. It's kind of that old "were you lying to us then, or are you lying to us now?" routine. You can't offer two diametrically opposed versions of the story and have them both be true.
He also complained that I should not have made statements about his wife's spending habits and the bounced checks. The reason I did, as I stated in my first posting, was to illustrate why we felt sorry for him and didn't tell him to just eat the amount over the price he quoted us. We could very easily have told him we just weren't going to pay it, and that his financial problems were his own, but we tried to give him a break because of the situation he repeatedly told us about. If he was that concerned about it getting out or about what people thought, he had the option of keeping it to himself.
He also complains about my referring to him as a con man. In my reply to him, I explain that “Con man” is short for “Confidence Man,” an individual who gains the trust (confidence) of the target, then orchestrates a situation where the target puts up money or goods and then the “con man” reneges either in part or in whole on their end of the transaction. This is exactly what happened here. I will state for the record that, to the best of my knowledge, it has not been proven in court that he is a con man. It is simply my personal opinion that it would be reasonable to refer to someone who makes several thousand dollars profit by quoting one price, charging another, plays on the sympathy of his client by telling a sob story, and providing a grossly substandard product in the process, as a con man. The alternative would be to think of him as an idiot who lacks the ability to understand what he's doing. So my personal opinion is still that this was a con, but in response to his request, please feel free to think of him as completely inept rather than dishonest. You certainly have the right to roll the dice and form your own opinion. Just don't say you weren't warned of the potential outcome.
He also advised me that I had 10 days to remove the post, or that he would seek legal recourse. I explained to him that the site does not provide the ability to remove the posting, and that he had the option of posting a rebuttal. I did note, however, that the ONLY allegation he claimed was false was the portion about his employees, but that he created that situation by telling us they were illegal in the first place.
So, I will keep you up to date as to whether or not he actually files a suit. Since there are no legal grounds whatsoever to file, let alone win a case, I'm not overly concerned. I would welcome one, however, if he chooses to do so. It would give me an opportunity to state in court what happened and make it a legal record for other prospective clients to investigate.