;
  • Report:  #555438

Complaint Review: Vernon Cordle - Internet, Raven, Richlands, Hill Creek, Roseland Virginia

Reported By:
True Blue Avenger - Issaquah, Washington, United States of America
Submitted:
Updated:

Vernon Cordle
Internet, Raven, Richlands, Hill Creek, Roseland, 24641 Virginia, United States of America
Phone:
(276) 701-4577
Web:
http://www.facebook.com/iRIPi
Categories:
Tell us has your experience with this business or person been good? What's this?
Report Attachments

I stupidly fell for this one but WOMEN BEWARE!--this dude is married but develops relationships online with trusting and unsuspecting women.  He looks for single mothers and/or other vulnerable or open types of women in chat rooms and on social sites.  He starts out as a "good friend" but then manipulates his way into your life to get more later on, such as money, trips and sex. He might let you know he is married eventually but will always say they haven't had a "real marriage" in years...blah...blah...blah. 

At first he will talk about leaving his wife and will even leave temporarily to promote his scam (just stays with relatives temporarily though).  He also claims his wife, Tina Cordle, aged 38 & her mother, Irene, aged 55, threaten and abuse him physically and emotionally and force him to stay living with them...or force him to move back in with them.  He's a liar and an expert at playing the victim and gaining sympathy from all.  He's a master manipulator though, and no matter who he gets involved with online, he will never follow through on promises made, etc.  You will likely loose "something"--whether it's money, time...or just your trust for men.  The bottom line: you will get screwed over. 

He uses his own relatives too...mooches off of them, and he rarely keeps a job or works steady.  He has an excuse for everything once he does screw you over...and anyone else he screws over (including his relatives).  Meanwhile, he will continue to lead you on as long as he can manipulate and use you.  He even uses his own grown daughter, who is bipolar, as an excuse for why he can't follow through on things.  If you buy him something or loan him money, he will never pay you back.  And if you can't offer him what he needs financially and/or otherwise, he will look and go for the next best opportunity--including moving back in with his wife & her mother (he seems to have something strange going on with BOTH of them too).  Yet he will pop up in your life again later apologizing and promising things will be different this time around. 

Watch out for his wife, Tina, and her mother, Irene, also--if they find out who you are and know you've been talking to him, they will attack you (at least online/via phone) and make death threats.  They are vile witches.  But if he discovers you have less money, tolerance, and so on than his wife & her mother do at any given moment in time, he will turn his back on you suddenly & claim you are stalking him when you try to contact him to see whats going on.  He will claim that he's only trying to do what's right and is getting back together with his wife...and/or taking care of his sick (bipolar) grown daughterbut he wont explain this to you.  Youll be left in the darkbroken-heartedand with less money than you had before you met him.  And just when you might think youve gotten past him, he will resurface in your life againBEWARE! 

Look out ladies!--there are a lot of these types of dudes out there!  Especially be aware of this one though.  He even fools educated women like myself.  Dont waste your money, time, counseling sessions, or life on this one!



4 Updates & Rebuttals

True Blue Avenger

Issaquah,
Washington,
USA
Never Rectified

#2Author of original report

Thu, January 28, 2010



Update: As of today, I havent heard from Vernon Cordle regarding the money he still owes me and had previously agreed to pay me back.  I was even willing to settle for the money he owed on an old debt only and wasnt even counting money spent recently.



 



Right after I broke up with this jerk and he moved back in with his wife, he apparently started up with someone new onlinea single mother, of course, in another state (poor silly woman).



 



Granted, I had let Vernon Cordle know that Id be dating other people when I ended things with him, but the difference is I am not married.  He is still married and has moved back in with his wife (and her mother), but he is apparently pursuing yet another online relationship too (and probably would pursue more like it if he could). 



 



Ladies!he doesnt even have any money though!  Look out.  His main appeal besides his sense of humor is that he plays such a good victim.  I guess it appeals to womens nurturing side (hence his pursuit of single moms I think).  Im not really sure how he does it to tell you all the truthI guess thats what makes him good as a con man.



 



He still wanted to see me too after he moved back in with his wife.  See copies of IMs below:



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:11:34 PM): I know I would still like to see you in Feb. I haven't changed how I feel about you, I couldn't do that if I wanted to.



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:12:45 PM): how are we gonna see each other when you are living back with your wife?



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:14:06 PM): I am in the same house but not living wiht her, I made that clear... I am here for [my grown daughter] and so I can have a place to be to get to be able to work.



 



[...other unrelated messages in between]



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:22:12 PM): more importantly.....my message from above: "still you are living with the beast(s) and still married to it.......so in her eye and the world's ur married and not separated anymore"



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:23:13 PM): Well I can't help how the world see's things and I could don't give a rats ass about what tina thinks.



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:23:52 PM): and she will be fine with you going off to meet me in Feb?



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:27:00 PM): I don't it, she isn't fine with any of it if you want to consider her. brb ...



 



 



Yup!stay away from this one...or any dude like this one!  Wow!  I know I will never get my money back from Vernon Cordle, and this makes the second time he has screwed me overhes a liar through and through.  Lesson learned. Watch out for predators like this one, especially if youre grieving or at a vulnerable or low point in your life.  These types look for an easy mark.  I was a widow with children. 



 



I even had a counselor tell me that Vernon Cordle was a predator, yet I stupidly fell for his game again.  In fact, when I told him what the counselor had said about him before, he told me that he would prove the counselor wrong this time.  He didn't.



 



-->



Update: As of today, I havent heard from Vernon Cordle regarding the money he still owes me and had previously agreed to pay me back.  I was even willing to settle for the money he owed on an old debt only and wasnt even counting money spent recently.



 



Right after I broke up with this jerk and he moved back in with his wife, he apparently started up with someone new onlinea single mother, of course, in another state (poor silly woman).



 



Granted, I had let Vernon Cordle know that Id be dating other people when I ended things with him, but the difference is I am not married.  He is still married and has moved back in with his wife (and her mother), but he is apparently pursuing yet another online relationship too (and probably would pursue more like it if he could). 



 



Ladies!he doesnt even have any money though!  Look out.  His main appeal besides his sense of humor is that he plays such a good victim.  I guess it appeals to womens nurturing side (hence his pursuit of single moms I think).  Im not really sure how he does it to tell you all the truthI guess thats what makes him good as a con man.



 



He still wanted to see me too after he moved back in with his wife.  See copies of IMs below:



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:11:34 PM): I know I would still like to see you in Feb. I haven't changed how I feel about you, I couldn't do that if I wanted to.



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:12:45 PM): how are we gonna see each other when you are living back with your wife?



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:14:06 PM): I am in the same house but not living wiht her, I made that clear... I am here for [my grown daughter] and so I can have a place to be to get to be able to work.



 



[...other unrelated messages in between]



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:22:12 PM): more importantly.....my message from above: "still you are living with the beast(s) and still married to it.......so in her eye and the world's ur married and not separated anymore"



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:23:13 PM): Well I can't help how the world see's things and I could don't give a rats a*s about what tina thinks.



 



true blue avenger (1/5/2010 3:23:52 PM): and she will be fine with you going off to meet me in Feb?



 



slimmanrip (1/5/2010 3:27:00 PM): I don't it, she isn't fine with any of it if you want to consider her. brb ...



 



 



Yup!stay away from this one...or any dude like this one!  Wow!  I know I will never get my money back from Vernon Cordle, and this makes the second time he has screwed me overhes a liar through and through.  Lesson learned. Watch out for predators like this one, especially if youre grieving or at a vulnerable or low point in your life.  These types look for an easy mark.  I was a widow with children. 



 



I even had a counselor tell me that Vernon Cordle was a predator, yet I stupidly fell for his game again.  In fact, when I told him what the counselor had said about him before, he told me that he would prove the counselor wrong this time.  He didn't.



 




True Blue Avenger

Issaquah,
Washington,
USA
You continue to do what you do...

#3Author of original report

Sat, January 23, 2010

BTW: It's amazing how you, VC, continue to lie here in your rebuttal and still not take any responsibility for your behavior and actions...unbelievable really.


True Blue Avenger

Issaquah,
Washington,
United States of America
Rectify

#4Author of original report

Wed, January 20, 2010

Vernon Cordle--Thanks for your rebuttal.  Ripoff Report never removes complaints posted here.  Besides I stand by my word, and no one should be treated the way you've treated people (not just me).  Also, no one should have to endure threats, especially death threats (from anyone).  I don't want anyone to have to go through similar. My complaint is a warning to other women out there.

As far as money goes--just pay me back what you owe me from 8 years ago, and we'll call it even.  That's the main debt I'm talking about and the one you just said you'd pay not too long ago.  As soon as you do, I will update the complaint here, and your name will be cleared for that.

For the lying and so forth, apologies from all involved would make a major difference.  It won't erase the past, but it will help, and I would update the complaint here for that too.

Cat


SliMan

United States of America
Over the top!

#5REBUTTAL Individual responds

Wed, January 20, 2010

 Catherine Nortthcutt, I think that what you have posted here is over the top and that you have went out of your way to make me out to be something that I am not! I am not a bad person and I don't scan the internet looking for women to take advantage of for any reason, you are the first, only and believe me the last person I have had any kind of a realtionship with from meeting on the internet.

 All the things that you have said here, mentioning other peoples names, including phone numbers and etc was really uncalled for. I never had any ill gotten games in mind when we meet or at any time that we was making contact with each other, yet you you made it out like I was forcing you in some way to do the things you done, when the truth is you and someone else planned the things that you spent money on. Yeah we talked about it but I keep telling you that I didn't want to do anything till I had money of my own to do with. Yet you are the one that told me repeatdly to not worry about the money, I even told you that you would end up throwing it up in my face!

 You had no right to talk bout other people on here, esp. my daughter that was just not nice!

 I don't think you realize what you have done by posting this and slandering me and others. I guess we never know people as well as we might think we do, Yeah neither of us are perfect but you have really went to far here. I am gonna ask you nicely to have this removed and if it's not and yo continue to slander my name then futher actions my be taken.

 One last thoguht, this is a cheap nasty way to trash someones name, espcially when you say you love that person, and you have the nerve to say some of the things you did about me?!?

Report Attachments
Reports & Rebuttal
Respond to this report!
Also a victim?
Repair Your Reputation!
//