Complaint Review: shane ray mogensen - fremont California

 u did what i did to you/? give me a break. talk about excuses s**t. do u know how to take blame for anything? you had affairs while u say i pay for prostitutes? u know i didnt but now use that to try and justify your sh*t. so why did u keep bringing me back? why after i slapped him did you tell me you wanted to fix our relationship? and then when you got caught the second time why have you kept me from my son? and then i find out about jesse and manny. you did all this but u run like the NPD and BPD you are. remember you use to tell me that same sh*it u tell robert. "you aint going anywhere... i wont let u" "you cant hide from me" and im sure many other people. your son is what should have been the number 1 priority not moving robert in. we should have worked out a plan for him like i asked when u went in the house and called the cops on me. and that still should be your priority. you went from saying you would bail me if i ever went to jail to calling the cops for bullsh*t and slapping me with a dv order. and u think your justified in doing this? sh*t

why is it we have to do everything ur way by ur rules? dont u think thats gotten us were we are? i spent 4 years doing everything to tryh to make u happy for nothing. that's not my job. my son is my #1 responsibility not u. ur being selfish and only concerned with helping yourself

The proof of service is not my job to return to the court it's yours! And I already turned my stuff in so the proof is not my fault. I have been waiting and called the court and they have all my stuff in regards to the response for your petition they are just waiting on ur proof of service they told me.

that's not what happen but its not the point Erin. its is not court ordered that i cant see him the court has yet to establish paternity so they are not allowed to give/order visitations. did u ever stop to think that the paper would not have been a issue if YOU would have served it like u were supposed to with the rest of the papers. did you ever think that i also had pretty much just confirmed that u slept with jesse and manny. on top of the fact  you cheated with your boss got caught PRETENDED you wanted to start over for your family while still continuing to cheat with robert and got caught again. then what happens? all of a sudden u treated me like i had no reason to even exist. i wasnt even worth a apoligy a explanatrion not even a lie. after being with some one for 4 years and helping raise there 2 kids, one since a couple month and having a child with them how does that happen? before i know it you doing anything and everything to put me in jail for wanting to see my son. almost like what??? like he's not mine. im not asking for visitations im asking for today. this court sh* is f*king unreal and youll get your way im sure not cause u deserve it but because its how the system in designed. but we both know that not only did i not hit u, but that i would' hit a girl. if i was i would have after u slapped me and told me u cheated on me. which after all was the truth. thats how much u cared about me. playing little cat and mouse games with jesse cause he tells me your lying and that u did call him. so lets get jesse back while shane is still on the phone with him and admit to cheating so jesse can hear. "u know i was lying right?" remember saying that? thanks. really i keep saying it but it dont sink in. erin i have every right to say u tore my life apart. i take blame for giving you that life but you sh* on it in so many ways. but it happens all the time people move on and get over it. regardless of they get a sorry or not. but its not ur place to tell someone to get over it. yeah im f**king sorry i fell in love with u so much but wasnt that the point? but to keep me from the my inspiration and joy for NO JUSTIFIABLE F*KING REASON. and on top of that bring someone else right in? just letting him play with my son carry him like he the dad. just letting dustin take him like he didnt rob your house put hands on u, put u in danger and skip town on his two kids i raised. TELL ME HOW IM SUPPOSED TO RESPOND. not once have i ever hurt u or the kids. ive never talked bad about u even thought you constantly told them bullshit stories. not cause i didnt want to but because there KIDS. the last thing a kid wants to hear is someone bad mouthing there parent. and we know grandpa loves to do just that. im not asking for your sympathy it wouldnt mean a d**n thing now anyways. im asking you to get it in your head we laid down together and made a adorable son, that WE are BOTH responsible for. i have missed some of the best months of his life and that angers me more than u can ever imagine. nothing will ever bring that back. this is probably the only kid i will have.  u have two others and i would expect you aint done. can it be worked out for me to see my son today Erin?

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This is all court ordered because he told the judge he didn't believe he was the dad so the judge seen no sense in seeing him if he don't feel he is the dad. Court ordered.

erin can u find it in your heart to let me see my son tomorrow. can we meet at a park so i can see him. u can stay in the car or not talk to me or bring robert i dont care. CAN I PLEASE SEE HIM? nothing negative will be said. sh*t if u must just have robert bring him. please give me a answer either way

The result is - document destruction - we're really not going to be able to prove beyond a truth the negatives and some of the positive conclusions that we're going to come to. There will be always unresolved ambiguity here.

Abusive Mothers Have Unresolved Issues
AUTHOR: granny747 - santa fe (United States of America)
SUBMITTED: Friday, February 10, 2012

This report caught my eye due to the similar situation which has happened in my family.  I agree with the information stated regarding the child's mother because I have witnessed this same destructive, manipulative, deceitful behavior exhibited by the mother of my grandchild.

It is mainly the child that suffers and everyone that comes in contact with a false mother will fall prey to her continual playing the victim. These false mothers have no business being parents, unfortunately they are out there, lying to themselves and everyone with whom they contact.

Their only temporary friends also have mental health issues which seem to stem from their own abuse as children and abusing drugs and alcohol throughout their young lives.  I have no viable answers.  I wish that I did, for the sake of these innocent children given over to their cruel and hurtful mothers by do-gooder social workers and state program workers who should know better.

Father's and those who support them must continue to live decent lives free from reproach, such as maintaing their education and/or gainful employment, joining Father's support groups and speaking with their local government, church members, senators, congressmen, state representatives, anyone who will listen.

Obtain proof of the mother's hurtful action/s toward the child.  Never stop fighting for the children - these children must know that their father's and other caring family members will always love them and never stop fighting for the child's well-being and future happiness.

From a medical perspective the mother's actions lead one to believe that she may have one or several mental health issues.  Hiding and concealing her whereabouts not allowing the child to have an open relationship with the father and other relatives - looks to me like child abuse. 

If you look at the statistics don't be fooled by what you read in the mainstream media, the numbers are manipulated to obtain free money from the goverment.  It is mother's who kill their young.  If not physically they do it little-by-little, belittling the child and/or blaming the child for what the father does or does not do. 

It is the mother who acts like it is the end of the world to have her child away from her and yet it is the mother who forces the child to kiss the mother's adult friends and sit on their laps!

Yes, I have witnessed the most horrific abuse to a child, excuse me, I meant to say I have witnessed the result of what the child has experienced after being left with her abusive mother as well as other abuse, like not feeding or changing the child's diapers, forcing the child to eat food an adult would eat like steak! - potato chips, fritos, corn nuts, sunflower seeds in the shell, you know this is no food for an infant of 8 months. 

I disagree with the person who signs their name as Amerikan....they don't have a clue of what they are saying or they for some reason feel they need to protect the mother and not the child.

It is the children that are the victims not necesssarily the mother.  In my case it was the mother who was abusing the father!  Of course most father's will find it difficult to admit they have been victimized by the child's mother and may even try to cover it up.  Keep looking, when things don't add up you will know who is the victim and who is manipulating the court system, law enforcement, social workers and people in their own family. 

In many states CYFD is one of the largest ineffective institutions that protects mothers at any cost, even making false statements and documents in the mother's defense.  Get the best lawyer your money can buy and go out and find your lost daughter.  Go to the courts, file paperwork to obtain your rights.

Put your information on Facebook and all media -possible - make it known that you will never give up and never forget your daughter.  My father tried his best to keep in contact with me when I was a child and showing me that he cared fostered the love and care I passed on to my children.

When it comes to children showing them you care goes further than saying you care. 

My grandchild's abusive mother learned to say "I love you" and practices the words on her child when others are watching.  When my granddaughter surfaces weeks later she is covered with bruises from head to toe, has nightmares, tells me that her mother and her mother's friends hit her as do the children of her mother's friends and more.  Actions speak louder than words!

Although I am elderly and disabled, I am not without resources and one day the world will know exactly how much this child has suffered at the hands of her mother.  Be consistent and persistent love never fails.###

i will be sitting at the playground at rix park. if u could bring my son by so i can see him i would be very greatful. u can stay in your car or get out and not talk to me whatever u want. please im begging u

im not worried about nothing but my son. which u use as your control toy. where is the character in doing the sh*t u did then turning your back on me, only to say u want to work it out while continuing to lie and when caught again not letting me see my son. yeah u got a lot of character. one from days of our lives or jerry springer. show some real concern for your children and act like a grown up who can handle herself with out feeling the need to call the cops when she feels she cant handle  the fallout from her own actions. u are the last person who needs to be giving any advice in regards morals or ethics. you sound redundant

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

u r just dumb. f* dumb. wow

What part of that was a lie. I can care less y u left me. U did what u did. And u did more damage to more people than u know. But that's who u are. Why would I be obsessed with u? Ur not even sorry for cheating with the people mentioned plus ur first bd. At least. And u think that makes me want u? U really can't admit this us about my son and my unreturned property? I'm sure ill always be attracted to u Erin and when we were together i was very nuch in love with u. but I didn't know what I do know. To say im obsessed over something that has been giving away so easy is a joke. If I would have listened to j-whip I would have known better I guess. But what's done is done. And don't forget your the one who started this post. Who's trippen off who now?

I must say it sucks for u! I Don't have anything but ur obsession u got with me. You're trying too Hard to justify why i left u trying to make me look bad when its obvious u got something from one of the craigslist whores u paid to have sex with u! move on!

i aint lied about a d*mn thing. check this b*tches HOEFAX REPORT. at the time she sent me the picture of her infected t**t,i guess robert tejeda wasnt the only person she forgot she was f*cking.JESSE RONQUILLO of union city, fremont,and currently SANTA RITA JAIL,also frequented the va-jay-jay of the 99cent w***e. i would put good money he is who infected her. but still need to find out for sure when Manuel Villagomez was in it cause he f*cks with just as nasty of b*tches as JESSE RONQUILLO. will update. all i have tried to do is see my son. she thinks im sprung on her. wow. get over yourself.