Barbara uses online dating sites to meet guys. She will pretend like she likes you and use you for your money. She will ghost you by the 4th or 5th date. Over 50% of psycholgists, mental health counselors, and therapists view ghosting as passive - agressive behvior. They consider ghosting mental abuse and harasdment. Also, she stole a Sterling Silver Necklace and a pair of Ariat boots from my friend.