Complaint Review: Julia Martin Bradley - Louisville Kentucky

This woman formally of Springville Alabama. Is a nut and she tells half truths and she portrays herself as a victim of domestic violence and has done it more than once to get out of a marriage. This woman calls me a homosexual. What a joke! She's never came home early from work and found another man sleeping in our bed, but I came home and found another woman laying in ours! I've never let another man just come in and out of our home as they pleased and had to go with me everywhere I went. These two women were together so much neighbors and co-workers were telling me they found it odd that they would walk together while I tagged along. I've never made excuses to get out of the house to go see another man, but Julie would make these outrageous excuses to go and see her. Yes there was a gay and l*****n hotline. Gay and l*****n! I called the hotline because I thought my wife was having an affair with this woman. This woman she was with couldn't even walk to the corner store by herself without Julie tagging along. She pulls the mattress off of the bed when I wanted to have sex so her girlfriend wouldn't hear us in the next room.The final straw was when we were in Crackle Barrel with her mother and she said when we move back to Alabama what is ***** going to do? Her own mother thought it was odd. I've never let another man tag along with us on vacations, yet we couldn't go anywhere without this woman. We were in Hammond, Indiana and while in a local Mall they were walking together holding hands while I was walking behind them. When Julie would visit the doctor this woman went with her and I had no knowledge that she even went to the doctor. I only found out because I got a call from a collection agency saying that we owed Jewish Hospital 500 dollars and it was not paid! What kind of wife doesn't even tell her own husband about her diabetes? I found out from a co worker at the hospital where I worked and I went through her purse and found a glucose meter.

This woman claims she was in a trapped marriage with me, but she wasn't going anywhere. She needed someone to support her. And she wasn't going back to Springville, Alabama because she used me to get out of there and there was no way she was going to go back to that. I even tried to get her to leave. I told another woman over the phone in front of her that I loved her and as soon as Julie leaves I would marry her. Why didn't she leave then? Because she knew that if she left she would be stuck and with no where to go.

If someone was beating the hell out of you like she claims where is the proof? No Police reports, no pictures, no ER or doctor visits, no anything! During the meeting with the judge when I told him that I was moving back to Alabama she yelled at the judge saying that I could not quit my job she has medical conditions and I am responsible for them. The judge said that he could not stop me leaving and that is when she took the car and wrecked it and told the police that I had tried to kill her.

I have been with my current wife for eleven years and we have not a much as lifted a hand towards each other. Julie would do what ever she could do to provoke me into a physical confrontation. I would call my dad and he said whatever you do, don't hit her because that is what she wants you to do. Once you do it then she will have you. I even told him that I was considering leaving and he advised me just to tough it out and let her make the first mistake.

I am glad that she did what she did because I wouldn't be with the woman that I am with now if it had not happened. I got on with my life, but she like during our marriage still needs the feel like she has some control on my life. My wife confronts her on facebook and Julie said that she needs to leave her and her family alone and that my wife needs to grow up. It only proves my point that this woman has a mental defect. She quits her job and drives up to Clarksville, Indiana without my knowledge or consent. She lives with me for over a year and doesn't tell me that she is still a married another man. I was in the Coast Guard at the time and I could have been jailed or kicked out of the service under the uniform code of military justice for adultly which is a criminal offense. And when she told me that her husband before me had beaten her and she had to do something to get away from him I gave her the benefit of the doubt. You would think that it would have been a page of my past that you would just like to forget. Julie told my wife that she has already forgotten about me, but she won't let me get on with mine. I am so glad that we didn't have children. It makes me feel sorry for the women in the world that are real victims of domestic violence. This woman will do it again. And I feel it is my responsibility to warn other men that just like a volcano they can be dormant for years, but then they explode and I feel sorry for the man (Jeff) who is in the way of her wrath!