Complaint Review: Michelle L. Ravens - Simi Valley California

This review is based solely on Michelle, she did screw up my sons hair and he was not happy, I feel its important to warn her co-workers and anyone who considers getting close to her to be careful of her.  For the past 2 years she’s been a meth addict and lately she’s been really letting her colors show to the point I feel like I must warn others and going out of her way to be (a real friend) friend which I now regret ever even meeting at all. She has no respect for the one’s close to her and co workers who she has talked about them and their personal problems that have opened up to her, well shes has told me everything and know most of you there by name…

More than you would probably want any strangers to know about you. Shes had something to say about pretty much everyone she works with at sometime. She has also gone out of her way to talk about her own 21 yr old daughters issues who has asked her "not to" but feels the need to do so still and lets others know how self conscious she is about her acne and flat chest. Thats only the beginning tho, and has lied to her many times on her whereabouts while she was at my house getting high on meth!.

Alejandra, when you recently called on her to cover you for personal issues you had and needed to cover for u while you take off... Well, Michelle wasn’t with her mom as she claimed she was, she was getting high with me and I quote “just didn’t wanna do it”. Also, a lil while back when you thought it smelled like someone was smoking weed in the restroom? Well there was, and Michelle was that one and was so freaked out about it and thought she was caught that she never attempted doing it again but did so on a regular basis prior to that day happening.

Stefani, it was mentioned how your boyfriend Geoff was ignoring you and I will stop there since I’m sure you got the picture that if you have talked to her then I guarantee that I know too. She has a history of theft and you can see for yourself on localcrimenews.com if you search the last name Ravens also there’s 3 charges and 2 of which are burglary and a theft.

She’s even got the audacity to complain about the family who she lives with which just blows my mind.  To complain about people who let you stay in their house is just a real piece of work in my opinion. Actually complaining when they open their house to you is just mind blowing. She claims she is clean now but I dont believe it for a minute and is something that should be definitely looked into since she says she's clean then someone should throw a test at her to pee into since she does open and close that store there on Tapo Canyon, or at least take note of it.

I found this out the hard way when I had a seizure in her new car and she has known the entire 3-4 years I’ve known her that I was epileptic and actually quit talking to me completely because during the seizure I peed myself in her car and that was what she was so upset about. I have offered numerous times to clean it and used to detail cars and have the stuff for doing it and could do a much better job than the average person, and she still wouldn’t let me do it and feel a lil better about what happened, rather than mask it with numerous air fresheners that just makes me feel even worse. Even tho she had a seizure at my house before and I never treated her any different afterwards, but she can cut a friend off who she talked to everyday for 3-4 years and that alone just really leaves me in shock that someone is capable of that when nothing even happened prior to that to bring on the rage that followed when i became conscious again and treated as if I did it on purpose.

It just goes to show you the kinda person she really is and just wanted to warn anyone who even considers being any kinda friend or god forbid anything more… Let this be a warning, she will go out of her way to assure you that she is not that way but then cut you off 100% like you never even existed, it’s BEYOND SICKENING!!!

She was only concerned about her car and even tho I ended up urinating myself during the seizure she was yelling loud enough over and over what my neighbors both say lasted between 30 mins to 45 mins of her yelling at me to "Get the f**k out out of her car!"That got my neighbors attention across the street, at almost midnight and for me to "get the f**k out of her car!!" during the time I was completely unconscious like that would help or something. She eventually text messaged me after I finally came to and she left telling me she never wanted to see me again as if I had it planned out and did it on purpose or something. We were very close for about 3-4 years and talked EVERYDAY throughout the day from the time we woke up til going to sleep and eventually becoming a couple.

I got thrown aside like I was some piece of garbage even tho I used to detail cars and wanted to clean it for her to earn my dignity back being 45 yr old who has accidents peeing on stuff, and she wouldn't let me. I have talked to her a few times since and it's always short because she feels the need to keep making me feel horrible over something I had absolutely no control over happening. She treated me like I was alert and just urinated in her car for no reason and has talked to me and treated me that way ever since. I have never in my 30 yrs of being epileptic ever had this sort of reaction from any female I had ever come across in my life, and because of that it made it by far the worse experience I ever had with someone and how they reacted to it. It triggered new symptoms I've never had to deal with before then, and how I felt about myself, and just the fact of not being able to ride in a car period. I dont drive for the very same reason. Now I feel I can't even be a passenger which really brought me down to the point that I actually contemplated suicide and was so close that when I look back it actually scares me because I have a teenage son that I never even considered at that time and never have I ever thought about taking my own life for any reason EVER before this. She acted as if I was joking about it when I told her days after it took place and just wanted to get sympathy, which is not the case at all. I hated the fact that I even admitted to that at all, and now acts like it's not her problem to deal with... Even after 3-4 years of talking every single day, and never a day that passed without the 2 of us talking to each other and I mean "Good Morning" text messages and thru the day and would end with a "Goodnight" before we went to sleep, and  wants nothing to do with me over this now and just the not talking alone has me in complete shock, and feels like a huge piece of me is missing and Its disgusted me that she would even make me feel any differently than I made her when she had one at my house, but she sees as no big issue. She has done nothing but yell at me ever since I regained consciousness saying I traumatized her. I get they can be scary but she has experienced one from me before, and even weeks later still says she's traumatized which is utter nonsense, I get a day or two, even three days... but weeks???

It's just another shot at me to make me feel as bad as I can possibly feel over this. I feel like she picked the wrong time to end things between us because from my point of view doesn't see any other reasons but that and leave me with that kind of a complex over it to deal with. Anyone I've spoken to about it always gets a look of disgust on their face and says she's not even worth keeping if she's gonna act like that to me over a medical condition she was well aware of, knowing I had seizures. Now she can litterally care less about me period it seems and wont even come get the few things of hers from my house, like I'm gonna plan another one or something. Her response is just by far the worse I've ever seen in my entire life and it's hit new areas that have never been affected before because i've thought i've dealt with every reaction so far and now I just learned that is apparently not the case. I tell her this to try and make her undersrtand that being epileptic is hard enough to live with without people acting stupid about it, and she just doesn't care what I'm trying to say. It's disgusting how someone can turn on someone so quickly and we weren't even fighting just prior to it either, that's the part I can't make sense of. Shes shallow and very callous and needs to be warned before anyone else in the same situation comes across her and maybe wasnt as fortunate to deal with it in a way like me and where they did end up taking their own life over it. Its not a joke and it's hard enough to deal with going through life as it is without someone like that coming into my life and leads me to think she's understanding and accepts me for who I am, and then completely turns on me like im some freak that meant nothing to her...

It just turns my stomach to even think any human is capable of that sorta behavior and its just beyond sickening. Please take this serriously, I have heard so many stories from her about her so called past and its not her past its her current as well and even would assure me that it wasn't like that anymore but it's bullshit and hides behind that church girl image but its far from true so BEWARE OF HER!!!