driver,mechanic..unemployeed
south rockwood,#2Consumer Comment
Mon, March 29, 2010
Hay man sorry to see that you are having problems, I have danced the FOC dance for years myself. What I can tell you is. this system does not care if you and your family eats or not. They let these female stand in open court and lie. They take every word for the truth. I will tell you that if you just pay her the money make sure you go though the system. Do not pay her one dime more than is required. If you kid needs something after that then decide if you want to pay for it or tell them that that is why you pay child support. See the money is not for the other parent it is to help thak care of the living expence of the kids not a payday for mom. I personal believe that the child support should not be more that 1/2 what the mother makes. But they come up with some stupid a mount that puts you in the hole form the start. As far as you paying her for medical bills that the State paid for. You should pay what you owe then trun her in for fraud. Still never pay her pay the system. life is hard exspecially when you have a person that does not work just collecting off the system. And you only need a lawyer if you have a chance of going to jail. You can speak for yourself otherwise. Save the money you are going to need it. As far as her lying to the judge make a note of what she says and prove her wrong after a few times of this the judge will know she is a lyier. One more thing do not take your new wife to court with you. All she will be is a new tool for your x to fight with or tell stories about. My x and my wife have not spoken to each other in 18 years. My x has no reason to asker her anything if she wants to know anything about our life together, I tell her to it is none of the concern. Keeps the drama down to a simmer. Remember that your kid is the one your x goes to to talk bad about you, So you have to be the rock that she ( the x ) can beat down and talk bad to that way you can have a relationship with your kids. I own most of the things that she said you own, what I would tell her is if she would work like everyone else she could have nice things also. What you and your new wife have is of no concern to her, put it in your wifes name, your child support is based on what you make not what you have. Just a note: my lawyer told me 19 years ago. Keep it simple. I make between 60,000 and 70,000 a year. My child support was 168.$ a month.. Yes she tried for year to get the court to raise it, so I filed the papers and got custody of my child. Remember you have rights use them.......GOOD LUCK