Warning! Based on my experience, I would recommend not to use this website as a paid member.
Adultfriendfinder is repeatedly changing the conditions for the membership for extorting ever more money from their users.
1) As a paid silver member, they made it impossible last year to contact new users. This change was introduced after I have subscribed for the silver membership.
2) Even when contacting standards members from a gold membership account, the standards members can no longer reply, unless one is purchasing some extra option which costs almost as much as the entire gold membership. This change has been introduced recently after I had subscribed for the gold membership.
I've been a gold member for over 6 years and don't have any idea what you're complaining about.
I have only seen the service improve over the years - especially the live webcams.