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Complaint Review: N Street Village pat handy - Washington District of Columbia
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N Street Village pat handy
810 5th street nw Washington, 20001 District of Columbia, United States
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N Street Village pat handy Patricia Handy Bullying, hate groups supported Washington District of Columbia
Women come to this shelter because they are trying to escape from abusive situations and cant afford any place else. Imagine the irony that they encourage and condone bullying here. How do they get away with it? Pat Handy the long time social worker whom this shelter is named after would be wagging her finger! The evening staff mean well but overworked it only takes one or two types with narcissistic controlling personality disorder for things to get out of hand.
The social workers dont understand that their s****.>
For a senile old gal she has a pretty good memory for harboring grudges for days and even weeks! She and another gal who hang around the building outside all day in their dc color coded smoker gang were practice their hate rhetoric all day long. Nursing tiny details into huge grudges, gossiping, spreading hate invectives against nonblacks, plotting and condoning retaliatory games, even strategizing how to get others kicked out. At the mediation meeting with a rookie counselor of color he asked me to apologize to the old gal.
He didnt think she had to apologize to me because she just sat there hard faced hostile pretending senility. "I dont know who she is. I dont know her, i dont talk to her, i dont say good morning to her." I said sharing the same bed frame, it would be nice if we could have a civil relationship. "If you touch me i will eff you up!" she shouted a couple of times. I am not a d**e, i am in fact very quiet and considerate just not the chocolate color, so by their group gang code, it is okay to harass me. Their intercultural blindness excludes the fact that i might know more about Dr king jr's life and studied more of his speeches than they ever did. Knowledge experience appreciation dont enter the picture whether it is staff or residents.
The old gal is not senile when she knows and remembers the names of all her pals in the gang. When the old gal wakes up our dorm room 4:30am and tells people its time to get up, why arent they awake yet. When the old gal knows when and how to be polite to all "people who matter." N street needs to realize they are letting bullies determine who can stay and who must go, along with one or two NCPD type staff imho. They make a mockery of mediation by allowing this old gal to try to frame me through small incidents that she is at least partially responsible for.
They need to realize these women can use training courses on positive communication and learning about cultural differences. Not just through food or watching tv all evening like family feud. We have to learn about honoring differences in values lifestyles ways people spend their leisure or work. Respecting different purposes in life you might say. After all wouldnt Pat Handy like it if someone wrote a nice book about her life?
2 Updates & Rebuttals
Merry
Boston,Massachusetts,
United States
She is nice compared to Sinthia
#2Author of original report
Wed, October 17, 2018
Yvonne is really okay as long as you keep your distance because she is quiet. The gals that are hard to put up with purposely keep up a party level noise till lights out. "Lights dont go out till 11! Quiet time after 11!" So Sinthia hangs around her locker all evening like in Jr High and talk any topic to death repeating herself over and over. The in this area also make this sound that is supposed to convey all powerful all seemliness "Hmm-hmm-hmm!" She repeats these refrains like she is a one-person drama queen. N street is offering the big chested free bras and the ladies in the room cant stop talking about how big their breasts are now. By way of bragging 48DD, 52B, or "they dont have a bra my size!" The subjects and obsessiveness and gossipy quality precludes accomplishing anything of intellect in the evenings. No studying, no book reading hardly, no attempt ever to respect other peoples right to privacy solitude peace quiet. Even the zoo is quieter than how they carry on, carry on, then excite the blood for arguing and fighting, because someone said something or crossed a boundary. Sinthia doesnt need a halloween costume she can attend as gossip girl.
Anonymous
Boston,Massachusetts,
United States
N Street zombie-d***s
#3Author of original report
Sat, August 18, 2018
There is this skinny Appalachia type who is committed here. Yvonne or something like that her name. She sits all day long at union station like a freaking zombie. But she dresses rather nice; wears suit jacket or a nice sweater. In fact she spends a lot of time grooming her long wavy white hair. She had a lice problem in the winter. She never reads or anything just sits and observes people. At N street she goes back and forth from the dining room to the bathroom like about 25 times before and after dinner. Her gambit is to try to impress us about her skinny lithe old figure. She passes by me and tries to look me in the eyes. She heaves a sigh when i pass by. She tries to sit behind me or near me if I happen to be near by at union station.
I take pains to avoid her including trying to limit when and where i go at union station. She can't seem to understand i think she is a mental case. She cant seem to read and has no goal other than being able to sit, groom herself, and eat. I gave her some cookies and extra food i had a few times and i highly regret it. I guess after that she thought i was a select gal. If you feed the pidgeons they dont try to mistake you as a sex object but unfortunately this mental case Yvonne does. I want to yell at her or scream at her but all I can do is try to insult her and she still does not get the message. Maybe she was an MKultra sex slave and they lobotomized her after her function was no longer desirable so all she has left in her memory (sit, feed, groom, stare, pacing back and forth) is sex remnants. Please bug off Yvonne. I told the staff about her but they say they are not responsible for what she does on the outside.
